Hello all
(waves)
Please may i join???
Im 36&4 Due 31st Jan dc no.2 team blue!
Symptom spotting like a crazy lady!
Lost plug at 36 wks, no blood, just big glob of jelly. The odd proper cx, but mostly just very frequent strong bh. Lots of fanny daggers -oh the joy- , exhaustion, emotioal, spd becoming increasingly worse.
Really hoping this wee man comes around the 37wk mark, but doubt it!
Dc1 was slow labor, 3-4cm when they broke my waters, pitocin, 2+hrs pushing, failed forceps and emergency c section
REALLY hoping for a vbac this time. Not really over the 'loss' of my wishes of a natural birth for dc1, you kinda mourn the loss of that 'special' moment, baby put on chest/sense of accomplishment. Felt robbed...NEED that moment this time, so will be avoiding induction at all costs, should have trusted my body and accepted slow labor last time...too many interventions which resulted in a very traumatising birth.
Phew, sorry for novel, just introducing myself/circumstances etc!
Keep thinking that EVERY little twinge is 'a sign' everyone says baby no.2 comes early, but most women i have spoken to have disproved this theory. Been doing my raspberry leaf tea, evening primrose oil, bouncing on ball, burning clary sage oil, eating dates
So doing all i can to hopefully have a quicker easier labor! Had 6 sweeps with dc.1 which did nothing, so wont be bothering this time...well, i will consider one if i get close to being overdue, as im trying for a vbac i can only be allowed to go over by 1wk before having to be induced! And imo pitocin is pure evil! Especially with an ineffective epidural!!!
Wishing everyone healthy happy speedy labors and squishy baby vibes X