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My baby has died

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Mummyof6tiredmuch · 23/01/2017 22:20

My beautiful baby died this morning , I don't want to live , I just need my baby back

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Mummyof6tiredmuch · 23/01/2017 23:04

I don't want to be in this house where my baby died and dh is in our room with ds3 and I'm laying here to support him but it's to raw to be in here . My grown up nephews have been making me tea bless them . My arms and legs are shaking and I don't want to sit or lay down .

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MichelleFowler · 23/01/2017 23:04

I'm so sorry Flowers

Sugarpiehoneyeye · 23/01/2017 23:04

I'm so sorry you have lost your darling Son, absolutely heartbreaking. Sending love and strength to you and your family, words fail me ....
Sleep tight sweet little baby Oakley. 😢🌹

MummyToThree479 · 23/01/2017 23:04

Oh lovely I am so sorry nobody should have to experience losing a child.

I lost my Joshua at 29 weeks 10 years ago, he has never been forgotten and I think of him often I wonder what he would be like now.

Right now nothing anyone says will make you feel better or take the utter heart break away, and that feeling of not wanting to live without baby is normal and it's a felling I remember well.

If you ever want too SANDS are very good, I still attend a Christmas service each year with them in memeory of my ds.

Look after yourself 💐

GlitteryFluff · 23/01/2017 23:05

I'm so sorry xx

MarshaBrady · 23/01/2017 23:05

I'm so sorry, sending love Thanks

Pavlova31 · 23/01/2017 23:06

I'm so sorry Flowers

SparkleShinyGlitter · 23/01/2017 23:06

I'm very sorry about your baby Flowers I can't even imagine the pain you must be in right now

3littlebadgers · 23/01/2017 23:06

We made a bear for the children. One of the build a bear types. They filled it with their memories of dd2, then we stuffed it to the same weight she was when she was born. Her bear sits on the sofa ready for a cuddle when one of us needs it. It helped the children open up and gave them a focus for their grief. It wS also lovely to feel her weight in my arms again. The empty arms can be hard. Now the bear symbolises her at special times, we couldn't keep her close, but we can hold her memory close.

lifetothefull · 23/01/2017 23:06

I don't have anything to add, but i too am with you along with other MNers. I am praying for you now. God knows.
xx

lasttraintotranscentral · 23/01/2017 23:08

So sorry for your loss. Please keep posting on here or call Samaritans as others have advised

dollydaydream114 · 23/01/2017 23:08

I'm so, so sorry. Nothing I can say seems even remotely adequate, but you and your family have my deepest and heartfelt sympathies. Nobody should ever have to go through that experience.

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SockQueen · 23/01/2017 23:09

I'm so, so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you must be going through. I will be thinking of you all tonight Flowers

TheDevilMadeMeDoIt · 23/01/2017 23:09

I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you and all your family.

All you can do for now is somehow get through one minute at a time. Do whatever you need to do, whenever and in whatever way you need to.

Flowers
Cheeseandwineisprettyfine · 23/01/2017 23:09

Lots of love to you. keep talking. X

needsahalo · 23/01/2017 23:10

So sorry. Thinking of you and your family xxx

caringcarer · 23/01/2017 23:10

So sorry for your loss and pain. Try in your head to go over and over the good memories you have with your baby so you can commit them to memory. I do hope you have some help with your other children. Hugs.

Avengerhart85 · 23/01/2017 23:10

I am so so sorry Flowers
Fly high Oakley x

Mummyof6tiredmuch · 23/01/2017 23:11

I feel so numb and empty , I'm so exhausted but I'm frightened of falling asleep because when I wake up for that split second I will think that Oakley is still with us .

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Orlandointhewilderness · 23/01/2017 23:11

So very very sorry to read this. I will be thinking or you and your family and your boy Oakley. Xxxxxx

Ollycat · 23/01/2017 23:12

I'm so sorry Flowers

MadisonAvenue · 23/01/2017 23:13

I'm so sorry, you're all in my thoughts Flowers

mrsknackered · 23/01/2017 23:14

I have no words. Sending all my love, thoughts and prayers with you at this awful time.
Rest in perfect peace beautiful boy.

PopGoesTheFuckingWeasel · 23/01/2017 23:16

No words OP. From one angel-mommy ro another Flowers

Mummyamy123 · 23/01/2017 23:16

All these people out here are thinking of and praying for your beautiful Oakley tonight! And all of your family.
Just get through one minute at a time xx

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