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Due in January 2020

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Pocopearl3 · 22/04/2019 23:30

Is anyone else due in Jan 2020? My dates are a bit iffy 🤣 but I’m either due 30/12 or 2/1. Baby number 4 ( I swear we were stopping at 1). 🤣

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Kinsters · 13/05/2019 03:55

Hi everyone, I've not been on the thread for a while. I had a small amount of spotting which freaked me out but it happened over a week ago and no more since so I'm trying to forget about it. Only a few days to wait till my first scan (this Saturday when I should be anywhere from 6+2 to 7+1).

I've been feeling so light headed the last few days, horrible feeling that I don't remember getting with my other pregnancy (hoping it is a good sign as the last one ended in MMC).

It was mothers day where I live yesterday and I was so pleased when the first thing DH said to me in the morning was happy mother's day 😁

SleepingStandingUp my stomach feels a bit tight but mostly lower down.

Lyssa91 · 13/05/2019 04:22

Totally new to this! I got a BFP from a home P test and then confirmed at the doctor's. Due Jan 10, 2020. This is my first P. A little worried since I woke up with no symptoms today. Past 2 weeks I have had nausea,breast tenderness and constantly peeing. Today I feel normal. I hope I am not MC. Help!

Lyssa91 · 13/05/2019 04:34

@erin2016 going off my LMP I have an EDD of January 10,2020 too!!! Congratulations btw!

walnut87 · 13/05/2019 05:20

@sleepingstandingup I feel really tight across my tummy, especially my right side. I thought it might be a) worked too hard at gym (unlikely) or b) something connected to operation I had at the start of the year, but maybe not if other people feel this?

Kinsters · 13/05/2019 06:06

Ahh can't believe it, just after posting that message I start spotting again. This is so stressful. I hope it doesn't turn into heavier bleeding but I don't feel positive about it. I had the tiniest amount at 11am then a bit heavier at 1pm.

In my last pregnancy I did have sporadic spotting but the Dr said it was just my cervix and not related to the miscarriage. I guess I can hope it's the same but ergh. Why can't this be simple?

SleepingStandingUp · 13/05/2019 06:42

@Lyssa91 Saturday I woke up and spent the morning feeling REALLY teary and sick, and threw up. Sunday I felt normal all day. It does genuinely vary each day x

@Kinsters keeping everything crossed for you that you get an amazing scan this week x

SleepingStandingUp · 13/05/2019 06:43

@walnut87 maybe a bit of several? Round ligament pain and other stretching pains can start ridiculously early

SuperPixie247 · 13/05/2019 06:54

Does anyone else feel absolutely rotten?

I ache all over like I am getting the worst flu, my boobs are so sore I can barely lift my arms up and I just want to curl up in bed! I'm almost at the 6 weeks mark.

plipliop · 13/05/2019 06:57

I feel pretty nauseous but haven't been sick.
I feel like I need to eat every two hours or that feeling creeps in.

So tired but waking up at 5/6 AM.

V sore boobs.

Sorry for all of you with spotting Sad

SleepingStandingUp · 13/05/2019 07:03

Super sounds like you might actually have a bug ☹️

SaffRW · 13/05/2019 07:24

Morning everyone. I have had a rough weekend... had really painful tummy cramps throughout the night on Saturday and started spotting when I woke up Sunday. I didn’t know who to turn to as I am only 5+5 and still waiting for the referral to go through with midwife. So I phoned 111 who suggested I went to walk in centre, the dr examined me and did a pregnancy test which was negative which was quite a shock for me as I was only light bleeding/spotting at this stage and said I was most likely miscarrying. Got to go to GP today for further tests but have had a lot of bleeding since then which has got heavier and heavier so I know I have definitely miscarried or maybe it was a chemical pregnancy to start with (I don’t really understand the difference...) Absolutely devastated and going to take a couple of days off work to recover.

I will remove myself from the thread but wanted to share incase anyone is going through same thing and wish you all the very best. Xx

Kinsters · 13/05/2019 07:34

So sorry that happened to you SaffRW, the test being negative must have been a horrible shock.

I hope you get pregnant again soon ❤️

Kinsters · 13/05/2019 08:10

Thanks for the good wishes SleepingStandingUp. I'm so worried this isn't going to end well because the spotting has like little clots in it and when it was just my cervix I had only one tiny amount but this has carried on all day now (although it's the little clots that worry me the most).

I've had two chemicals and one MMC already, I really hoped this would be it.

Andromeida59 · 13/05/2019 09:06

So sorry @SaffRW

SleepingStandingUp · 13/05/2019 09:35

So sorry Saff

Kinsters is it worth contacting 111, see if they can get you seen anywhere?

Kinsters · 13/05/2019 09:37

I'm not in the UK so no 111. I could go and see my dr anytime but I don't think there's much point as she couldn't stop the miscarriage if it's going to happen.

My DH is away until Friday evening and we've got an early scan booked Saturday morning so I'll see what happens in the meantime. Even if it does end up being another miscarriage at least I've got the appointment booked.

Bentley111 · 13/05/2019 09:53

Oh no @Kin I'm so sorry this is happening. Is it easing up? Red or brown blood? xx

So sorry @Saff what an awful shock that must have been for you. Look after yourself Flowers

BowiesJumper · 13/05/2019 10:10

@SaffRW so sorry to hear that. Lots of love.

To all those spotting, fingers crossed for you.

Welcome to all the new people!

I'm not really having any symptoms anymore, which is obviously making me worry! I'm going to do another cb with weeks in a day or two to check it has progressed to 3+ ! I'm so ridiculous...

Kinsters · 13/05/2019 10:39

It's brown Bentley and I've had none since lunch time so it's not progressing at least. And I've had no cramps yet. So they're good signs but it's the clotty appearance that's really worried me. I don't think that's ever a good sign.

DaisyMay25 · 13/05/2019 11:17

Fingers crossed to everyone having spotting and bleeding that everything is okay!

I'm almost 7 weeks and the nausea has come back with a vengeance! I couldn't stand up yesterday without wanting to be sick (I haven't actually been sick though) god knows how I'll cope at work today!

Anybody having scans this week??

BowiesJumper · 13/05/2019 11:29

@Kinsters I had a few brown clotty bits, and one red clotty bit in my last pregnancy, and all was well. So it's not necessarily a bad sign.

Kinsters · 13/05/2019 11:46

Thanks for sharing that Bowies, makes me hope that maybe there's a chance. Although the bleeding seems to have picked up a bit so I'll probably leave the thread now.

Good luck everyone x

Bentley111 · 13/05/2019 11:53

Sending lots of love @Kinsters x

Seahawk80 · 13/05/2019 11:59

@Kinsters I had small clots and red blood a couple of times in the early weeks with DS x

motherofadragon · 13/05/2019 13:47

Hi, I found out I was pregnant this morning. From my calculations my EDD is 20/01.