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October 2013-anyone else with an early Bfp?

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tackytiger · 21/01/2013 15:57

Got my line at 10dpo
This will be my secomd dc. Torn between delight and fear it will all go wrong. Dd october 3 by my reckoning.
Cant tell anyone except dh in real life so hoping i can get quietly excited here!

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Celosia · 07/02/2013 11:27

Rox - thank you! I think I'm probably mid miscarriage right now though.....Hmmso much pain and bleeding. Worst week ever!

Wishing you all wonderful happy healthy pregnancies xxxx

Xiaoxiong · 07/02/2013 11:33

Oh (((celosia))) - so sorry to hear that. Massive hugs and sympathy and hope to see you back on the bus soon.

roxvox · 07/02/2013 11:51

Oh Celosia I am so sorry to hear that. Lots of hugs. xxxxx

cherrycherry41 · 07/02/2013 12:25

Very sorry to hear that Celosia :(

Is it so bad that i really want to get excited with so many risks before 12 weeks? Im 5+4, only OH knows and have not got my booking in appt or scan dates through yet :( Been hopelessy looking at double buggys (DD will be 12mo when new baby arrives) etc but OH wont discuss any of it until the after the scan :(
I want to shout from the rooftops IM PREGNANT!!

34PinkLadyApple · 07/02/2013 12:46

Oh sorry celosia but don't give up hope. A friend of mine had pains and bled for many weeks to the point where she didn't tell anyone she was preg until the 20 week scan. Her son is now 3 and a lovely healthy boy!

Fingers crossed for you x

Warlin · 07/02/2013 13:20

Hi all
Just marking my place. I am 6 weeks pregnant with dc2. I have an 8 month old and am still on maternity leave. Work are going to love me when I go back in March!

I seem to be spending my time turning down invites for drinks that all seem to have come at once :/ so hard not to tell people.

Feeling tired and a bit nauseous but not too bad apart from that. Don't have much time to wallow as my baby keeps me busy!

Congratulations to everyone else. I'm due around 3rd Oct I think

Warlin · 07/02/2013 13:22

celosa so sorry I just read your post...really hope you're wrong and that all is ok x

mini28 · 07/02/2013 13:24

So very sorry to hear that celosia but don't give up hope yet. Lots of people have bleeding and then go on to have normal pregnancies.

Sending you hugs and best wishes xx

Rockchick1984 · 07/02/2013 13:37

So sorry Celosia, are any tests being run eg HCG levels, scan etc?

Welcome Warlin there's a few on here with babies close together I think :) I know what you mean re invites - I'm trying to either offer to drive or just pleading poverty but will tell people once we've had an early scan and (hopefully!) know everything is going well.

Livened · 07/02/2013 13:58

Can I join please? Just got a bfp this morning! Vital stats are I'm 30, edd 12/10/13, already have a gorgeous DS who just turned 1year.

Hope everyone is feeling ok and exited for the next few months ahead! Right, I'm off to have a brew and a biscuit - surely that's allowed now I'm up-duffed!

X

Livened · 07/02/2013 13:59

Can someone kind add me to the stats list too? I only have an iPad and flaming thing won't do it! Xx

roxvox · 07/02/2013 14:17

Here you go Livened, and welcome to the forum/congratulations!

Char1eston, 36, EDD 26th sept, 1DD 20 months
WillSantaComeAgain, 35, EDD 27 Sept, 1 DC (2.1)
Umlauf, 26 (on Sunday!) edd 1st October, 0DC
34pinkladyapple, 34, EDD 1st Oct, 0 DC
Artyparty- 38, EDD 1st Oct, 1 DD (2yrs 3 months)
BowlFullofJelly, 30, EDD 1st October, 1 DS
racheld33 30, EDD 1st Oct, 1DS
tutti78, 34, EDD 1st Oct, 0DC
pinkbuttons, 22, EDD 1st Oct, DS(2)
Legallyblond, 31, EDD 1st Oct, 1 DD (2.4)
PenelopeLane 32, EDD 2 Oct, 1 DS (16 months, due 4 days before his bday!)
GreenSunrise 33, EDD 3 Oct, 1 DS (20 months)
GTbaby 30, edd 5/10. Ds1 is 4 months
Tarlia, 30, EDD October 6th, 1DS (2)
Pinkush, 33, EDD October 6th, 1DS (18m)
xuntitledx, 25, EDD 7 October, 0DC
Roxvox, 26, EDD 8th Oct, 0DC
Terrifiednewbie, 30, EDD 8th oct, 0DC
GettingObsessive, 31, EDD 8th Oct, 0 DC
Irishfairy, 28, EDD 8th October, 1DD (2.5)
MrsAFlowerpot, 28, EDD 9th Oct, DD (3.10)
roofio87 25, EDD 9th Oct, 0DCs
Pannacotta, 34, EDD 9th Oct, 0DC
Iheartcrunchiebars, 32, EDD 10th October, 0DC
mini28, 28, EDD 11th October, 0DC
Elleroo, 32, EDD 12th October, 0DC
Sal1977, 35, edd 12th October, 0DC
Soupqueen, 36, edd 12th October, 0DC
Livened, 30, edd 12th October, 1DS (1)
tuckingfits, 33,edd 13th,1 DS (2)
Mrsexcited, 28, edd 13 October, 0D
wickedgirl, 37, EDD 14 oct, (14, 12, 8) oh no!
Haylebop12, 25, EDD 15th oct, 1dd (4years)
Natalieand, 22, EDD 16th October, 1DD (2 years 3 months)
Rockchick1984, 28, EDD 18th October, 1DS (22 months)

GTbaby · 07/02/2013 15:33

Cherry I looked at doubles last night aswell. Really like the oyster max. I think it's new. Out this month. I deff don't want a side by side double. But I don't really like the phil and ted look.

Managed toast and cereal today. Doesn't taste normal Hmm

cherrycherry41 · 07/02/2013 15:40

GT thats the one ive been looking at too! it says feb 2013 so should be in stores soon i should think. I love it in purple! I went plain and classic with my DDs pram and got a Silver Cross Linear Freeway and its hugeeee, i thought i wanted a big robust walking pram but ive found its a massive annoyance! God knows what im going to b like with a double though! Definately prefer tandem doubles as doubt side by side would fit through doorways/clothes aisles/buses! :/
oyster max looks lovely and slim, probably slimmer than the buggy i have now lol x

Xiaoxiong · 07/02/2013 15:48

Oh I forgot to add myself:

Char1eston, 36, EDD 26th sept, 1DD 20 months
WillSantaComeAgain, 35, EDD 27 Sept, 1 DC (2.1)
Umlauf, 26 (on Sunday!) edd 1st October, 0DC
34pinkladyapple, 34, EDD 1st Oct, 0 DC
Artyparty- 38, EDD 1st Oct, 1 DD (2yrs 3 months)
BowlFullofJelly, 30, EDD 1st October, 1 DS
racheld33 30, EDD 1st Oct, 1DS
tutti78, 34, EDD 1st Oct, 0DC
pinkbuttons, 22, EDD 1st Oct, DS(2)
Legallyblond, 31, EDD 1st Oct, 1 DD (2.4)
PenelopeLane 32, EDD 2 Oct, 1 DS (16 months, due 4 days before his bday!)
GreenSunrise 33, EDD 3 Oct, 1 DS (20 months)
GTbaby 30, edd 5/10. Ds1 is 4 months
Tarlia, 30, EDD October 6th, 1DS (2)
Pinkush, 33, EDD October 6th, 1DS (18m)
xuntitledx, 25, EDD 7 October, 0DC
Roxvox, 26, EDD 8th Oct, 0DC
Terrifiednewbie, 30, EDD 8th oct, 0DC
GettingObsessive, 31, EDD 8th Oct, 0 DC
Irishfairy, 28, EDD 8th October, 1DD (2.5)
MrsAFlowerpot, 28, EDD 9th Oct, DD (3.10)
roofio87 25, EDD 9th Oct, 0DCs
Pannacotta, 34, EDD 9th Oct, 0DC
Iheartcrunchiebars, 32, EDD 10th October, 0DC
Xiaoxiong, 29, EDD 10th October, 1DS (14m)
mini28, 28, EDD 11th October, 0DC
Elleroo, 32, EDD 12th October, 0DC
Sal1977, 35, edd 12th October, 0DC
Soupqueen, 36, edd 12th October, 0DC
Livened, 30, edd 12th October, 1DS (1)
tuckingfits, 33,edd 13th,1 DS (2)
Mrsexcited, 28, edd 13 October, 0D
wickedgirl, 37, EDD 14 oct, (14, 12, 8) oh no!
Haylebop12, 25, EDD 15th oct, 1dd (4years)
Natalieand, 22, EDD 16th October, 1DD (2 years 3 months)
Rockchick1984, 28, EDD 18th October, 1DS (22 months)

pinkbuttons · 07/02/2013 15:49

celosia really sorry to hear your having a rubbish week I hope everything isnt as bad as you think it is, but sending hugs either way.

Today I am sick and starving at the same time Confused I didnt realise that was even possible.

cherry my DH is being very much like that too, I know it is his defence mechanism should anything happen, I on the other hand am so excited for this bean that right from my BFP I would have been upset if anything happened. Think I may tell a couple of close girlfriends next week though... we'll see

Hope everyones had a good day. I for one am glad its nearly the weekend!

Haylebop12 · 07/02/2013 15:52

pink I feel like that too. I'm so hungry but just don't fancy anything Sad

Natalieand · 07/02/2013 15:54

I've had such a stomach ache for days now, but not like down where my womb is its much higher up the kind of stomache ache u get if u have a sick bug only I don't have a sick bug lol, just an upset tummy and a constant feeling of wanting to be sick but not atchly being sick, feel rough as anything.
gt and cherry glad I'm not the only one jumping the gun and looking at buggys I like the mamas and papas Luna. I had a travel system for my daughter and only used the carry cot about 5 times and used too lazily attach the car seat to the buggy all the time and I don't wanna fall into that again. Hubby's being very cautious too about telling ppl ATM only me hubby, my mum, his nan and 2 of my friends know, I wanna shout it from the rooftops but I don't wanna jinx myself xxxx hope everyone's ok today xxx

Natalieand · 07/02/2013 16:08

And for some reason I was just wondering if any of our pregnancies will turn out to be twins/multiples when we go for our scans. Will be exciting stuff xx

cherrycherry41 · 07/02/2013 16:23

natalie id be doomed with a multiple pregnancy as id probably give birth before my DD is even 1 yo!

Wont be 12 weeks until 17th march which is 38 days of not telling anyone! I cant cope!!
Dont know how we'll announce the news though as we've conceived 2 babies in the time BIL and SIL have been ttc, they were a mixture of gutted/excited last time, think they may be more upset this time... :/

cherrycherry41 · 07/02/2013 16:26

Also, got my DD weighed today and shes HUGE- on the 98th centile :/ dont know how im going to cope carrying her around for the next 8 months!!

Natalieand · 07/02/2013 16:28

Isit normal to have an upset stomach and the feeling to be sick but nt atchly being sick at 4-5 weeks? It's making me feel so unwell and I feel like I can't eat

cherrycherry41 · 07/02/2013 16:31

its normal id say, i find im sick when i DONT eat & keep hydrated, in both pgs..

cherrycherry41 · 07/02/2013 16:31

*feel sick i should say

Wickedgirl · 07/02/2013 16:48

Dh and I told our 3 this morning. The eldest and youngest are already arguing as to where the baby will sleep when its older. DD says with her but youngest has more room in his bedroom. Middle child wants to teach the baby tennis. :)

Ww have asked the children not to say anything to anyone. I want to try to get to 12 weeks before we tell people.