Congratulations seven. That was quick!
Thanks everyone for your perspective on presents for DS, I think I will, in the end. I got 'Our New Baby' in the post today, and we've read it a couple of times, but I did think I detected a bit of eye rolling when I mentioned the baby earlier...
Agree beaver that you should go ahead and arrange it to suit you - my DP had all sorts of mad ideas about what the whole thing would involve before DS came; he often talked in a delusional manner about what I would be doing during maternity leave and thought it might be wise to bring his laptop to the birth centre so he could work while he 'waited'. All that stuff pretty much ended when he witnessed the actual labour - though he did sometimes underestimate how wrecked and vulnerable I felt in the first few weeks.
I'm not going too far away from home at this point but otherwise think the best thing is to have lots of plans rather than hang about waiting. Obvs nesting is really starting to hit; I deep cleaned the bathroom today and have got everything I think I need for the birth centre, which is:
overnight clothes
maternity pads
clothes for the baby
nappies
nice food, soy milk and tea (the birthcentre has a kitchen)
The only thing I think we're missing is our wrap - my friend bought me one, but lives in Manchester while I'm in London, we haven't seen each other and I keep wussing out of asking her to pop it in the post...
What else do I need? (Honestly, I have done this before...)
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