mildred try lilypadz - they're not breast pass, they actually stop all leakage because they're a silicon type thing that pushes your nipple into your boob (bad explanation)! But they're bloody brilliant!
Shopping wise... I have some lovely fabric to make a quilt for the pram, and flannelette for sheets and little nighties. Plus a bargain JL pram suit from a second hand shop.
Sorry to hear all the woes. I join in feeling fat, frumpy and generally yuk. I just can't find maternity trousers that look nice so I've got leggings and jeggings in a 12 for now, but I'll do when bump gets bigger.
crying I shouldn't laugh but OMG that was hilarious.