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My baby has died

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Mummyof6tiredmuch · 23/01/2017 22:20

My beautiful baby died this morning , I don't want to live , I just need my baby back

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MrsMozart · 23/01/2017 22:42

Oh darling. I am so very sorry. Rest in peace sweet Oakley xxx

inmyshoos · 23/01/2017 22:43

You can have your baby home with you until the funeral. My friends little daughter was pre term and died after a difficult birth. She really treasured the days she had her home before the funeral.

rumblingDMexploitingbstds · 23/01/2017 22:43

I'm so sorry about your gorgeous boy Thanks

littleoysterslittleoysters · 23/01/2017 22:44

I'm so so sorry, Oakley is such a beautiful name. You sound like an amazing Mummy.

cakedup · 23/01/2017 22:44

I'm so sorry and so terribly upset to hear about your loss. Oakley had four very special weeks of cuddles with you, he knew nothing but love. I know you'll miss him so much...I'm so so sorry Flowers Sad

3littlebadgers · 23/01/2017 22:45

Child bereavement UK are fabulous. They will help the children too.

Twozealotmorethan1 · 23/01/2017 22:45

I am so sorry.... I have no words.
My heart goes out to you. Xxx

Knittedfrog · 23/01/2017 22:45

I am so sorry. I'm rubbish with words but wanted you to know I'm sending love and thoughts to you and your family.

wobblywonderwoman · 23/01/2017 22:45

So sorry for your loss Flowers
My heart go out to you :(

NewtScamandersNaughtyNiffler · 23/01/2017 22:46

Flowers for you and your gorgeous boy.

Lifeisshort123 · 23/01/2017 22:46

I'm so sorry for you loss of such a beautiful baby, gone too soon. Music may help ease the horrific pain your going through. Sending hugs and chocolates.💕

StarryIllusion · 23/01/2017 22:47

I'm so sorry for your loss. Rest in peace, Oakley. You were too good for this world.

OP there will be people here all night, we will stay with you as long as you need.

Are your other children holding up okay?

Mummyof6tiredmuch · 23/01/2017 22:47

Thank you all so much and I'm sorry for everyone who has experienced this , I don't know what to do

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welshgirlwannabe · 23/01/2017 22:47

I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby Oakley Flowers

DailyFaily · 23/01/2017 22:48

I'm so sorry, I have no idea what to say, I can't imagine, my thoughts are with you and your family xx

slithytove · 23/01/2017 22:49

Just talk to us, we will hold your hand. Sands are good too.

I'm so sorry your baby has died. Life isn't fair. Oakley sounds like a very precious little boy.

FrancisCrawford · 23/01/2017 22:49

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Mummyof6tiredmuch · 23/01/2017 22:50

They are all sleeping now but I'm scared to leave them . They are having waves of emotion when awake , I can't handle it let alone my poor babies . My youngest daughter helped me make up he's bed tonight and we put he's teddies in . I've said we can make cards and crochet a few bits to be with him . A part of me is missing and it will never be the same

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Dutchoma · 23/01/2017 22:52

There is nothing you can do apart from sit quietly. Have a glass of water by you, so you don't get de-hydrated. If you can, have a cup of tea and a biscuit, but if you can't just sit quietly somewhere calm and rest.

HarryPottersMagicWand · 23/01/2017 22:52

So very sorry to hear about the loss of your beautiful baby boy. Flowers Sad

idontwannaknow · 23/01/2017 22:52

Absolutely devastating. I'm so sorry of the loss of beautiful baby Oakley.** xx

Purrrcat · 23/01/2017 22:52

I am so very very sorry to hear this.

I have been where you are so if you want to talk please pm me.

Thinking of you all tonight.

Xxx

fozzzie · 23/01/2017 22:52

I'm so sorry

I had amazing support from Saying Goodbye. www.sayinggoodbye.org/

They can support you and your family.

Thinking of you

Glamorousglitter · 23/01/2017 22:53

I am so sorry to hear your beautiful boy has passed away, that is cruel and harsh and unbelievable, I hope you can get through the next days and weeks, I don't know what to say but wanted to let you know I saw your post and wanted to send you some comfort.

Amandahugandkisses · 23/01/2017 22:53

Life is so cruel sometimes. My thoughts and prayers are with you OP Flowers

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