RL that sounds utterly wretched. Your DP sounds like he's being a prize idiot (for want of stronger language). That behaviour would never be acceptable, let alone fewer than two weeks after you've given birth!! All I can say is he's lucky he's not my partner, you sound much more patient. You're right though to try and enjoy your day and not let him ruin it, have a lovely time with your grandad and your mum, maybe pop over to your mums a bit early with max so she can look after him whilst you sleep? Take care, you must be feeling exhausted beyond words.
Yesterday DD cluster fed non stop for over SIX hours, between 4pm-10.30pm, going from one boob to the next and shouting if she was taken off for more than five mins. Was feeling pretty knackered but she then slept for five hours straight!!! Woke up at 3:30 feeling amazed. She's had a couple more feeds since then but has fallen asleep after each one. A worthwhile trade off IMO.
My best friend was round for supper last night so she kept me company through the feeds and cooked for us all whilst DP was in bed with a stonking migraine. She's a hero.
Was discharged by midwife finally yesterday on day 19 as DD had jaundice. Little chunk has put on a whole pound! Very pleased.
We're to try and tackle Tate Modern with friends today (mad on a Saturday?) and my sister should be popping round this morning. No plans tomorrow though, hurrah!
Hope everyone is doing well xx