Sulanajo you are welcome. you need to do what's right for you and what helps keep you least worried. I was speaking to SIL (20 weekish with DC 2) about downs test etc. and she did what DF and I are doing. She says she felt so much better having had the extra testing (downs/everything else etc.) and she felt the private testing gave much more detailed results. She was in the NHS screening for about 10/15 minutes for downs where as the private screening was about 30/40 minutes and much more thorough for example. Interestingly the results were different! We are now booked in on 6th July when we will be 13+4 for private screening (downs and everything etc.) and we have the NHS screening on the 24th June when I will be 11+6. On a lighter note,loving the Jack Sparrow vid... 
Sarah I am with Toby on this one. There is no excuse on earth that justifies MrsV or anyone else getting that kind of verbal battering.. It's bang out of order. He has has behaved like a total dickward.. Hope you are feeling better MrsV
and good on you for sticking to your guns. I told DF about it and he was really shocked and couldn't understand why anyone would think that, never mind say it. He sends
too.
Bikey hope you feel better today and with you on the respect issue btw....
Farmer sorry to hear you feel so pants... Hope you feel better soon..
Thatstoast congratulations and welcome
. It's normal to worry about every little thing... 
MrsGSR hope everything is alright with you and you were jut having night sweats. My temperature levels have gone mental since falling pregnant. One minute I am freezing cold and the next i get night sweats.....
As for the MW notes.. No way Am I carrying that massive bundle about. My MW said I only need to take them to all appointments.... So today I have my wedding dress fitting/choosing appointment at 12.....
. So looking forward to it... she says hoping she doesn't hurl on the dresses 