Our close family knew soon after we found out with all 3, it just felt right for us to tell them early on.
We went out last night to my daughters dance Christmas party and I told my close friend (she kinda guessed when I wasn't drinking and I'm finding it hard to fib now that we're at a 'safe' point) however the 2 close friends that I've told, their reaction was of shock and asks 'why?' then a 'I think you're crazy, you've already got a boy and a girl why would you want anymore?' Quite disappointing really so I'm not telling anyone else until I've told the kids on Xmas eve then doing a good old Facebook announcement, I don't think I can deal with the lack of enthusiasm from close friends, at least they can get over the shock, have a little gossip about me then be nice to me when they see me 