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Toddler in hospital. Need a handhold.

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sobsanta · 04/11/2020 13:54

DD is 2 and has been ill for about four days with what we presumed to be a heavy cold. She hasn't slept much and today took a turn for the worse where we had to call an ambulance due to her breathing being laboured while sleeping and sucking in under the ribs with every breath. Paramedics think some kind of upper respiratory infection as her chest appears clear. Epiglottitis was mentioned or possibly severe tonsillitis but they didn't want to check her mouth at home in case it panicked her.

DH went to the hospital with her as he's calm and collected and only one parent is allowed due to coronavirus restrictions. She's a daddy's girl anyway so she'll feel safe with him but I'm kicking myself that I can't be with them both. Haven't heard anything yet and they've been gone about an hour.

Am terrified and need distraction as I know there's nothing I can do and she's with the best people.

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Tyranttoddler · 07/11/2020 05:43

I love her little scrunchie in her hair. She is absolutely beautiful and sounds like such a sweet and funny little person. I am so sorry for you, there is absolutely nothing adequate to say.

thetrees · 07/11/2020 06:01

What a beautiful little girl. So so sorry OP xx

Mummyoflittledragon · 07/11/2020 06:14

What a Lovely little girl. My heart is bleeding for you. Big hugs Flowers

SconesJamthenCream · 07/11/2020 06:15

I'm so sorry for your loss. RIP little one.

Lostatsea10 · 07/11/2020 06:16

I’m so sorry for you, DH and your families. I know these words are inadequate but I don’t know what else to say. She’s an absolute beauty and you can see the joy and happiness radiating. She knows how loved she is. I wish you all strength and love to get through the next few weeks Flowers

Sexnotgender · 07/11/2020 06:18

She’s so beautiful, my little boy is just a few months younger, I’ll be holding him extra tight today.

Again I’m so sorry for your loss x

MartiniDry · 07/11/2020 06:22

I'm deeply sorry for your tragic loss. I hope that you find comfort in each other and those around you.

elonmusk · 07/11/2020 06:25

I am so so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful girl. My heart goes out to you at this dreadful time. I wish you comfort in time.

twig1234 · 07/11/2020 06:35

What a beautiful girl, my heart breaks for you

whataballbag · 07/11/2020 07:03

What a gorgeous little girl. And such a lovely name too.

We will light a candle for her today.

I hope you get some answers OP. And I hope you managed to get some rest x

kate288 · 07/11/2020 07:04

Your little girl is so beautiful and looks so happy and clearly very loved. Please keep posting pictures and talking about her if that helps you ❤️

So sorry again for your loss, I will be thinking about you and Wyatt all day long x

Peasbewithyou · 07/11/2020 07:15

I’m so so unbelievably sorry OP. I have been on MN almost 10 years and your post is undoubtedly the most shocking, awful thing I have read on here. I have been thinking about you all night. Your lovely Wyatt Rose is absolutely beautiful and you can feel the love surrounding her.

I will be holding you all in my thoughts.

So much love to you and your family OP.

ThistleWitch · 07/11/2020 07:43

I really cannot imagine what you and your family are going through, I am so sorry.
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Mollscroll · 07/11/2020 07:48

Wyatt Is lovely. And the pictures capture how much love she had around her. I can’t imagine what you are going through. It’s so wrong.

StealthPolarBear · 07/11/2020 07:53

I am so very sorry op. X

Trixie18 · 07/11/2020 07:54

I'm so sorry xxx

ColaCubs · 07/11/2020 07:58

I am so so sorry for your loss op. Thanks

Jemma2907 · 07/11/2020 08:00

I'm so sorry for your incredibly tragic loss. Your daughter was a beautiful little soul and my heart breaks for you and your family x

IamHyouweegobshite · 07/11/2020 08:06

I am so incredibly sorry for the loss of your beautiful little girl. FlowersBearDaffodil

MoonW · 07/11/2020 08:18

I am so so sorry for your loss OP Flowers

unicornparty · 07/11/2020 08:21

So sorry op. Just so so sorry.

Theorangeorange · 07/11/2020 08:22

I'm so so sorry. She looks like the most beautiful little girl - I can't imagine what you're going through xxx

EdwardCullensBiteOnTheSide · 07/11/2020 08:28

Heartbreaking, she was so beautiful, she really looks like she was full of fun!

NinaNannoo · 07/11/2020 08:40

So very very sorry for your loss Thanks

Marylou62 · 07/11/2020 08:42

Nothing to say except I am so so sorry for the loss of your little girl..My heart is breaking for you all. xx