December 2014, Thread #3

[SassehMonsta]

Just starting a new thread so we have somewhere to go once thread 2 is full (I give it less than a day!!)

Welcome to the never-ending first trimester, and maybe some of us into the second trimester this thread?

Thanks Treacle. Did you manage to get some pain relief? How are you feeling today?
Not seen anything from natashaarr yet.

I was back at hospital yesterday. Severe pain, bleeding and large clots. Since then although I'm in pain and bleeding it's nowhere near as bad so I'm really hoping I've passed the worst of it.
I have my scan tomorrow to see what's happening.

Thank you :)

Oh and nicky, cross post. Yeah I have co-codamol. Helped me get a bit of sleep last night :)

I hope she's ok. Her scan was yesterday wasn't it?

yes, I think so- hope she's ok too.

Sorry you had to spend your birthday in such horrid pain treacle. Glad you are feeling better today though and are being looked after. Xxx

Thanks kate :) DH is still here. My plan now is to check all is gone at the scan tomorrow then finally give myself time to grieve.
I haven't been able to think about emotions with all the pain.
Let's hope we're coming out the other side.

I hope you're ok too :)

Hope all goes well tomorrow treacle so you can have some time to deal with everything you have been through and are going through x

Hopefully we will hear from natashaarr soon.

Sasseh I'm on Semetil too (well prescribed prochloraperazine or whatever the fancy name is) what's this about no direct sunlight? (She says as she's lying in the sun...)

*stemetil

Urgh nausea bad today - am craving refreshers sweets but couldn't find any on the way to work which almost made me cry.
Hope Natasha is OK and the physical pain eases soon Treacle.

Okay just read online says your skin might be more sensitive so that's fine. I'm more concerned where it says not safe to take in first trimester etc than about the direct sunlight. I've hardly burned at all this holiday so all good I hope.

Hello everyone, sorry I haven't wrote on here. I had my scan today and they couldn't see anything in the sac so Ive had a miscarriage. Thankyou everyone for your support I'm very greatful. I'll still check on everyone but for now I'm so upset to even function. I thought after a miscarriage everything would come out but doesn't look like it will so I'm waiting 3 weeks and if not I have to have the dreaded tablet! I hope everyone's pregnancies goes well and you all have healthy babies at the end of it. Xxxx

So sorry for your loss Natasha x

Oh natashaarr I'm so sorry to hear, I can't imagine how you must be feeling. I know that nothing anyone says can make this awful time any better but sending love and thinking of you. Hope that you are getting lots of support at home.
x

natasha i am so so sorry to hear your news. i wish there was something i could do. take heart at all the ladies here who genuinely feel for you. you are not alone xx

So sorry Natasha :( I hope it's all over for you as quickly as possible and you have all the support you need. Please check in and let us know if/when you start trying again as we will be here to support you again :)

Oh no natasha, I'm so sorry, this is so cruel after what you've already been through. You might already know about the miscarriage association website, I really recommend it. Look after yourself and take as much time as you need to deal with your loss. thinking of you x

So sorry natasharrrr. Many many gentle hugs

natasharrr so so sorry to hear that. I hope you have lots of support. Go easy on yourself for the next while.

So sorry natashaarr.
If you want to talk just message me xxx

So sorry Natashaarr xxx

I'm so sorry Natasha. I hope you're being well looked after and it's over quickly for you

It's sad to have seen so many in this group have such sad news over the past couple of months but I have to say its so lovely to see how people support each other here. It's very comforting to have a place to come to have the chance to chat, stress, be happy and sad with others that we may not know outside of a computer screen but can often understand and empathise in a way that others (through no fault of their own) in our "real lives" can't. What a lovely, lovely bunch you all are.

Completely agree nicky

So so sorry natashaarr hope you're feeling as ok as you can in the circumstances xxxxxx

So sorry to hear that Natasha