Update again. Apparently my waters haven't broken, but to keep wearing pads and keep an eye on things. No idea what the (tmi warning) 5 gushes
I experienced were then, so I'm at a loss.
Had emergency growth scan, showing at this point baby is measuring about 41 weeks and was given weight estimate of 9-10lbs. Consultant appointment wednesday next week (which I think is too late given that she's massive already) to discuss birth management.
I've got to ask for some important advice ladies, if I have the option, would you go with an induction and vaginal delivery, or a caesarian? Honestly I don't deal with pain well, and the thought of tearing majorly fills me with fear. Even more so because of anaemia, where I'm at an increased risk of bleeding badly. Epidural or spinal block is out of the question due to me and DP being against them, so I wouldn't accept that form of pain relief. Women in my family also tend to have small hips.
Caesarian on the other hand - I'm terrified of operations and don't like needles, so would go under general not local anaesthetic. I don't know how long after baby arrives I'll wake up however, and I very much wish to breastfeed. However, with no risk of tearing, and I may be wrong but no risk of haemorrhaging, it's probably the safer option. DP thinks I should go for latter, as under general anaesthetic I can't have a panic attack, and he also thinks it's safer considering everything on top of extremely bad spd. What would you do?