Oh no jo that's truly truly unfair. So sorry to hear!! I hope you are being well looked after. Just ugh.
pample how kind of your boss, she is writing your discrimination compensation case for you! Def speak to acas, she's out of order.
Re bras- apparently underwires are ok if they fit really well, you are supposed to get a good fitter to check them regularly. Ill fitting wires can block your milk ducts as they develop and give you mastitis-or set you up for it- before you've even begun feeding.
Rigby and peller do underwired maternity bras for those who have ample budgets to go with the ample bosom. John Lewis and mothercare do non underwired maternity bras for the less well endowed in whichever sense.
I am tiny busted usually, so went into research overdrive when they ballooned...