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December 2013 - part 3

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Holly1977 · 05/06/2013 14:06

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/antenatal_clubs/1740732-December-2013-part-2

Starting yet another thread as us chatterboxes have filled up 2 already!

Jucy, I'm so sorry to hear your news. Big hugs, wish there was something more I could say. Flowers

Frouby, if you're feeling crap just fuck the housework off, I do! It'll keep.

I'm scared and excited in equal measures about the scan on Friday. Looking forward to seeing bean and being able to get on with things. But obviously scared of getting bad news like Jucy... 2 days, 1 hour and 50 minutes to go!

My friend has offered to be a birthing partner too. I may well take her up on it, I suspect she'll be more help than OH. And as I'm planning on having a home water birth and OH has already invited his bloody mum (!) think it'll be good to have a friend there. I'm not private at all, have zero issues with people seeing me naked (as my neighbours will tell you) and she's seen me throw up enough times from our party days (though never shit myself to be fair) that I'm not too fussed about that.

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TakingTheStairs · 15/07/2013 15:24

All this feeding information is great!

Adding myself to the list

TakingTheStairs, DS1, CS 27/11/13 (EDD 04/12/13)
Alyssa1978, DS3, EDD 02/12/13
PistachioTruffle, DC1, EDD 11/12/13
Lisbapalea, DC2, EDD 21/12/13

itsliz · 15/07/2013 15:42

Couldn't agree more - I'm so much more relaxed knowing that I'm in good company both now and when the little one is born! As you said, I think having a bit of support makes all the difference.

Ooh and count me in:

TakingTheStairs, DS1, CS 27/11/13 (EDD 04/12/13)
Alyssa1978, DS3, EDD 02/12/13
PistachioTruffle, DC1, EDD 11/12/13
Lisbapalea, DC2, EDD 21/12/13
itsliz, DC1, EDD 30/12/13

yogafan · 15/07/2013 15:50

Good luck with the move violet, and hope you enjoy your scan Claire. I am nervous about mine (next week) and really hope I can relax a bit more, hoping we'll be given the all clear...

Dasie - wow, never heard of anyone else who had same latching issues as us - and although I am very grateful to the nipple shields for making breast feeding possible, they were defo a bit of a pain. All the sterilising etc and the added palava when out and about... I am really hoping it goes more smoothly this time.

I know we've gone a bit BF mad in the thread today, and it really doesn't matter if you don't do it, but hopefully it's useful for newbies to see that it can be tough ( might not be, some people breeze through it) so it feels less of a shock if you have problems, you've got support in place, know where to go for help etc.

StaceyP85 · 15/07/2013 15:52

Loved reading all this BF advice... It's nice to hear real opinions on the subject rather than just the leaflets and midwives talks.

Adding my info

TakingTheStairs, DS1, CS 27/11/13 (EDD 04/12/13)
Alyssa1978, DS3, EDD 02/12/13
PistachioTruffle, DC1, EDD 11/12/13
Lisbapalea, DC2, EDD 21/12/13
itsliz, DC1, EDD 30/12/13
StaceyP85, DC1, EDD 21/12/13

kyz1981 · 15/07/2013 16:08

Adding myself to the list.

Kyz1981, DC3, EDD 28/11/13
TakingTheStairs, DS1, CS 27/11/13 (EDD 04/12/13)
Alyssa1978, DS3, EDD 02/12/13
PistachioTruffle, DC1, EDD 11/12/13
Lisbapalea, DC2, EDD 21/12/13
itsliz, DC1, EDD. 30/12/13

kyz1981 · 15/07/2013 16:09

Sorry StaceyP85 Xposted and missed your post.

Kyz1981, DC3, EDD 28/11/13
TakingTheStairs, DS1, CS 27/11/13 (EDD 04/12/13)
Alyssa1978, DS3, EDD 02/12/13
PistachioTruffle, DC1, EDD 11/12/13
Lisbapalea, DC2, EDD 21/12/13
StaceyP85, DC1, EDD 21/12/13
itsliz, DC1, EDD. 30/12/13

Futterby · 15/07/2013 16:29

Would someone mind copying it and adding me in please? Can't copy on my phone Blush

Futterby, DC1, EDD 30/11/13

Really appreciate all the bf advice, I'll be coming back to this thread when peanut is born :)

kyz1981 · 15/07/2013 16:51

Done x

Kyz1981, DC3, EDD 28/11/13
Futterby, DC1, EDD 30/11/13
TakingTheStairs, DS1, CS 27/11/13 (EDD 04/12/13)
Alyssa1978, DS3, EDD 02/12/13
PistachioTruffle, DC1, EDD 11/12/13
Lisbapalea, DC2, EDD 21/12/13
StaceyP85, DC1, EDD 21/12/13
itsliz, DC1, EDD. 30/12/13

Futterby · 15/07/2013 17:00

Thanks a lot :)

yogafan · 15/07/2013 17:24

Kyz1981, DC3, EDD 28/11/13
Futterby, DC1, EDD 30/11/13
TakingTheStairs, DS1, CS 27/11/13 (EDD 04/12/13)
Alyssa1978, DS3, EDD 02/12/13
Yogafan, DC2, 08/12/13
PistachioTruffle, DC1, EDD 11/12/13
Lisbapalea, DC2, EDD 21/12/13
StaceyP85, DC1, EDD 21/12/13
itsliz, DC1, EDD. 30/12/13

Futterby · 15/07/2013 17:36

Got my scan on Wednesday and I'm so, so worried there's something wrong. Anyone else like this or just me?

Gooseysgirl · 15/07/2013 17:54

20 week scan this afternoon and we are having a boy this time! Didn't mind either way but it will be nice to have one of each Smile

weechops · 15/07/2013 17:55

Hey everyone we are back home finally from our amazing holiday! Had such a good time but nice to be back home and looking forward to my bed tonight since we travelled through the night and only managed a wee nap today. I have so much to catch up on! I will add my stats now then go have a read through :)Kyz1981, DC3, EDD 28/11/13
Futterby, DC1, EDD 30/11/13
TakingTheStairs, DS1, CS 27/11/13 (EDD 04/12/13)
Alyssa1978, DS3, EDD 02/12/13
Yogafan, DC2, 08/12/13
weechops DC3, EDD 10/12/13
PistachioTruffle, DC1, EDD 11/12/13
Lisbapalea, DC2, EDD 21/12/13
StaceyP85, DC1, EDD 21/12/13
itsliz, DC1, EDD. 30/12/13

Dusty04 · 15/07/2013 18:04

Kyz1981, DC3, EDD 28/11/13
Futterby, DC1, EDD 30/11/13
TakingTheStairs, DS1, CS 27/11/13 (EDD 04/12/13)
Alyssa1978, DS3, EDD 02/12/13
Yogafan, DC2, 08/12/13
PistachioTruffle, DC1, EDD 11/12/13
Lisbapalea, DC2, EDD 21/12/13
StaceyP85, DC1, EDD 21/12/13
Dusty04, DC1, EDD 26/12/13
itsliz, DC1, EDD. 30/12/13

Dusty04 · 15/07/2013 18:08

For some reason the new list only showed up when I posted! Now having trouble copying on iPad-can someone add me?

Dusty04, DC1, EDD 26/12/13

Futterby · 15/07/2013 18:22

Congrats goosey!!

Glad you enjoyed your holiday weechops :) where were you again?

weechops · 15/07/2013 18:55

futterby we were in Alcudia, Majorca. Lovely resort, fab hotel and happy kids - perfect holiday for us. And I even got a bit of a tan! Usually I'm chalk white but I'm slightly golden :)

PistachioTruffle · 15/07/2013 19:17

futterby, yes I know exactly what you mean. Mine isn't until next week, but I'm really quite nervous about it, not helped by the fact that some friends got bad news at theirs a few years ago. I know the chances of something being wrong are very small, so im trying to relax as much as possible but i guess it must be natural to worry. I suppose it just shows that we understand the purpose of the scan, rather than thinking its just to show girl or boy! I'll hold your hand till its here though Flowers

Weechops, your holiday sounds heavenly! Glad you had a lovely time.

Goosey congrats on a healthy scan and a little boy to be Grin

Futterby · 15/07/2013 19:28

Thanks pistachio, I'll hold yours too :) more than likely we've got healthy little peanuts :)

weechops, I'm so jealous! Grin

Featherbag · 15/07/2013 19:31

I've got my scan on Thursday, refusing to even entertain the slightest idea that anything will be wrong, as worrying until Thursday won't make the slightest bit of difference! SO excited to find out if DS is getting a baby brother or sister, can't wait to start teaching him the relevant word!

I desperately hope we can afford movers next time we move, we moved into this house almost exactly 2 years ago when I was 24 weeks with DS, family and friends helped but it was still a total nightmare!

Back and hips are so painful today, and while writing that I've just realised I forgot to ring Physio and book an appointment today, will try tomorrow. I'm at the hospital in the morning anyway, finally got a first meeting with my consultant. DH is coming with me, I want him to feel as much a part of the planning of this birth as possible as I know he was pretty traumatised last time, though obviously to nothing like the extent I was!

Can someone please add me to the list? On iPad and it won't let me c&p!
Featherbag, DC2, EDD 05/12/2013

clare8allthepies · 15/07/2013 19:42

Hi, after all that worry, everything was fine and DD is going to have a baby sister! Smile

broke the news to her after we got home from nursery but I don't think she took it in replying 'no Mummy I'VE got a baby in MY tummy'

Good luck to everyone else with scans coming up, will paste myself onto the list when DP is off the laptop.

Futterby · 15/07/2013 20:51

I feel your pain feather, all I can say is make sure you get a physio appointment Flowers

Congrats clare!!

2Labradors · 15/07/2013 21:05

Congratulations goosey and clare on finding out the sex

I'm feeling extremely nervous about my scan which is 3 weeks away, as we've had the 20 week scan but all the checks couldn't be completed so I will be 23/24 weeks at next scan. It's very hard not to go into a blind panic but as my placenta was low at the 20 week scan and there's been talk of admitting me to hospital at 36 week if it doesn't move, I'm hoping the 23 week scan will show that the placenta has moved up.

Dasie · 15/07/2013 21:49

TakingTheStairs, DS1, CS 27/11/13 (EDD 04/12/13)
7Kyz1981, DC3, EDD 28/11/13
Futterby, DC1, EDD 30/11/13
Dasie, DC2, EDD 30/11/13
Alyssa1978, DS3, EDD 02/12/13
Featherbag, DC2, EDD 05/12/2013
Yogafan, DC2, 08/12/13
PistachioTruffle, DC1, EDD 11/12/13
Lisbapalea, DC2, EDD 21/12/13
StaceyP85, DC1, EDD 21/12/13
Dusty04, DC1, EDD 26/12/13
itsliz, DC1, EDD. 30/12/13

Hope I've got that right Grin

merr · 15/07/2013 21:54

Kyz1981, DC3, EDD 28/11/13
Futterby, DC1, EDD 30/11/13
TakingTheStairs, DS1, CS 27/11/13 (EDD 04/12/13)
Alyssa1978, DS3, EDD 02/12/13
Featherbag, DC2, EDD 05/12/2013
Yogafan, DC2, 08/12/13
PistachioTruffle, DC1, EDD 11/12/13
Lisbapalea, DC2, EDD 21/12/13
StaceyP85, DC1, EDD 21/12/13
Dusty04, DC1, EDD 26/12/13
itsliz, DC1, EDD. 30/12/13
Merr, DC2, EDD 03/01/14?

Added us both feather, not sure about my date till I see MW on Thu, so have put the latest one I can find in my notes!