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In memory of our lovely Aillidh

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expatinscotland · 08/07/2012 11:56

At 11.25 last night, our beautiful, 9-year-old daughter died of complications from treatment for acute myeloid leukaemia, she went into respiratory failure after contracting human metapneumo virus following conditioning chemotherapy for stem cell transplant.

For many days, she lingered on a ventilator. But last night, she developed a pneumothorax and rapidly deteriorated.

She died within seconds of the ventilator being taken off.

I can't believe she's gone, or how broken her long body looked.

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Bucharest · 20/07/2012 11:07

I've been awol for a while, a real life friend (and Mner) told me.

Sending much love and strength to Expat and family. xx

Badvoc · 20/07/2012 11:10

I have been on holiday expat and so not on MN but you and A have been in my thoughts everyday.
X

Elephantscantdothemoonwalk · 20/07/2012 15:09

Still thinking of you expat.

lumpybumpylooloo · 20/07/2012 15:38

I am so very sorry to read this tragic thread. It sounds like you were blessed with a very brave and beautiful daughter, both on the inside and out. Thinking of you. Xxx

TanteRose · 20/07/2012 15:48

Still thinking of you, expat, and giraffes & weegiemum

Much love xx

sassytheFIRST · 20/07/2012 20:52

X x x

JustFabulous · 20/07/2012 21:00

I am thinking of you all, those who have lost, those who are supporting.

WandaDoff · 21/07/2012 05:32

I'm thinking of you & family very much today.

We buried SIL this morning (20th July) she died very unexpectedly last week.
Today (21st) is the 15th anniversary of DSS1 passing away at 14, & tomorrow (22nd) will be DS1 15th birthday.

Not a good week.

I'm in Glasgow, but I'm sorry that I couldn't make it to Aillidh's funeral.

I was at Lambhill for SIL today & A was very much in my thoughts, tomorrow I will be there again & she will be very much in my thoughts too.

I'm so very sorry for your loss Expat. x Much love xx

StealthPolarBear · 21/07/2012 07:08

Still thinking about you x

Gauchita · 21/07/2012 07:20

A and your whole family are still in our thoughts, Expat. X

Elephantscantdothemoonwalk · 21/07/2012 07:39

Still thinking of you and sending love.

Elephantscantdothemoonwalk · 21/07/2012 19:29

I lit a candle today foe you exoat, a glimmer of lightto help you through these eaelydays.

Lougle · 22/07/2012 18:35

Still in our thoughts

tanmu82 · 23/07/2012 02:29

so, so sorry :(

berri · 23/07/2012 03:50

I'm so very very sorry, sending you strength and love.

StealthPolarBear · 23/07/2012 08:39

x

sassytheFIRST · 23/07/2012 09:56

Sending love x

usualsuspect · 23/07/2012 10:01

much love xx

ThisWeekonFancyPuffin · 23/07/2012 12:02

Just wanted to say I still think of Aillidh and her battle, and you Expat, and your family.

Much love xx

Northernlurker · 23/07/2012 13:01

Thinking of you all

Badvoc · 23/07/2012 13:06

You are all in my thoughts z

Francagoestohollywood · 23/07/2012 13:12

So many beautiful messages on here. Thinking of you Expat.

mumat39 · 23/07/2012 22:03

Expat, I just saw your latest update on Facebook. It is heartbreaking. I think about you all and little Aillidh everyday. I wish there was something I could say that would help ease your pain. Sending you all lots of love and hugs and my very best wishes to you and your family and friends. xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Elephantscantdothetriathlon · 23/07/2012 22:11

Your updates on fb have always been upsetting but now, they just brek ky heart to read. Thinking of you x

bobkate · 24/07/2012 00:03

I'm currently knitting and thinking of you and your family Expat...and I think of brave Aillidh when I open my purse and see the Anthony Nolan card there xx I keep writing, deleting and rewriting as I can find no words that sound 'right' ...my thoughts are with you x

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