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September 2013 - roll on the second trimester!

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Creamtea1 · 19/02/2013 21:05

Last one nearly full so thought I would start a new one - new thread, new trimester!

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frogchops · 04/03/2013 19:12

27...but Might have just clipped 28 at booking in apt.

hackneybird · 04/03/2013 19:12

Hi everyone.

Delighted to hear of all the successful scans, and that you have a scan date flo!

Not such good news for me though, and it's time for me to say goodbye. I started bleeding lightly last night, but it was bright red, so I went to the EPU today and had a scan. They have confirmed an mmc - the pregnancy failed at around 8 weeks (my 12 week scan was to have been this Thursday. I am feeling very grateful for my little 3yo DS, he has really cheered me up on this sad day.

Good luck to you all going forward and I wish you lots of happy and healthy babies come September.

andadietcoke · 04/03/2013 19:18

Oh hackneybird I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad you have a little one to make you smile and hopefully help you get through the next few days a little bit more easily, and that the next steps are gentle and manageable. Thinking of you xxx

Babyboo79 · 04/03/2013 19:18

So so sad to hear that Hackney. i'm glad DS was able to cheer you up today.

Hope you get lots of TLC and look after yourself Thanks

KamikazeeKid · 04/03/2013 19:32

So, so sorry hackney.

frogchops · 04/03/2013 19:40

Oh hackney I'm sorry, can't imagine how you're feeling but I know its my biggest fear Confused hope ur being looked after.

jennimoo · 04/03/2013 19:44

So sorry hackney :(

CheeseStrawCraving · 04/03/2013 19:46

So sorry hackney Thanks

beans37 · 04/03/2013 19:53

Oh Hackney
I'm so very sorry. So horrid for you. Cuddle your DS and breathe in every bit of him. I hope you start to feel better one day and manage to keep your chin up. So cruel to get so far. Big enormous hugs xxxx

Whyriskit · 04/03/2013 19:57

I'm so sorry Hackney, I hope you're getting lots of RL support. Thinking of you.

Girraferama · 04/03/2013 20:15

Oh Hackney I'm sorry to hear your news, so tough. I really hope time heals and you have a happy future. Glad your little man is looking after you Thanks

PurplePoppySeed · 04/03/2013 20:27

Oh no hackney, so sorry to hear your news, I had the same thing in November so massive hugs. Get lots of rest and don't push yourself to do too much too soon big hugs Thanks

Girra - it seems like so long ago we were on that thread waiting for our positive tests. I should be the 12th but they've put off my scan until next weds, from memory we finally got our positives about the same time, so fingers crossed I'll get the same news as you!

redandyellowandpinkandgreen · 04/03/2013 20:28

I'm really sorry hackney

kimjayne · 04/03/2013 20:34

All my love Hackney! So so sorry. Xxx

leeloo1 · 04/03/2013 20:36

Hackneybird - I'm so sorry to hear your news. Life can be very cruel sometimes, I hope you you get lots of support during this time and that you have better news in a few months time.

purplebynature - great to have a due-date-buddy. Did you realise it'll be Friday 13th! I'm hoping it'll be auspicious rather than a bad omen! :)

Serg · 04/03/2013 20:41

Hackney, so very sorry. xx

Rosyisgonnabeamummy · 04/03/2013 20:43

Thanks Sorry hackney Thanks
Nievely I thought we were all passed the last bus stop.

Glad everyone else is able to share some good news with their families

Today I had to stop off at the public toilets between home visits to vomit. Classy bird.

CharlW1 · 04/03/2013 20:53

So sorry Hackney - life can be so cruel but you will get through this stronger. Glad you have been having lots of hugs and love from your DS. Thinking of you xx

JammyTummy · 04/03/2013 20:56

Sorry to hear your sad news Hackney. Wishing you a quick recovery and sending you lots of positive thoughts and good luck for next time! Thanks

HettySunshine · 04/03/2013 20:58

I'm so very sorry for your loss Hackney. I hope you are being very well looked after. Big hugs ThanksThanks

Leeloo, I am now due on 13th too. I immediately noticed it was a Friday. I'm sure we'll be fine! Eek!

Girraferama · 04/03/2013 21:43

Hey Purple - wow! Feels like a lifetime ago! I was trying to find the thread only yesterday to see who was on it.. badguider was too I think..? Nearly there now... Such a relief to get the scan out of the way!

Keepsmilingsunshine · 04/03/2013 21:56

So sorry Hackney, I hope you're being well looked after Thanks.

I have some positive scan news to report, 1 little bouncing bundle also due on the 13th... looks like its a very popular date!

When is the 2nd trimester, week 13 or 14? You seem to get different dates on different sites.

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Creamtea1 · 04/03/2013 22:14

So sorry to hear your sad news hackney take care of yourself x

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Creamtea1 · 04/03/2013 22:17

Re bmi's - I was 20.6 pre preg, and 21 at booking in, now 22.1 ! and I know that's normal range but they (the medical people) are still going on about weight to me as well so it looks like they now do it to everyone. I've had 3 appts so far between midwife and hosp and been weighed at all 3.

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amiready · 04/03/2013 22:19

Is anyone else getting crampy pelvic pains? Got them last week during scan so presuming everything ok but just wondering if anyone else getting them too? Nothing major but just a gentle aching - kind of went away for several weeks but now back again. Maybe just stretching?

So sorry Hackney, was my biggest fear. Hope you're ok.

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