hi all, update from me -
mini-tas - Zachary born 2.38am on Sunday morning, almost in the corridor of the hospital, don't think the MW was expecting me to go so quickly when she sent me for a walk! He is just gorgeous, 7lb 2 oz, like a mini Yoda and feeding constantly. Birth story to follow, it was a good one, quite surprised after a tricky marathon with DD, was not expecting it to be so ...... great this time! 
Hope that all of you waiting have good experiences, I would really recommend Juju Sundin's book and listening to a hypnobirthing CD, they got me through a labour mostly hooked up to a monitoring belt in the triage room!
roast DD didn't feed much in the first few weeks and took ages to regain her birth weight, I just did a sit in and fed and fed and fed, lots of skin to skin for a few weeks, just prioritised breastfeeding over going out for a couple of weeks. Then we phased out the bottles (too much hassle for lazy me).