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ThePFJ · 07/10/2013 21:49

New Thread!!!!

Update the stats here with your EDD's, Scan Dates and Baby Names!!
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Settle down for cake, sympathy and lots of laughs! xxx

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thistlelicker · 08/10/2013 12:33

U know what's scary for me, there's a June thread!!!!

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ThePFJ · 08/10/2013 12:37

Ok so.......... buggerbuggerbuggerbugger..........

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ThePFJ · 08/10/2013 12:40

Literally in the last 24hours we lost Little Pea. It is 9 weeks on the scan, and no heartbeat. Having surgery asap to sort everything out. I can't wait at home for my body to catch up.. that could take ages and I am not up for that.. bit too depressing for me.

I have to say... this is the best group in MN history. You girls are completely awesome. Continue being totally awesome, ok? I'll check in now and then...

I am in shock - this was a total surprise..... ergh etc.
Love you all so much - super hugs AND CAKE - ThePFJ xxxxxxxxxxxx

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bluestone85 · 08/10/2013 12:43

I'm so so sorry PFJ. My heart goes out to you completely. You are amazingly strong and my thoughts are with you xxx

snoozysleeper · 08/10/2013 12:47

thepfj I am so so sorry to hear your news Flowers
You come across as such a strong and lovely person and I just don't know what to say. Continue being brave and we would all like to hear from you again!

wm3010 · 08/10/2013 12:49

PFJ, that is awful, I am so sorry to hear that. You have been so much fun on the previous threads, we will all miss you. Please look after yourself x

thistlelicker · 08/10/2013 12:56

OmG I'm so sorry xxxx

AliOh · 08/10/2013 13:09

Oh no PFJ how absolutely awful I'm so sorry :( sending you big hugs and lots of positive vibes for the future.

dobedobedo · 08/10/2013 13:11

I'm so sorry thepfj I don't even know what to say. I hope you have good support xxxxxxxxx

loopylou52 · 08/10/2013 13:19

Oh no, thePFJ, I'm so, so sorry. Huge hugs to you. Be kind to yourself. Thanks

mumof2aimingfor4 · 08/10/2013 13:22

PFJ im truly devestated for you, of all the ladies on here you are the one I have conversed with most. I am so sorry for your loss. Your sad sad news has made me cry for you. Hope the op goes well and wish you all the stickiness in the world for next time. You truly are a wonderful woman. Lots of love to you xx

NannyPlumForPM · 08/10/2013 13:24

I don't know what to say PFJ you are SO lovely and my heart really does go out to you. Keep strong, I know you've heard it all before but you will get through this. Hugs and much much love to you :( xxxxxxxx

NannyPlumForPM · 08/10/2013 13:27

(and we are awesome) Wink

So tend to your shrubbery and be the man that can summon fire without tender nor flint..... some call him..... Tim.

Wish you all the best Miss Judea....

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ThePFJ · 08/10/2013 13:45

Maybe Tim the enchanter can make this right... so I shall quest.....

Thanks for your lovely lovely words..... it SUCKS ass I can't continue on this thread.......... it was so perfect here. xxxx

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Spirael · 08/10/2013 13:52

Aww, PFJ! :( I'm so sorry to hear things haven't gone well.

NannyPlumForPM · 08/10/2013 14:04

Ni

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ThePFJ · 08/10/2013 14:48

Ni. Damn - I am sooo gonna miss you girls!!! Love your bumps. Signing out for a few days now.... I will return in a while to taunt you all for a second time. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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hobbjobb · 08/10/2013 14:52

Oh PFJ I am so sorry xx

FacebookStoleMyLife · 08/10/2013 15:01

PFJ I am so sorry. This is utterly shitty and unfair. I'll really miss you on this thread, you've been a great virtual friend. Please take care of yourself and know we won't be nearly so awesome without you :(

dobedobedo · 08/10/2013 15:47

I can't believe how gutted I am over imaginary internet people I've never met! I'll really miss PFJ

We've had so much bad news lately Sad

impatientlywaiting · 08/10/2013 17:00

ThePFJ I am so incredibly sorry and so gutted for you, and for us to lose you from this thread.

You've been so supportive and caring to everyone on this thread, I'm so sorry that this has happened.

You seem incredibly strong to deal with the losses that you have. I so hope that everything works out for you next time. Please pop in on us occasionally to let us know how you are doing.

Good luck with the op tomorrow and take care of yourself. Xx

bushprincess · 08/10/2013 17:31

Oh PFJ I'm just so so sorry to hear of your loss... if anyone deserved this bean to stick you did after all your previous trouble. You've been such a strong part of this group we're all going to miss you and your shrubbery so much. Good luck tomorrow, stay strong and resume your quest when you feel strong enough
all my love
xx

Flixy102 · 08/10/2013 18:24

PFJ You sound like a strong person and I'm sure you'll be on a similar thread afain soon. In the meantime be good to yourself.

Chip86 · 08/10/2013 18:37

Oh PFJ i cant belive it i am so sorry for you, its such a shock you deserve to be on this thread all the way through to the end, I will miss you so much on here im sat here crying in disbelive im so sorry for you, your such a lovely lady and your strong you will pull through and get that sticky bean, i will be thinking of you take great care of youself, sending you big hugs xxxx

CbeebiesIsMyLife · 08/10/2013 18:45

ThePFJ I am also literally devastated. You've been such a support to me especially over on the other thread. I can't believe this has happened. Please do take care of yourself and take time to grieve. I hope you get your baby soon, you really deserve it x