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My baby girl died aged 19 hours

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itmsylifeitsnowornever · 08/02/2020 18:46

My beautiful baby girl was born at 35 weeks. She died aged 19 hours. I don't know how we get through this.

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tribpot · 08/02/2020 18:47

I'm so incredibly sorry, itsmylife. Do you have someone looking after you?

TreesSandSea · 08/02/2020 18:47

I am so so sorry to hear that. Flowers Do you want to talk about her?

AMANursery · 08/02/2020 18:48

I am so sorry. Tell us about her. Was she beautiful? Xx

SemperIdem · 08/02/2020 18:48

I’m so very sorry for your loss. Flowers

OhNoMyCheds · 08/02/2020 18:49

Christ, I am so sorry for your loss, I cannot imagine what you are going through. Sending you so much love and strength xxx Flowers xxx

Ninkanink · 08/02/2020 18:49

Oh no Sad

I’m so sorry to hear this. I’m sure she was every bit as beautiful as her perfect name. Flowers

MrsWickens · 08/02/2020 18:49

I'm so sorry Flowers

redcarbluecar · 08/02/2020 18:50

What a very sad thing to read. My thoughts are with you x

Bogoffrain · 08/02/2020 18:50

I’m so sorry xxx

Lollypop701 · 08/02/2020 18:50

My heart aches for you. If you can, tell me about her, what’s her name?

Gobbolinothewitchscat · 08/02/2020 18:50

Oh God - I am so sorry to see this. I know there is nothing I can say tgst will make this better but sending you strength and courage and hope. Please tell us about your little one if you feel you would want to - she was here and is remembered and loved

Flacker · 08/02/2020 18:50

I'm so sorry, that is just horrific. There's nothing anyone can do or say to ease your pain or bring her back but we're here if you need someone to talk to Flowers

Whynosnowyet · 08/02/2020 18:51

So sorry op. Hope you have support irl.
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Allnightlong2016 · 08/02/2020 18:51

I’m so sorry. Sending you strength to get through the days to come. 💐

regularbutpanickingabit · 08/02/2020 18:52

I am so so sorry. Please tell us about her if you can. Sending love.

Cosmos45 · 08/02/2020 18:52

I am so sorry for your loss... truly heartbreaking.

hardyboys · 08/02/2020 18:53

I'm so, so sorry. It is so utterly, heartbreaking and unfair What was her name? Xxx

june2007 · 08/02/2020 18:53

Very sory to here this. I hope you find a support group with other parents who know how it feals. I know there are some but unfortunately can't think of the names.

autumnboys · 08/02/2020 18:53

I’m so very sorry. Sending you love and light. Flowers

NothingWrong · 08/02/2020 18:54

I am so sorry to hear of such an unbearable loss for you. I wish you strength to carry on.

flossletsfloss · 08/02/2020 18:55

I'm so so sorry for your huge loss. You, your family and your baby will be in my prayers tonight. Thanks

firstimemamma · 08/02/2020 18:55

Truly sorry for your loss op Thanks

Bluewavescrashing · 08/02/2020 18:56

I'm so sorry xx

BayWindow · 08/02/2020 18:57

I'm so sorry for your loss lovely, I hope you have someone looking after you Thanks

itmsylifeitsnowornever · 08/02/2020 18:57

Her name is Eleanor. Her birth was quite traumatic ending in c-section. She was fine. Needed no special care. Then she went floppy, unresponsive, stopped breathing and they couldn't resusciate her. No known reason yet.

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