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July 2013 Part 3 - happy new year, happy new thread

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dinkystinky · 01/01/2013 09:39

Happy 2013 one and all!

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wifey6 · 08/01/2013 15:38

BB01...where abouts are you? I'm in the south west & the midwife sorts the first scan & then automatically the 20 week scan is sent by the hospital.

dinkystinky · 08/01/2013 15:56

BB01 - I got booked in for second scan after first one. I suspect it varies from place ot place though. If you cant get flu jab on the NHS, Boots does them (or at least it does near my workplace) as does Nuffield Health - you'll need to pay for it but then, if you want the jab and cant get it on the NHS it may be worth doing.

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ArkadyRose · 08/01/2013 16:20

Co-op pharmacies do it as well for £20.

Abzs · 08/01/2013 16:34

BB01 - where I am (Grampian) the midwife booked the 12 week scan, then before you leave the scanning dept the admin person books the next scan for you and writes it into the appointments list in your notes book.

You could phone the scanning dept reception and ask them if you can't get hold of the midwife. Or your GP reception would probably know.

Thinkingof4 · 08/01/2013 16:36

I had flu jab through work before I got pg but would have had it if I had been pg. Ive had it during each pregnancy and also had swine flu one ?2 years ago when pg. I actually did then get a mild flu like illness later on and im convinced that I would have been a lot worse off had I not had it. That was at the time that there were heavily pg women seriously unwell (even dying) from swine flu so I felt pretty lucky. Obviously swine flu was a lot worse for pregnant women than normal flu though!! I'm not scaremongering or anything, it's a personal decision but im happy to take anything on offer!

I've had a late resurgence of ms too last few days but actually a bit better today.

15weeks

photographerlady · 08/01/2013 17:10

Abzs is your next scan closer to 18 or 22 weeks?

MightBeMad · 08/01/2013 18:26

Shiv how was the scan?? Anyone else had one today??

I think we have a whole crop of scanees tomorrow don't we?

I also had my 20 wk scan booked by the admin lady at the hospital after u'd had my 12 wk one.

Photo - are you feeling any more comfy after a day in comfy trous?

Supershiv1 · 08/01/2013 18:47

Hi all.
Dating scan today makes me 12wks rather than 12+6 as per my dates.
Little Ribena wasn't as wriggly as last week but is 5.5cm. I was concerned as I had another bleed last night, including 'chopped liver' about the size of an egg yolk.
I have been told to rest....
Couldn't do nuchal scan as baby was in the wrong position. So I have to go for blood tests only in a couple of weeks.
In my scan they also found I have 2 fybroids in my womb. One 6cm and one 4cm (this explain s the years of heavy periods). The 6cm one seemed to be pushing on babies space quite a lot compared to the scan last week.
Probably a bit hormonal but I had so many questions to ask and then was pinning hopes on them being answered today and I feel I have more questions than answers and feel quite down. [Sad]

Cheeseandbread · 08/01/2013 19:25

Supershiv sorry you seem to have more questions than answers today. Positive news that bean is growing though.

I told the head and other staff at work yesterday about being pregnant. Barely let the head get her coat off before I told her I had some news and could I talk to her. Everyone seemed positive which was nice.

Kids back today after INSET yesterday. Feeling shattered now with rugs and a hot water bottle on the sofa.

princessllama · 08/01/2013 19:35

oh shiv, what a rough 24 hours. poor you, not knowing what exactly is going on must be torturous. alot of people on here have said they've had bleeds and gone on to have very healthy dcs. anything good you can do to cheer yourself up-i always favour a cadburys cream egg and a bath and radio 4, and if i am v low i get my best friend round and we dance to Dirty Dancing and sing badly. sending you a hug

princessllama · 08/01/2013 19:37

cheese i am absolutely crackered too.my tummy is really tense and the nausea is bad which i think is due to tiredness. in bed but will have to get up soon to make supper.

princessllama · 08/01/2013 19:40

princessllama-dc3-27th June
CottonSocks - 1st July
QuinandThem - 1st July
Badgerwife - DC2 - 1st July
Cutandstick - 2nd July
Runswithsquirrels - 2nd July
Thinkingof4- DC4 -2nd July
VinegarDrinker - DC2 - 2nd July
Persuasion - 3rd July
esme80 - 3rd july
Glup - 3rd July
BB01 - 4th July
Dinkystinky - DC3 - 4th July
elliejjtiny - 4th July
wifey6 - 5th July
Notprincesskate - DC2 - 5 July
OhGood - 5th July
PenguinsInThePantry - 5th July
marmitemad DC2 - 6th July
Gingerpanther27 - 7th July
TheQueensChristmasDinner - DC5 - 7th July
Abzs - DC1 - 7th July
Efme - 8th July
GeorgieWilson - 9th July
shelley72 - 9th July
Devilforasideboard - 10th July
Calmisthemantra - 11th July
Specialknickers - 11th July
MrsMillions - DC1 - 11th July
Emblosion - 12th July
mysterymeg - 12th July
Reikimummy - 12th July (DC1)
SlouchingPanda - 12th July
Thundercatz - 12th July
Twirliedobbit - DC4 - 12th July
Hai1988 - 14th July
LittleFlower888 - 14th July
Tashtastic - 14th July
Lizincornwall - 15th July
Mizar - 15th July
Guavasforbreakfast - DC1 - 16th July
paolocee/donna - 17th July
Supershiv1 - DC1 - 17th July
missmaybe - 18th July
MrsWildermac - 18th July
photographerlady - 18th July
GingerJulep - DC1 - 19th July
Niktasha - 19th July
whitedaffodil - 19th July
orangebubbles - DC2 - 20th July
Thinking positive thoughts - 20th July
AmaDablam - DC1 - 21st July
Beaditsback - DC2 - 21st July
butterflyexperience - 22nd July
Cheeseandbread - DC1 - 22nd July
BadMissM- DC2- 22nd July
Isitme1 - 23rd July
MightBeMad - 23rd July
ArkadyRose - 24th July
Boostar - 24th July
Cantreachmytoes - 24th July
Grannyapple - 24th July
Camb79 - 25th July
Sashabella0 - 25th July
MrsRoss26 - 26th July
BoyMeetsWorld - 27th July
marimama - 27th July
YikesHereWeGo - 27th July
Flyingsprocket - 31st July
SchroSawMummyRidingSantaClaus - Unknown

princessllama · 08/01/2013 19:42

i have just update my due date. thank you for all cheery messages on the subject. cutandstick, i bet you beat me to it, in fact, i bet at least half of you do, i am a slow baker Grin

Supershiv1 · 08/01/2013 19:57

princessllama - mmmmmm Creme Egg!
In positive news if I am going mmmm Creme Egg the MS must be subsiding!

Just feel like i am on a treadmill with the antenatal care and there's no 121 time. Will call the mw in the morning I think as I must stop being all 'oooooh I mustn't bother them I will ask mumsnet instead'. x

Good luck to scannees tomorrow.
Updated my EDD as put back a week after today.

princessllama-dc3-27th June
CottonSocks - 1st July
QuinandThem - 1st July
Badgerwife - DC2 - 1st July
Cutandstick - 2nd July
Runswithsquirrels - 2nd July
Thinkingof4- DC4 -2nd July
VinegarDrinker - DC2 - 2nd July
Persuasion - 3rd July
esme80 - 3rd july
Glup - 3rd July
BB01 - 4th July
Dinkystinky - DC3 - 4th July
elliejjtiny - 4th July
wifey6 - 5th July
Notprincesskate - DC2 - 5 July
OhGood - 5th July
PenguinsInThePantry - 5th July
marmitemad DC2 - 6th July
Gingerpanther27 - 7th July
TheQueensChristmasDinner - DC5 - 7th July
Abzs - DC1 - 7th July
Efme - 8th July
GeorgieWilson - 9th July
shelley72 - 9th July
Devilforasideboard - 10th July
Calmisthemantra - 11th July
Specialknickers - 11th July
MrsMillions - DC1 - 11th July
Emblosion - 12th July
mysterymeg - 12th July
Reikimummy - 12th July (DC1)
SlouchingPanda - 12th July
Thundercatz - 12th July
Twirliedobbit - DC4 - 12th July
Hai1988 - 14th July
LittleFlower888 - 14th July
Tashtastic - 14th July
Lizincornwall - 15th July
Mizar - 15th July
Guavasforbreakfast - DC1 - 16th July
paolocee/donna - 17th July
missmaybe - 18th July
MrsWildermac - 18th July
photographerlady - 18th July
GingerJulep - DC1 - 19th July
Niktasha - 19th July
whitedaffodil - 19th July
orangebubbles - DC2 - 20th July
Thinking positive thoughts - 20th July
AmaDablam - DC1 - 21st July
Beaditsback - DC2 - 21st July
butterflyexperience - 22nd July
Cheeseandbread - DC1 - 22nd July
BadMissM- DC2- 22nd July
Isitme1 - 23rd July
MightBeMad - 23rd July
Supershiv1 - DC1 - 23rd July
ArkadyRose - 24th July
Boostar - 24th July
Cantreachmytoes - 24th July
Grannyapple - 24th July
Camb79 - 25th July
Sashabella0 - 25th July
MrsRoss26 - 26th July
BoyMeetsWorld - 27th July
marimama - 27th July
YikesHereWeGo - 27th July
Flyingsprocket - 31st July
SchroSawMummyRidingSantaClaus - Unknown

dinkystinky · 08/01/2013 20:00

Hugs Supershiv. Did they say anything re the fibroids? A few days here or there on a dating scan does not really matter but you sound really worried and down about the bleeding and fibroids. Can you speak with your Gp or midwife team re your concerns?

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TotallyEggFlipped · 08/01/2013 20:06

Hi everyone!

I've been on the August thread for a little while, but it turns out I'm more pregnant than I thought! It's a bit intimidating coming over here when you're on thread 3 already. I've got a lot of catching-up to do!

I'm 12+5 with DC2. EDD 18/7. DD is almost 2.

Looking forward to getting to know you all.

princessllama-dc3-27th June
CottonSocks - 1st July
QuinandThem - 1st July
Badgerwife - DC2 - 1st July
Cutandstick - 2nd July
Runswithsquirrels - 2nd July
Thinkingof4- DC4 -2nd July
VinegarDrinker - DC2 - 2nd July
Persuasion - 3rd July
esme80 - 3rd july
Glup - 3rd July
BB01 - 4th July
Dinkystinky - DC3 - 4th July
elliejjtiny - 4th July
wifey6 - 5th July
Notprincesskate - DC2 - 5 July
OhGood - 5th July
PenguinsInThePantry - 5th July
marmitemad DC2 - 6th July
Gingerpanther27 - 7th July
TheQueensChristmasDinner - DC5 - 7th July
Abzs - DC1 - 7th July
Efme - 8th July
GeorgieWilson - 9th July
shelley72 - 9th July
Devilforasideboard - 10th July
Calmisthemantra - 11th July
Specialknickers - 11th July
MrsMillions - DC1 - 11th July
Emblosion - 12th July
mysterymeg - 12th July
Reikimummy - 12th July (DC1)
SlouchingPanda - 12th July
Thundercatz - 12th July
Twirliedobbit - DC4 - 12th July
Hai1988 - 14th July
LittleFlower888 - 14th July
Tashtastic - 14th July
Lizincornwall - 15th July
Mizar - 15th July
Guavasforbreakfast - DC1 - 16th July
paolocee/donna - 17th July
missmaybe - 18th July
MrsWildermac - 18th July
photographerlady - 18th July
TotallyEggFlipped - 18th July
GingerJulep - DC1 - 19th July
Niktasha - 19th July
whitedaffodil - 19th July
orangebubbles - DC2 - 20th July
Thinking positive thoughts - 20th July
AmaDablam - DC1 - 21st July
Beaditsback - DC2 - 21st July
butterflyexperience - 22nd July
Cheeseandbread - DC1 - 22nd July
BadMissM- DC2- 22nd July
Isitme1 - 23rd July
MightBeMad - 23rd July
Supershiv1 - DC1 - 23rd July
ArkadyRose - 24th July
Boostar - 24th July
Cantreachmytoes - 24th July
Grannyapple - 24th July
Camb79 - 25th July
Sashabella0 - 25th July
MrsRoss26 - 26th July
BoyMeetsWorld - 27th July
marimama - 27th July
YikesHereWeGo - 27th July
Flyingsprocket - 31st July
SchroSawMummyRidingSantaClaus - Unknown

BadMissM · 08/01/2013 20:09

supershiv They found a cyst in my 12-week scan, and now my GP thinks it might be a fibroid too.... but they aren't looking further or doing anything about it.....

BadMissM · 08/01/2013 20:12

Had my 12 week scan Friday, where they found this cyst/fibroid/whatever, but the baby doing fine. That said, the scan was abysmal, very fuzzy.

My PCT have told me they don't and won't do a Nuchal or combined despite the fact I'm 45...as far as I can tell only PCT that won't do it. They told me I could go to Manchester or Leeds (70/100 miles) and pay £180 for it if I wanted one. They wouldn't refer me....

They haven't booked next scan, and haven't had booking-in either... Wish I was still in London!

dinkystinky · 08/01/2013 20:19

Welcome Totally!

BadmissM - I am appalled at your PCT! Where do you live? Just asking so I can use it for fodder with the move out from London conversations DH periodically starts.

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photographerlady · 08/01/2013 20:22

might yes my big baggy unfashionable jeans have seemed to help. Still tender. Going to keep them on the rest the week.

Side note: SCAN TOMORROW :)

MrsMillions · 08/01/2013 20:26

Welcome eggflip!

Have been looking at NCT dates locally. I assumed I'd do a course finishing in June but we are on holiday with the in-laws for a week in early June (only the Lake District so not too far, FIL's 60th birthday present) which prevents that as wouldn't want to miss the 2 sessions inc breastfeeding that fall that week.

So do I pick a course ending in May, exactly 2 months before my due date, or one starting in June and finishing on 7th July, 4 days before I'm due?

13+5

BadMissM · 08/01/2013 20:38

dinkystinky Just a few news stories about them...they are also known as 'the baby death trust'...

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-19812233

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-cumbria-19647068

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-cumbria-17273903

Morecambe Bay Hospitals (Lancaster, Barrow, Kendal), in case you're planning to avoid it like the plague.... I didn't realise there were such gaps in care until I left major cities....

Ama displaced Londoner, left there 8 years ago. Had DD in France, and am horrified at what appears to pass for maternity care here! Shock

CitizenOscar · 08/01/2013 20:40

MrsMillions - I'd do the later NCT course because if you have the baby say 6 weeks before everyone else on your course, you'll find they're still on maternity leave & then it'll probably be a few weeks after their babes are born before they want to meet, so your baby could be a couple of months old.

However, you could contact your local Nct and see what people locally usually do. Maybe you could join the "right" course but hop onto the breastfeeding session of a later/earlier course?

I found it really helped to have people going through the same thing at the same time - and in the early days a few weeks seems to make a big difference. Having said that, by 6 months it won't, but those early weeks are a key time for having support & company.

CottonSock · 08/01/2013 20:42

MrsMillions my NCT booking lady said this 'We would usually recommend between 28-56 days between the end of the antenatal course and your expected due date.' Course I booked starts end of April, which seems soon, but the one after was finshing a week before due date.

Shiv - hope youre ok, poor you with extra stress of fibroids.

Beaditsback · 08/01/2013 20:49

Scan was yesterday so changing due date on the list as brought forward a week
So sharing with tashtastic littleflower888 and hai1988
Pleased to see just the one on the scan which was really clear this time Smile

princessllama-dc3-27th June
CottonSocks - 1st July
QuinandThem - 1st July
Badgerwife - DC2 - 1st July
Cutandstick - 2nd July
Runswithsquirrels - 2nd July
Thinkingof4- DC4 -2nd July
VinegarDrinker - DC2 - 2nd July
Persuasion - 3rd July
esme80 - 3rd july
Glup - 3rd July
BB01 - 4th July
Dinkystinky - DC3 - 4th July
elliejjtiny - 4th July
wifey6 - 5th July
Notprincesskate - DC2 - 5 July
OhGood - 5th July
PenguinsInThePantry - 5th July
marmitemad DC2 - 6th July
Gingerpanther27 - 7th July
TheQueensChristmasDinner - DC5 - 7th July
Abzs - DC1 - 7th July
Efme - 8th July
GeorgieWilson - 9th July
shelley72 - 9th July
Devilforasideboard - 10th July
Calmisthemantra - 11th July
Specialknickers - 11th July
MrsMillions - DC1 - 11th July
Emblosion - 12th July
mysterymeg - 12th July
Reikimummy - 12th July (DC1)
SlouchingPanda - 12th July
Thundercatz - 12th July
Twirliedobbit - DC4 - 12th July
Hai1988 - 14th July
LittleFlower888 - 14th July
Tashtastic - 14th July
Beaditsback - dc2 14th July
Lizincornwall - 15th July
Mizar - 15th July
Guavasforbreakfast - DC1 - 16th July
paolocee/donna - 17th July
missmaybe - 18th July
MrsWildermac - 18th July
photographerlady - 18th July
TotallyEggFlipped - 18th July
GingerJulep - DC1 - 19th July
Niktasha - 19th July
whitedaffodil - 19th July
orangebubbles - DC2 - 20th July
Thinking positive thoughts - 20th July
AmaDablam - DC1 - 21st July
butterflyexperience - 22nd July
Cheeseandbread - DC1 - 22nd July
BadMissM- DC2- 22nd July
Isitme1 - 23rd July
MightBeMad - 23rd July
Supershiv1 - DC1 - 23rd July
ArkadyRose - 24th July
Boostar - 24th July
Cantreachmytoes - 24th July
Grannyapple - 24th July
Camb79 - 25th July
Sashabella0 - 25th July
MrsRoss26 - 26th July
BoyMeetsWorld - 27th July
marimama - 27th July
YikesHereWeGo - 27th July
Flyingsprocket - 31st July
SchroSawMummyRidingSantaClaus - Unknown