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My baby girl died aged 19 hours

284 replies

itmsylifeitsnowornever · 08/02/2020 18:46

My beautiful baby girl was born at 35 weeks. She died aged 19 hours. I don't know how we get through this.

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radioband · 08/02/2020 18:58

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YoureAllABunchOfBastards · 08/02/2020 18:58

I'm so sorry. Eleanor is a beautiful name xxx

GoulashSoup · 08/02/2020 18:58

I am so sorry x

NeverGuessWho · 08/02/2020 18:59

What a beautiful name.

How utterly heartbreaking.

I am so sorry that you lost your beautiful baby girl.

Mum4MrA · 08/02/2020 18:59

So sorry to hear your heartbreaking news. Hope you have good support IRL. 💐💐

Binterested · 08/02/2020 19:01

Unspeakable. I’m so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful girl.

Shahlalala · 08/02/2020 19:01

I am so sorry, I cannot begin to imagine the pain you are feeling.
Do you have people with you?

ParsleyPot · 08/02/2020 19:02

Beautiful name. I'm so sorry for your loss. Thanks

PeakingDuck · 08/02/2020 19:02

Eleanor is an absolutely beautiful name.

I’m so sorry for your loss Flowers

WingingIt101 · 08/02/2020 19:03

Sending you love. So sorry for your loss. Eleanor is a beautiful name xx

Sear86 · 08/02/2020 19:04

I'm so sorry, I can't imagine what you're going through, I hope you have some support. Sending you hugs & strength

5BlueHydrangea · 08/02/2020 19:05

So sorry to hear this, you must be in shock. Eleanor is a lovely name.

The charity SANDS (Stillbirth and Neonatal Death charity) are really good in this situation. www.sands.org.uk/support-you

A friend of mine had a stillbirth and found the charity very supportive.

misskick · 08/02/2020 19:06

What a beautiful name, so sorry to hear of your loss its heart breaking xx

MotherofPearl · 08/02/2020 19:06

This is an unfathomable loss OP; my heart goes out to you.

Janaih · 08/02/2020 19:07

That's so sad, I'm really sorry for the loss of your dear daughter Eleanor Flowers x

Soontobe60 · 08/02/2020 19:09

Eleanor, beautiful name. I hope you're able to get some answers. 🌺🌺

justforthisnow · 08/02/2020 19:09

That is a terrible loss and I am so sorry. Is it possible to keep some keepsakes from the birth?

SidneyP · 08/02/2020 19:10

I'm so sorry. Sending you love & hugs ❤️

gavisconismyfriend · 08/02/2020 19:10

I’m so so sorry for your loss. Eleanor is a beautiful name xxxxxx

Catnuzzle · 08/02/2020 19:10

Eleanor is a beautiful name. So very very sorry you are going through this Flowers

Motacilla · 08/02/2020 19:10

I am so sorry for your loss, Eleanor is a beautiful name, she will always be your 'bright, shining one'.

NoProblem123 · 08/02/2020 19:12

Are you with someone OP ?
Have they any idea what could have caused this ?
I’m so sorry you’re going through such a heartbreaking loss 💐💐💐

CaptainJamesTKirk · 08/02/2020 19:12

I am so sorry. I have no words that can comfort you right now, I can’t imagine anyone has. I hope you’re not alone, and that you have support of your loved ones. Eleanor is a beautiful name.

CaptainJamesTKirk · 08/02/2020 19:14

It’s very raw and I’m not suggesting for a second that reading a book willl help you right now, but keep this in mind for later.

www.amazon.co.uk/Ask-Me-His-Name-Learning/dp/1788701798?tag=mumsnetforu03-21

twins2019 · 08/02/2020 19:17

Oh mama - I'm so very very sorry that this has happened to you and that your beautiful daughter has been taken far too soon.

You need to take it minute by minute. Ask to stay with her for as long as you need - take pictures and hold her for as long as you are comfortable with. You will want these memories in the years ahead.

Sending love and prayers.