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October 2016 bus #2 - getting our bfp's

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DisneyDiva87 · 16/02/2016 12:14

Cherryberry1 due #2 25 Sep
Ashesandfire due #2 27 Sep
Busybeeeee84 due #3 28 Sep
Isthatpoisontoo due #1 28 Sep
Leoniethelioness due #1 29 Sep
Notwithoutmymerkin due #2 29 Sep
Kittyvet due #2 30 Sep
Melonribena due #2 1st oct
Missybct due #1 2 Oct
Ditsygal due #2 2 Oct
Ladycrazycat due #1 3 oct
Wetsnow due #2 4 oct
Fish88 due #2 4th oct
Georgina4 due #1 4 oct
Shropitlikeitshot due #2 4 oct
Soundsystem due #2 5 Oct
Lisathegreek due #1 5 oct
Gigglebert due #2 7 Oct
Figgygal due #2 7 Oct
Daydream86 due #1 7 Oct
Dragonflymornings due #2 7 oct
Grumplestiltskin due #1 7 oct
Orangeblossom2 due #2 8 oct
Pixie1988 due #1 8 oct
Blueskygirl30 due #1 8 oct
Paige84 due #1 9 oct
Allhallowseve due #2 10 oct
IndiX due #1 11 oct
Alwaysinahurrynow due #3 13 oct
JulietteT due #1 13 Oct
Angharadthesplendid due #2 14 Oct
Afreshstartplease due #4 15th Oct
DisneyDiva87 #2 19th Oct
SmilieMilly due #2 ???
Lollieoftheflowera due #2 ???
Reluctantnympho due ???
Mrsamerican due #2 ???
Leodensian due #2 10 Oct
Hoteuniformnovember due #3 ??

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bananafish81 · 02/03/2016 20:35

Fresh start I'm not the best person to advise on how much back pain is normal as I have a spinal injury from having smashed my back up, BUT as a result I've had lots of medical advice about what pain meds are safe in the first trimester. Which is to say, not much. Paracetamol only. Absolutely definitely do not take ibuprofen as it can impact on fetal heart development. X

leoniethelioness · 02/03/2016 21:12

I have had sharp back pain every evening for about two weeks now. Sometimes first thing in the morning too. It isn't constant - just when I stand up or sit down. It takes my breath away sometimes as it's so sudden and sharp. I hope it goes away!

I'm a nervous swimmer too. I don't mind the pool but my fitness is awful so it's really hard. I tried snorkeling on holiday over Christmas and I was so scared - it's just so deep! I'm going to ring about arranging private lessons and DH will come with me at the weekends too - he's a pretty good swimmer and can give me some pointers.

I'm feeling a bit fed up tonight. We've been saving for months to do up the house and now baby is on its way I'm really motivated to get started but the tradesmen we've contacted don't seem to want the work. One came around, promised a quote the same day, and we've not heard from him since! Feeling frustrated as I just want a nice house!

Afreshstartplease · 02/03/2016 21:41

Back pain has been getting worse since yesterday, I always have some aches and have since had my first DC but this is much more

It worsens when I stay in same position so sat in the car for half hour is agony or at my desk at work

At its worst it's as though the pain radiates up my spine and into my shoulders. It was making me feel sick in the car.

Think I'll mention it at midwife app next week

SmwarbFirst · 02/03/2016 21:52

Does anyone else not feel pregnant at all ?? In the first few weeks I had the bloat, gas, tiredness and sore boobs but fir the last week absolutely nothing not a single symptom ....... Weird right ??

FuzzyOwl · 02/03/2016 21:53

I have a stomach bug (the whole house does, so it is definitely that) Smwarb but no symptoms at all. Worried really. Confused

leoniethelioness · 02/03/2016 21:57

I haven't got many symptoms - barely any nausea, anyway. My boobs have grown a lot and I have acne all over my chest and back, which is really unusual for me and getting me down. Is acne a pregnancy symptom?!

Northernlight22 · 02/03/2016 21:57

Follow up scan today and measuring 8 weeks so pleased with that. Only 1 baby, which is good as last weeks scan they were thinking there were 2, having said that I've got to go back for a consultant scan tomorrow though for a second opinion on the "matter" that's in there which led them to think there were 2, potentially cysts. Never simple this pregnancy malarkey!

lotbyname · 03/03/2016 00:20

TINGLE BOOB GO AWAY!!

Sorry for tmi but seriously! It's so annoying! Just the one boos mind for added paranoia of having one larger than the other

lotbyname · 03/03/2016 00:24

Woo this thread moves sooperdooper fast! Congratulations on scans everyone! Sounds positive northern, hope your scan goes well tomorrow.

A fresh, that sounds like descriptions of sciatica to me. :( Do mention it!

lotbyname · 03/03/2016 00:27

Leione-it is! Congratulations! You must be pleased 😉

Afreshstartplease · 03/03/2016 06:25

I thought sciatica went down your legs? This goes up my back

climbingcheesecake · 03/03/2016 08:41

Morning everyone... Had virtually no symptoms for 2 weeks and then suddenly, the nausea has hid hard.
I have been feeling really bad the last 2 days. Really sick, but haven't actually been sick yet.
I hope this is at least a good sign.

climbingcheesecake · 03/03/2016 08:46

fresh It sounds like you need a good deep massage, it could be originating from your shoulders and radiating down your back. If so, you need to wait until after the first trimester as most therapists won't do it before.

Needabiscuit · 03/03/2016 09:01

I had sciatica in my left leg with first baby, I had it from about 10 weeks to 30 weeks!! What really helped was getting on all fours and kinda jiggling aboutConfused I think it helped move or dislodge something!!
I was offered acupuncture at the hospital, but never took them up on the offer,

Fresh you could maybe start to do some yoga moves to strengthen, as the pressure may get worse

missybct · 03/03/2016 09:35

I found my symptoms more or less disappeared by middle of week 8- occasional nausea, but really compared to before - nothing. My boobs were a bit tender still but was more towards end of the day.

I'm 9 weeks 4 days and the only real symptom I have is backache and cramping as my uterus is growing - I had some bleeding at start of the week so again was scanned by EPU, but everything looks fine baby wise, just me being a pain in the butt.

I've noticed my boobs are a bit more tender this week, hormones a little more wild and I've had more headaches, but that's quite literally it Hmm

missybct · 03/03/2016 09:36

Also, if you're around the same time (8-9 weeks) the placenta does tend to take some of the load off, even if it's not fully formed - which contributes to some symptoms becoming less obvious Grin

SchnitzelvonKrummsverylowtum · 03/03/2016 10:31

Anyone have any idea how to manage the fatigue? I've had a dreadful couple of nights with DS - I've probably had about 3/4 hours sleep over the past two nights, and I'm so tired I can't focus in work. Other than going home and having a nap, what I can do?!

JulietteL · 03/03/2016 11:30

Had my early scan this morning. All looks good. Saw and heard the heartbeat. Baby measuring 8+3, which is pretty much bang on dates (8+2). As it's our first we're a bit gobsmacked, to be honest. It took us so long to conceive I think this is the first point at which I actually believe it might all be okay. :-)

JulietteL · 03/03/2016 11:55

Oh and for those wavering, it was worth every penny of the £60.

bananafish81 · 03/03/2016 12:02

Google docs updated and copied below for what should be a complete list - shout if any missing / wrong

docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/17dTi1GZbm7GV6aU3-5vOLq8mdmNhSz5ukRFKJT7Wehw/edit?usp=sharing

Cherryberry1 #2 25 Sep
Ashesandfire #2 27 Sep
Busybeeeee84 #3 28 Sep
Isthatpoisontoo #1 28 Sep
Leoniethelioness #1 29 Sep
Notwithoutmymerkin #2 29 Sep
Kittyvet #2 30 Sep
Thecake #1 30 Sep
Melonribena #2 1 Oct
Missybct #1 2 Oct
Ditsygal #2 2 Oct
Climbingcheesecake #1 2 Oct
Ladycrazycat #1 3 Oct
Espresso14 #2 3 Oct
Wetsnow #2 4 Oct
Fish88 #2 4 Oct
Georgina4 #1 4 Oct
Shropitlikeitshot #2 4 Oct
Soundsystem #2 5 Oct
Lisathegreek #1 5 Oct
Pinkbuttons #3 5 Oct
Gigglebert #2 7 Oct
Figgygal #2 7 Oct
Daydream86 #1 7 Oct
Dragonflymornings #2 7 Oct
Grumplestiltskin #1 7 Oct
Fraggleface #1 7 Oct
MrBensMrs #1 7 Oct
Orangeblossom2 #2 8 Oct
Pixie1988 #1 8 Oct
Blueskygirl30 #1 8 Oct
MsFiremanSam #3 8 Oct
Paige84 #1 9 Oct
Needabiscuit #2 9 Oct
Allhallowseve #2 10 Oct
Bananafish81 #1 10 Oct
Leodensian #2 10 Oct
Havetobecrazytolivehere #4 10 Oct
Mrsamerican #2 10 Oct
IndiX #1 11 Oct
Wondermoose #2 11 Oct
Alwaysinahurrynow #3 13 Oct
due #3 13 Oct #3 13 Oct
JulietteT #1 13 Oct
megganonion #3 13 Oct
Lotbyname #1 13 Oct
Angharadthesplendid #2 14 Oct
Woodpigeon123 #1 14 Oct
Afreshstartplease #4 15 Oct
Bluecarrot #3 15 Oct
Planeteer #1 16 Oct
Summeraupair #1 17 Oct
Lokahsamastah #2 18 Oct
goldenpineapple #1 18 Oct
DisneyDiva87 #2 19 Oct
Gurzleburg #2 19 Oct
Vivicrocodile #2 19 Oct
Tacoyaki #1 21 Oct
Tallblue #2 22 Oct
Lellietheelephant #2 22 Oct
TeaGirl3 #1 22 Oct Date TBC
PunkyPod #3 24 Oct
Hopelass #2 25 Oct
Fuzzywuzzy DC? 25 Oct
SchnitzelvonKrummsverylowtum #2 27 Oct
SmilieMilly #2 EDD?
Lollieoftheflowera #2 EDD?
Reluctantnympho DC? EDD?
Hoteuniformnovember #3 EDD?
Needabiscuit #2 EDD?

FuzzyOwl · 03/03/2016 12:06

Please can you add me back on banana? 31 October. Thanks.

bananafish81 · 03/03/2016 12:15

No probs FuzzyOwl

docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/17dTi1GZbm7GV6aU3-5vOLq8mdmNhSz5ukRFKJT7Wehw/edit?usp=sharing

Cherryberry1 #2 25 Sep
Ashesandfire #2 27 Sep
Busybeeeee84 #3 28 Sep
Isthatpoisontoo #1 28 Sep
Leoniethelioness #1 29 Sep
Notwithoutmymerkin #2 29 Sep
Kittyvet #2 30 Sep
Thecake #1 30 Sep
Melonribena #2 1 Oct
Missybct #1 2 Oct
Ditsygal #2 2 Oct
Climbingcheesecake #1 2 Oct
Ladycrazycat #1 3 Oct
Espresso14 #2 3 Oct
Wetsnow #2 4 Oct
Fish88 #2 4 Oct
Georgina4 #1 4 Oct
Shropitlikeitshot #2 4 Oct
Soundsystem #2 5 Oct
Lisathegreek #1 5 Oct
Pinkbuttons #3 5 Oct
Gigglebert #2 7 Oct
Figgygal #2 7 Oct
Daydream86 #1 7 Oct
Dragonflymornings #2 7 Oct
Grumplestiltskin #1 7 Oct
Fraggleface #1 7 Oct
MrBensMrs #1 7 Oct
Orangeblossom2 #2 8 Oct
Pixie1988 #1 8 Oct
Blueskygirl30 #1 8 Oct
MsFiremanSam #3 8 Oct
Paige84 #1 9 Oct
Needabiscuit #2 9 Oct
Allhallowseve #2 10 Oct
Bananafish81 #1 10 Oct
Leodensian #2 10 Oct
Havetobecrazytolivehere #4 10 Oct
Mrsamerican #2 10 Oct
IndiX #1 11 Oct
Wondermoose #2 11 Oct
Alwaysinahurrynow #3 13 Oct
due #3 13 Oct #3 13 Oct
JulietteT #1 13 Oct
megganonion #3 13 Oct
Lotbyname #1 13 Oct
Angharadthesplendid #2 14 Oct
Woodpigeon123 #1 14 Oct
Afreshstartplease #4 15 Oct
Bluecarrot #3 15 Oct
Planeteer #1 16 Oct
Summeraupair #1 17 Oct
Lokahsamastah #2 18 Oct
goldenpineapple #1 18 Oct
DisneyDiva87 #2 19 Oct
Gurzleburg #2 19 Oct
Vivicrocodile #2 19 Oct
Tacoyaki #1 21 Oct
Tallblue #2 22 Oct
Lellietheelephant #2 22 Oct
TeaGirl3 #1 22 Oct
PunkyPod #3 24 Oct
Hopelass #2 25 Oct
Fuzzywuzzy DC? 25 Oct
SchnitzelvonKrummsverylowtum #2 27 Oct
FuzzyOwl DC? 31 Oct
SmilieMilly #2 EDD?
Lollieoftheflowera #2 EDD?
Reluctantnympho DC? EDD?
Hoteuniformnovember #3 EDD?
Needabiscuit #2 EDD?

goldenpineapple · 03/03/2016 12:19

Schnitzel - you poor thing. Sounds really tough. I'm knackered despite being off work on annual leave and having no other dc so I cannot imagine how you're doing it. I love your name btw, Hairy Maclary is an all time fave Grin

Congrats on your scan Juliette - I reckon I may have to book one in for next week, its just hard to believe its real at the mo, despite all the symptoms.

I have a bit of a worry today, wonder if anyone can reassure? I have definitely noticed more prominent veins on my breasts in general, but since yesterday there have been two small red patches, close together, with lots of tiny red veins? Is this normal? Never had anything like it before. 7 + 3 today.

bananafish81 · 03/03/2016 12:20

If this one sticks and goes the distance, as EDD is 3 weeks before my 35th birthday, I will JUST escape the dreaded 'elderly primagravida' on my notes!

Still, better than the term they used to use of 'geriatric mother'!

8+3 today and 10 week scan seems soooo far away. Debating whether to book on between now and then. I'd rather know about MMC sooner rather than later, both for emotional reasons (obviously) and because as horrible as a medically managed miscarriage is, although mentally I'd prefer an ERPC to get it over and done with (and have the tissue testing done), I have such crap endometrial lining as it is, the risk of Asherman's syndrome (adhesions) from a D&C would be particularly problematic

I should probably not be thinking how I would deal with a miscarriage we don't yet know has or will happen!

FuzzyOwl · 03/03/2016 12:37

Thanks for adding me banana and I am of the exact same view regarding a mmc. My first pregnancy ended in one and I would have happily avoided the 12 week scan altogether the second time around on the basis that if I didn't know I had miscarried, everything would be fine. Is that makes sense? Have you had any scans yet?

Not heard of it golden but it seems that everything and nothing at all are all typical symptoms of pregnancy.

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