September 2014

[Normalisavariantofcrazy]

My verrrrrry faint line earlier gives me an edd of 27 august so I'm going to straddle the two threads providing I get a strong bfp tomorrow (which I should do!!)

Happy Christmas everyone!!!

Hi Kt, glad to see you've joined me on here from the ttc#2 thread! [waves]

Tutti, I am so so so sorry, utterly heartbreaking for you. If you need anyone to talk to, pm me. The last 2 months have been awful for me, but there always seems to be a reason for things. Big hugs to you and yours.

Whiteblossom, glad everything ok with the scan, dh/dps can be such shits sometimes! They just don't understand. It didn't really hit my dh last time with ds until we had an early scan due to a bleed at 7/8 weeks, then he started getting 'involved'.
I don't think it's until they have something visual they understand, whereas for us we can feel everything, every little movement, every little kick, and we fall in,I've from the moment we POAS and see 2 lines!

Pregnancy is an emotional roller coaster, it's sometimes a bumpy ride! but give him a big fat kick up the arse

Glad scan was well!

yeah I was on the injections too with ds1. 1st every other day for a week I think and then it was 1 every week and then 1 every fortnight.

X

blossom you are going to make yourself very frsutrated if you keep simmering abt it, which can;t be good for your little bean. Either forget he is being non-supportive or tell him he needs to be more supportive. Otherwise, you will get yourself in a real tiz.

Tutti im so sorry I hope your ok

Just been at epau today and had a scan..I was measuring 7 weeks but baby had no heartbeat and blood around..began to miscarry this afternoon red blood has starting. .

22 and 2 miscarriges..I really just cant cope.

wish yous girls lots of luck in your pregnancies, look after yourselves xxx

And meant to add...hope that doesn't sound too blunt :)

Nataaaaalie, I am so sorry, you must be heartbroken, especially seeing something :( Again, if you need a shoulder to cry on, I'm here. Xx

Oh no nat, I'm so sorry to hear that. I can't imagine how devastated you must be. Have you got any support?

oh nataaaaliee so very sorry. Horrible for you.

This is such a sad afternoon.

Natalie so sorry

Thanks everyone..yeah my fiancee left work bless him. Doing eveything I can to not cry continuously..I better shimmy back to the conception board.

blossom if it was me, I would just tell him calmly how the scan went. Keeping him in the loop at least, he probably won't gush as he probably didn't worry about it as much as you did, but until the time comes for him to see an image on a screen I'm sure it will become more real to him and something he can focus on. Please don't get worked up, life's to short and baby needs a calm momma. :)

So sorry to hear people's bad news today. Sending hugs...
My DH is acting in a similar way whiteblossom, everything I say he seemed to ignore but we had a chat last night and I told him I would like to tell my mom Thursday after getting confirmation from doc. He asked why as we agreed to keep quiet until 12 weeks. I told him I needed someone to talk to and he got the hint. He then admitted he was scared to think about it too much because of the pains I had the weekend. Hoping he will be more involved after I go docs tomorrow!

By the way does any1 know what the doc will do 2Moro besides the mw referral? Scared of them doing another test and getting a neg result since pains I've had all week subsided.

nataaalie so sorry, that's terrible news. Have a good cry, you need to let it out xxx

Im going to shut up about my silly dh! kmini blunt is just fine

nataaaliie and tutti - I am sorry to hear your news

Marie - I was at the docs yesterday, and all he did was give me some dietry advise and info on vitamins. Then did a midwife referral.
If you are worried about the pains though, I would maybe mention it to the doctor. Hopefully s/he will be able to reassure you.

Thanks, it seems crazy that I have spent a week worrying about stomach pain and when they stop I am worrying about why! This is solo stressful.

*so

Oh Natalie ....

I am so sorry ... Xxxx it is truly crap I know ... I still can't believe how a week ago I was in shock and today just feel empty and sad ... I was soo ready ...

It can feel so unfair .. But I guess there is always a reason ... I will see you on he conception threads I am sure ....

But you guys on September antenatal beware ... I will be lurking ....

So you guys had better send your sticky vibes to us who are ttc again xxxxx

I hope that this is the last if the bad news for the September thread xxxxx

Natalie, i'm so so sorry :( are you ok? always here if you need to talk xxxxxxx

lots of positive and very sticky vibes going to tutti and nataaalie, let us know how you go on xx good luck

Hi ladies,

Just to say in starting a freak out room for newly pregnant ladies who have had previous mc. I have been stalking here incessantly but too scared to post and jinx I will continue to stall though

So sorry Tuttie and Natalie, very very sad for you

*stalk not stall!

And it's in conception...doh!

Tutti and Nataaaalie sorry to hear the news