My baby has died

[Mummyof6tiredmuch]

My beautiful baby died this morning , I don't want to live , I just need my baby back

I am in tears for you, so sorry for you loss. Sending you love and strength x

Oh my dear I'm so so sorry for your loss. May your beautiful little boy rest peacefully. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Love and light to you all,

I'm so sorry

Do try and get some sleep though. You must need it.

So very sorry for your loss

So sorry for you and all the family. RIP Oakley.

I'm so very sorry for your loss. And to everyone else who has lost a child x

I'm so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby boy. Life can be so cruel

I am so sorry for your loss mummyof6. There are things you could do to help ease the pain of this time and give yourself meaningful mementoes. When my first child was born we were told she would not live past birth so my sister found a foot and hand casting set. She also gave us a "heart in their hand". This is a necklace where you push out a silver heart to place in your baby's hand while you keep the remaining necklace or keyring. Other parents I have spoken to have taken comfort from placing recently worn clothes in an airtight bag to keep your baby's smell. Also many hospitals will enable you to have time to give Oakley a farewell bath and to dress him. Take photos too if you can bear to. Although you may not want them now. they might be something you come to treasure in the future.

You are still a mummy of 6, he is still your and your dh's little boy and your children's baby brother.

I'm deeply sad to hear about your baby boy. You are in our thought.

Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

I am so so sorry. We are all here. You will make it through tonight. Bit by bit, minute by minute. Don't think too far ahead. Stay here with us and remember him if it helps. Xxx

I'm so sorry. Sending you a handhold and so much love.

Mummy I'm so sorry

There is no pain like it.

https://www.uk-sands.org/support/how-we-offer-support/online-forum

This helped me.

Again I'm so sorry

So so sorry for you, I've been there too. 34 years ago my 2 day old beautiful daughter who'd spent her short life on a respirator was passed to my DH and I and we held her until she died in our arms. XXX

I am so sorry. for your little .
I love the name Oakley.
There are no words. :(

Thank you for everyone posting and with suggestions they are all wonderful . The hospital did he's footprints for me and I have kept my pyjama top I had on for he's smell . I never thought this would happen to us and our happy life has been shattered forever . Bad stuff happens to good people why ??? Oakley is adored by us and so prescious and he's gone . I don't understand it

Thinking of you and your beautiful Oakley. So so sorry.

Keep up the hot sweet tea, maybe try to eat something?
Could someone take Oakley's finger/hand/footprints for you?
Sending you strength xxxx

Sorry to hear this

Your right Mummy it isn't fair. We had a poem at my sons funeral.

An angel in the book of life wrote down my babies birth, then whispered as she shut the book too beautiful for earth.

That brought me a small bit of comfort I hope it does you, Jack died nearly two years ago. I still can't type or hear that poem without crying.

So so sorry for your loss, i don't have any words to comfort, you're in massive shock, so sorry

Oh Mummyof6 I'm so sorry about your darling Oakley. I wish there was something to say or do to make this better. Huge hug and hand hold here and sending you love and strength. xx

I can't imagine your pain, I am so so sorry.

But remember, babies know that they are loved. We think that because they are so little that they dont understand, but they do. They feel happy and safe when they are held and touched and stroked. Oakley knew you loved him, your love will always be with him, and his love with you xxx

I can't eat the thought makes me gag . We ran out of milk an hour ago and there is no shops open now where we live so can't have a cuppa . Thank you for sharing that poem and I will be having a read and I'm so sorry for u .
If I didn't have my other babies I wouldn't want to live but I have to for them . I just want to be put out of my misery . My poor poor beautiful baby