good news today, glad for both of you 
My scan is Tuesday, in Fetal Medicine after my last pregnancy (DS2 had acrania- no skull, a neural tube disorder, hence TFMR). To say I am scared is putting it mildly...
Also have the small matter of exchanging on our house contracts tomorrow- we should complete next Friday so it'll be quite a week. Just hoping it all goes well, keep running through all possible outcomes like finding out there's a problem and I need a TFMR or D&E and we have to move 3 days later...
AAAGGGGH.
Perineal massage I didn't do it and tore badly (3rd degree)- however I don't think it would have made a difference at all as DS was 9lb8oz, back to back and I ended up with forceps. I will be having an ELCS if all is well, but it took me the best part of 2 years to heal 'properly' (physically and mentally), and I still have symptoms. Weird I have a consultant appointment for this already but don't know if it's ok... am under 2 different consultants.
On the plus side I haven't been sick for a week- nausea still here though. I've even managed to eat cake 