CAN I TAKE A MOMENT TO REMEMBER MY BABIES.....

[lissie]

i had an ectopic pregnancy in february before that i'd had 3 mcs in the space of 18m and since ive had another 2. i just want to say: i miss you all very much, i love you and wish that we could have met x

bit maudlin and self-obsessed, but i just wanted to get it out. thought it might be "nice" to have a rememberance thread for our lost beans

Oh Lissie - love to you and all close to you who have been affected
You have every right to feel maudlin.
I wish you peace and calm for tonight
xx

It's a good and natural thing to remember them

So much promise, dashed too soon.

Thinking of you.

So sorry

God love you, lissie.

lissie and lots beans
thinking of you and anyone else who needs a hug

lissie

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not at all maudlin or self obsessed sweetheart.

a yellow ribbon in memory of our unborn children

i too lost a baby in mar94, i know the baby was a girl and would be 13 this year. i still think about her and intend on telling dd about her when she is older.

i found out a couple of years after my mc that my mom had a mc before i was due, and i have always felt that i had an older brother (this was before i found out).

i believe that we will meet our other children some day

kerry - xxxx so sorry

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km thank you all for replying. im just v disillusioned with ttc right now and my edd is hurtling toward me (1st oct) and im struggling a bit tbh

Hug fransmom - xx

Lizzie, KerryMumbledore and Fransmom.

Of course you should remember them - to do so is only natural and is good

I don't do hugs, but this the one time that I am really tempted...

aw Lissie- sending you virtual big {{{{{hugs}}}}}

and to all others that are mourning their babies

also agree with Fransmum, that mums and babies will meet again someday

oh kerry,

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thanks nsf

aww lissie am thinking of you it's hard enough losing one so early on

There is a theory that we have a number of souls that are to be our babies and when we conceive one of these souls comes into being but sometimes the little body isn't ready for the soul so the soul leaves it until a body is ready and that the little souls never leave us, there is a thread that explains it better than I can I do honestly believe the little souls stay close to us always.

tbh, one of the things i find so difficult is the fact that i find out i am pg v early and tend to mc at around the 6w mark. i had a scan at 5w with ds (due to a big bleed) and saw the sac that became my little boy. i find it very hard to seperate that event and that little sac from everything that has happened since.

am i making sense?

not maudlin and self obsessed, i think it is positive to remember. love and hugs to u and all others who have lost.
I would like to remember baby jesse who would now be 8 and my two other babies who I couldnt name coz it was to painful

kind of lissie. i think i must be getting tired now. how long ago did you mc sweetheart?

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my last one was in june