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I have never made so many people cry ......

231 replies

woollyjo · 30/06/2009 22:11

Niamh Hope Anne was born at 4:12am, 30/06/2009, 8lb 13oz. Full term.

Unfortunately no heartbeat was detected during a fast and furious 4-hour labour and she was delivered with the cord tightly wound round her neck.
Niamh's heart never started.

This is our second daughter following 2 miscarriages earlier this year.

She was perfectly formed and looked just like her sister did as a newborn.

We held her for hours

We are lost in grief but delighted to have Mae (2.5)to keep us going.

OP posts:
lulalullabye · 01/07/2009 00:13

So sorry for you losing your Niamh. xxx

cathcat · 01/07/2009 00:22

So so sorry. Your daughter will always be in the hearts of you and your family. All best wishes.

PurplePillow · 01/07/2009 00:28

So sorry for your loss

My heart goes out to you and your family, take strength from Mae and you will never forget Niamh xx

1dilemma · 01/07/2009 00:36

SO sorry for you all.
She has a lovely name

Cowwomanmoo · 01/07/2009 00:48

That terrible, my deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Danceswithchickens · 01/07/2009 01:00

so so sorry for your loss

3cutedarlings · 01/07/2009 01:12

i am so very sorry for your loss, love to you and you family xxx

JetLi · 01/07/2009 06:49

woolyjo - we're shocked and heartbroken for you. So very sorry for your loss. xx

chimchar · 01/07/2009 06:54

i'm so so sorry to hear about baby niamh...thinking of you and your family. xx

Buda · 01/07/2009 06:58

I am so sorry for you all. Rest in peace little Niamh.

stoppinattwo · 01/07/2009 06:59

so sorry for what has happened, it just puts all our other problems and worries in their place...

I dont know what else to say, sometinhg like this completely stops you in your tracks.

Take care and love to you all XXX

Madmentalbint · 01/07/2009 07:00

So very very sorry for you and your family xx

Kimi · 01/07/2009 07:12

so sorry for your loss

pindy · 01/07/2009 07:16

I am so sorry to hear this.

When we lost our first child - nearly 18 years ago now, the words I remember and still hold close are:

"She was but a bud on earth, destined to bloom in heaven"

Take care of yourselves during this very sad time, thinking of you. Xx

lydiathetattooedlady · 01/07/2009 07:38

im so, so sorry to hear of your loss woollyjo x x

mumoverseas · 01/07/2009 08:12

I'm so sorru woollyjo, there is one more angel now in heaven and she will be watching over you always.
Hugs to you, your DH and your DD xxx

Thandeka · 01/07/2009 08:28

I'm so so sorry. Look after yourselves.
xxx

lottiejenkins · 01/07/2009 08:29

I am so so sorry for your loss, We have a very special thread for bereaved Mums if you want to come and chat to us!
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/bereavement/749480-Ciaran-39-s-Thread-For-Bereaved-Mammies-Where-It-39?msgid=15 990019

shabster · 01/07/2009 08:39

....no death so sad as that of a child. Can I echo Lotties post and say that you will get loving support on our special thread. xxx

cocolepew · 01/07/2009 08:43

I'm so sorry.

Maveta · 01/07/2009 08:46

I am so sorry, hold each other tight x

Patchybob · 01/07/2009 08:47

Woolyjo I posted on our thread but wasn't sure if you would go back onto it or not. I just wanted you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. So shocked to hear your news xxxxx

francagoestohollywood · 01/07/2009 08:50

How heartbreaking . So sorry for you and your family.

christiana · 01/07/2009 09:02

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Misspaella · 01/07/2009 09:21

OMG
I am so so sorry Woollyjo and can't even imagine what you are going through. Please take care.

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