Good luck with scans and lovely to hear (and see) the scans coming back so well.
Re breast pumps, make sure you go for a closed system one rather than a closed system, more hygienic. I used a pump with mine and always got loads, not that they would take a bottle...With my dd3 who was born at 34 weeks, I had to express through the night and day whilst she was in the nicu, to take milk in for her and also to get my supply up.
Dh not being able to feed them didn't make any difference to their bonding, there are plenty of other ways they can, and do, bond. The feeding is just something I did as I'm the one with the breasts. He was more than happy to just get on with anything else and cuddle, bath, change etc. The feeding part wasn't an issues whatsoever.
A week to go until my scan and consultant appointment, they're on the same day. I have been testing my blood suagrs and they are definitely creeping up with ones above the limit more and more. Looks like I'll be back on the insulin soon :(