Jan 2020 - Thread 4

[mynameisMrG]

Onto thread four already! Wow we like a chat!

EDD 7/01/20 with DS2

@DaisyMay25 they're due back today so nervously waiting by my phone 🤞🏼
So pleased you're feeling better!

My no sickness day lasted until 9.30am and has come with vengeance - my stomach feels like I've just done 100 sit ups 🤢 it was good whilst it lasted.

@Kinsters Asian culture or not, I still can't believe anyone would think that's ok to say!

@Bentley111 fingers cr

*crossed for you then!
Oh no! I do hope you start to feel better soon. Did they change your tablets?

Hope your bloods are ok @Bentley111 -we're both 10+5 today I think coz your EDD is same as mine! Xx

Does anyone know what the blood test at the booking in appointment was for? And when do we get the results?

Thank you 😊

@MrsPandigital I found this online for you. I think they call you if they find anything otherwise they just discuss at your next midwife appointment.

How do I get added to the Facebook group?

@NoMoreFastCars82 good luck today 💙xx

@NoMoreFastCars82 I hope the scan went well.

I won't be joining the facebook group until after the 12 week scan/test results, I couldn't bear to have to leave if I don't have good news. And I've got a bit of brown blood on wiping on occasion at the moment, so that's freaking me out.

Hi ladies,

Scan confirmed MMC xx I am in next week for a d&c Friday but one more scan and bloods Monday to be safe xx

I want to thank you all so much for everything and all the wonderful words and I am actually glad I got to get to know you all xx

I wish every one of you the best pregnancy, easiest labours and the healthiest babies you could have xx

@NoMoreFastCars82 your joking I can't believe this I'm so sorry for you really been rooting for you we all have, really upset my day hearing this I'm so sorry for you and your oh. I really hope we see you again on these boards will always have my eye out for your name. Sending you so much love and hugs and again I'm so sorry 💖💖xxxx

Oh NoMore, I am so sorry for your loss - I know nothing anyone can say will make any of this feel better but be kind to yourself and take all the time you need fo grieve

So sorry @NoMoreFastCars82 look after yourself. Give yourself time to grieve too. I hope the d&c goes to plan and it's all over quickly for you. xx

Oh @NoMoreFastCars82 I am so sad for you. I really thought it was going to be a positive outcome. Look after yourself and hope to see your name again with a healthy and long pregnancy xx

Oh I'm so so sorry @NoMoreFastCars82 . I checked in hoping to goodness to read a positive update

We had a MC late last year and there are no words. Please make sure you take time out to look after yourself and I really hope to see your name pop up again in these boards soon xx

@NoMoreFastCars82 I'm so sorry to hear this 😢 take care of you

@NoMoreFastCars82 Oh I'm so sorry my love. How awful.

Bigs hugs to you and your OH. Look after yourself. xx

My thoughts are with you @NoMoreFastCars82, sorry to hear your update, take time to look after yourself and grieve

@NoMoreFastCars82 so so sorry for your loss. Can only echo what the other ladies have said, I hope you feel ready to try again and will look out for you on mn in the future xxxx

Thanks all,

I think part of me knew when that awful sonographer did the scan Monday, that she was accurate and I prepared myself for the worst and haven't cried today yet xx I think later it'll happen xx

Don't think I won't be back and soon as possible lol xx OH and I have had a chat this morning and we are going to let things happen when they happen xx

So sorry to hear that NoMoreFastCars, miscarriage is horrible. You'll get through it though. There are some really lovely supportive threads over on conception and hopefully you'll find yourself pregnant again really soon x

There is a secret Facebook page @MamaGeordie and @splishandsplash. I think if you message @victoriaaaaa (I can't remember how many aaaaa's there is lol - perhaps look back through the thread for her) your email address she can add you. There's one more admin person but I'm not sure what they're Mumsnet name is - sorry! Not particularly helpful.

I'm so sorry @NoMoreFastCars82. I hope you are being looked after and taking it easy.

So sorry it’s bad news @NoMoreFastCars82 😢

OH lost it in a drivers lounge waiting for his lorry to be unloaded and I lost it once I got back to my friends house as she drove me xx

It's all so unfair and I'm heartbroken and trying to think with my head a bit and keep it together but now the tears have flowed I'm a little unsteady xx

I will keep an eye on how you're doing as I want wonderful things for you all and amazing happy endings for everyone xx

I won't go far as it won't be long I'm sure xx

@DaisyMay25 thank you so much!!