The angry pubes of bumsnet grad bus!

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Come put your feet up in the Zen den and let the dh's wait on us hand and foot whilst we nurture the fruit of their loins in our bellies :-)

Rainy and Sammy thank you for popping on here. Hope you're both having a good weekend.

Hey ladies also popping over to say how sorry I am you feel ignored. It's a nightmare keeping up with everyone but I'm sorry some if you feel that there are double standards at work. Not intended. xxx

hair thank you. I know it's difficult keeping up with each other's goings on. I hope you're ok as I know you've been going through lots of your own issues let alone TTC.

Just some

Just had a read through both buses. All very sad. Thanks for everyone's kind support. I am in bed with a hot water bottle taking paracetamol religiously. Dp told the mil today what's going on and she phoned me to say she is sorry I'm losing it. Thanks for the positivity.... but I really cherish the support I have on here and our fb page. Love you ladies!

Hi all,

I just wanted to say sorry if I have ignored any if you. It wasn't intentional, and as I have said on Bumsnet, I like hearing about your progress.

Like many others, I thought the bus was for us all to stick together, and am really disappointed with all the petty fighting.

If you don't mind, I will stick my head in now and again to say hi, and check you are all ok.

Off to DTD now in the hope that I might be able to join you one day! X

nomio it's lovely to see you and yes please feel free to pop on here to see us but also to let us know your news, we would be interested to hear it.
You go DTD as it is COC! I'm hoping you get your BFP soon.
Did you ever find out what the chopper was about earlier (see I am a true stalker!)

Thanks, Dojo. Nope, no idea what happened, but an ambulance turned up too. I will let you know if I find out!

Hello, I just also wanted to reiterate what the others said above too. Things got completely out of hand and nasty and I find it crazy that you guys were made to feel so unwelcome. I never agreed with this censorship of not being able to say certain things, everyone should be able to talk freely about whatever they like imo. I know I haven't always replied to posts you guys have made myself but then I've been lurking here anyway because I am actually interested in how you're getting on and I'm intrigued about life after bfp!

I've now left the fb group because I'm ashamed to be a part of something that went so sour, and probably won't post on the next bumsnet thread either. But I hope you won't mind if I come and join you here one day, if I get lucky anyway

dizzy I've sent you a private message!

Dizzy.... You are lovely! And hello everyone! Also lurking over here a little bit if that's ok....?

Hoping those pregnancy hormones and good luck vibes rub off on me!

Not sure if anyone here has been referred to a Dr for sub fertility and can offer advice?

I'm also hugely sorry about the way things turned out.... It's such a horrible feeling, and although I was mostly a lurker, I loved hearing from you all.... It gave me so much hope and you were all so sensitive to how we might be feeling.

Anyway, I'm rambling!

xxxx

Hey lovelies, same here I've been absent from the buses for awhile so I completely missed what had happened. I hate the arguing and negativity, it really upsets me.

If I ever made anyone feel uncomfortable or unheard. I'm sorry, I would love to come out from lurking and say hello if you don't mind?

Babs I'm already missing the bunny chat. Hope you are ok.

Froggie xxx

frog and wood lovely to see you here. Please feel free to hop on and check in with us we would love to know how you are getting too and if we can offer you any advice or you would like an opinion on anything, I would hope we would be able to help.

wood have you had your appointment with the doctors?

Thank you dojo!! Xx

Frog! Wood!
Anything we can throw any advice/ramblings about, we will try our hardest!

Frog...feeling guilty about bunny as I'm in Chester for a night and she's in London, probably wondering where the hell I am ??. But will see her tomorrow...insanely attached to the wee furball....

Any advice is always appreciated!! I was always nervous of posting because it was the grad bus. But sod that I miss you girls!!!

Babs aww don't feel too guilty, I'm sure bunny will be ok for one night. Have fun in Chester.

Chops, what is your EDD? I am curious I know you are Xmas time. My Neice is a Xmas day baby. DS was suppose to be a New Years Eve baby but being a lazy boy was 5days late.

Another lurker stalker here! I like coming on here to see how everyone is getting on. I've never commented on here because I didn't want you all to think it was inappropriate. We can all have different opinions and still get on with and support/advice each other and the ladies who used to pop back on the ttc bus were always helpful and encouraging. Anyway I'm also off to dtd as I've got loads of ewcm so still in my fertile window.

MissLightyear no not yet.... Dr phones and said he had made a referral for me but I haven't heard anymore or seen the specific fertility Dr yet so am a bit more unsure x

Thanks for plopping in to see us ladies, we/i really appreciate the support after a horrible 24hours. I hope you can all join us here very soon. wood I pm'd you about fertility stuff x

dizzy get DTD. I really think that lots of EWCM is a good indication of your fertile period. I was ear temping of all things, so that wasn't going to be an accurate tool. I know sometime TTC can be a drag and you don't feel remotely in the mood but I am thinking positive thoughts for you all still trying to get your BFP.

Hi ladies!!
I'm cautiously popping my head in to say hi after getting a line on an ic this morning. How to be able to join you all properly soon

*Hope

Oyster. Many congratulations!

Aw yay oyster! You got your honeymoon Bfp! Romantic!