Readytosettle more in common than we thought?
badguider- I had similar comments from MIL when we were (secretly) ttc- We were apparently "too busy" and "would never have children". Erm....?
MIL is bareable (she lives in uk but oversea) but has been the only person to show pretty much no excitement at pg news. We've been told it "makes sense" because SIL had a baby last year and she got married a similar ish time to us and we bought houses a year or so apart, so it "makes sense" that we're having a baby. (growl) Yesterday was "So your next scan is two days before XXX(SIL's husband)'s birthhday". I just went "Is it?" Because clearly I measure the most important thing in my life by the date of my husbands, sisters, husbands birthday, right?
I won't go on here because you literally haven't the time. Suffice to say I'm glad that a)she has a grandchild already and b)she lives far away. We talked about FIL visiting to help us with some DIY, and MIL said that if he brought some of SIL's old baby clothes over, there would be a point to the visit. Which entirely sums it up really. We've lived together for 7 years and the only time they've ever visited for the sole purpose of seeing us.... was our wedding. We have dutifully done the visit the other way around (and trust me, there's nothing else to do where they live and no-one else to see) once or twice a year for the past almost-nine years.
/me goes to eat another dougnut.