havetea DS has a tongue tie, we begged mw/hv/docs for referral and help but as he was putting on weight no one was interested. Never mind that he was on boob CONSTANTLY as he was never getting full and i nearly had a breakdow over it! It took one wonderful wonderful mw when he was 10 days old to persuade me i wasn't an awful mum for going on bottle (i honestly dont know how i would have managed without her intervention), used Dr Browns bottles for colic but also they have a long teat - instantly he was full and started sleeping better. Happy and healthy and is almost 3. Only just discharged from surgeons care re tongue tie - to have it released now would mean a general anaesthetic (not happening). His speech is fine and no issues with eating, so we have to wait and see how he is in couple of years. Veey frustrating, if only they did something at couple of days old (which they now admit they should have done).
If anyone's little one has a tongue-tie i recommend you fight and fight to have it released, we definitely will of dc2 has one. Bf may be a bit more successful this time round, but if not ive learnt the hard way not to beat myself up over it.
Sorry for long post!