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My baby has died

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Mummyof6tiredmuch · 23/01/2017 22:20

My beautiful baby died this morning , I don't want to live , I just need my baby back

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LemonJelly1980 · 23/01/2017 23:47

I am so very sorry to read this terrible news. I can't begin to imagine how you must be feeling after the loss of your beautiful baby.

My thoughts are with you and your family. I hope you can take some comfort from your loved ones and the kind words from so many strangers tonight.
Take care. x Flowers

Brieandgrapes · 23/01/2017 23:47

Oh Mummy I am so sorry about your precious Oakley. I wish I had words to help but cannot even imagine how you feel. Please know I am sending you love and you are in my thoughts xx

StrangeLookingParasite · 23/01/2017 23:48

Oh no, oh no, I'm so sorry. Flowers

flibflob · 23/01/2017 23:49

I'm so sorry for you and your family, in tears. Sending you love and strength Flowers

Littlelostdinosaur · 23/01/2017 23:51

There are no words, it is the worst possible thing. I'm so sorry for you and your family. Hold each other and cry. Do what ever you need to get through the minutes.
I'm thinking of you. X

heythereconniver · 23/01/2017 23:54

I'm in tears for you mummyof6. I'm so sorry. Why did this have to happen. No answers. I'm so sorry. You will be in my heart and my prayers. One day you will be able to think of Oakley and just delight in him again. But now it hurts like hell. I'm so sorry.xxxxxxxx

UnbornMortificado · 23/01/2017 23:57

Mummy one day the pain will get easier. You won't believe me but I promise you it's true.

Thinking of you and your family and of course Oakley, he will always be your son and you still are a mother of 6.

I wish I had the words to make it better for you but I don't Flowers

JanisNedob · 23/01/2017 23:57

I'm so sorry. I know some of what you are going through.

This thread might help you in these horrific early days, or at the very least provide a distraction

www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/12/19/help-us

SpecialFlowSnake · 23/01/2017 23:58

So so sorry to read about your precious son Oakley. I wish you strength and peace.
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TinySalmon · 24/01/2017 00:01

I am so sorry for your loss Flowers

I lost my son last August. His heart beat for 3 minutes before his lungs gave out. He was my first baby and it was after years of infertility and IVF. The pain of this loss is beyond words.

Coming home from the hospital to an empty house was so hard and I know the pain of burying a child. Just typing it now makes me well up with tears.

Hug your other DC tight over the coming days. Live through the love they give you and take strength from them.

Like PPs have said, I found the SANDS charity to be very helpful.

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ChishandFips33 · 24/01/2017 00:02

I too am sorry for the loss and pain you are suffering Flowers

Bellaposy · 24/01/2017 00:04

I'm so, so sorry OP. I know there really are no words but just know you are in the thoughts of so many people tonight x Flowers

RubbishMantra · 24/01/2017 00:08

You poor love. I know that feeling of not wanting to fall asleep, fearing that moment of wakening; that tiny moment of forgetfulness (a split second) then the remembering of your deep, gut wrenching loss.

It will get better. Really it will. In time.

KoalaDownUnder · 24/01/2017 00:14

I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy. Rest in peace, darling Oakley.

I can't imagine your pain. Flowers

ExtraPineappleExtraHam · 24/01/2017 00:23

I am so very very sorry for your loss, Oakley was a very lucky boy to know a love like yours and he will always be up there, looking down. I don't have words to make it better but please know that you're in my thoughts. Have faith, and if you need someone then we're all here xx

Willow2016 · 24/01/2017 00:25

I am so sorry, I cannot begin to imagin your pain and loss.
There are no words adequate enough to comfort you at this time.
Thinking of you and your family.
R.I.P. little Oakley
Flowers

SecretWitch · 24/01/2017 00:36

i have no words to ease your enormous loss. Please know that I am thinking about you and praying for you. ((Hugs))

sandgrown · 24/01/2017 00:39

My thoughts and prayers for you and your family Flowers

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fanniboz · 24/01/2017 00:53

So, so sorry for your loss. Thinking of Oakley and your family Flowers

EstelleRoberts · 24/01/2017 00:56

So very sorry for your terrible, cruel loss Flowers

ellenjames · 24/01/2017 00:57

My heart goes out to you and your family. Flowers

PleaseNotTrump · 24/01/2017 00:59

I'm so desperately sorry to read this, OP Flowers

CrispPacket · 24/01/2017 01:06

Oh mummyof6 my heart aches for you. I want to say I'm so sorry but they're such flimsy words right now. Sending you and your family massive hugs. Please look after yourself. You're right, you will always be missing that part of your world but that's because you wont be forgetting him, one day you will smile at the memory of his face and cry too but it WILL get easier so please dont give up. Hold your OH and cry the ocean out together. Sending all the love I have. Xxxxxxxx

bummymummy77 · 24/01/2017 01:23

I'm so sorry. I wish there was something that could ease your pain. You poor love. My heart is breaking for you. Xx

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