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In memory of our lovely Aillidh

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expatinscotland · 08/07/2012 11:56

At 11.25 last night, our beautiful, 9-year-old daughter died of complications from treatment for acute myeloid leukaemia, she went into respiratory failure after contracting human metapneumo virus following conditioning chemotherapy for stem cell transplant.

For many days, she lingered on a ventilator. But last night, she developed a pneumothorax and rapidly deteriorated.

She died within seconds of the ventilator being taken off.

I can't believe she's gone, or how broken her long body looked.

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SwedishEdith · 08/07/2012 16:42

I am so, so sorry to hear this. Heartbreaking. Thinking of you all.

maddiemostmerry · 08/07/2012 16:43

I am so sorry to see this news.

Thinking of you.

maybeyoushoulddrive · 08/07/2012 16:43

I am so so sorrySad

Aillidh touched the hearts of many, not only on MN and Facebook but around the world. You and your family have humbled us with your brave fight for your beautiful daughter. You must all be exhausted and numb just now - take good care of yourselves and each other.

With much love and special prayers xxx

chosenone · 08/07/2012 16:46

So so sorry for your loss, love, prayers and strength for you and your family and hope your amazing daughter is now at peace. God Bless you all x x

rachelfruitloop · 08/07/2012 16:50

Expat, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I can't express as eloquently as many others have here before me, just how touched so many of us have been by Aillidh and your strength and spirit. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for your family.

IMeMine · 08/07/2012 16:53

I am so, so sorry for your loss.

Rest in peace now beautiful Aillidh.

Love and prayers xxx

RVPisnomore · 08/07/2012 17:02

So very sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter, although she has gone she won't be forgotten.

oldqueenie · 08/07/2012 17:07

expat, there are no words that can help, but I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Rest in peace little girl.

bradbourne · 08/07/2012 17:11

Just wanted to add my sincerest condolences to you, your family and everyone else who knew and loved Aillidh. So sorry to hear this news.

expatinscotland · 08/07/2012 17:12

I can't believe she is gone.

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cupofteaplease · 08/07/2012 17:14

I don't have adequate words to comfort you, so I'll just say how very sorry I am. Thank you for sharing Aillidh with us, it was a privilege to have 'known' her. God bless x

blueberryboybait · 08/07/2012 17:16

Expat and family our love and sympathy to you all. Your brave girl was loved the world over, may she rest in everlasting peace.

Daddy, please don't look so sad, Mama, please don't cry-
cause I am in the arms of Jesus and He sings me lullabies.
Please, try not to question God, don't think he is unkind.
Don't think he sent me to you, and then He changed his mind.
You see, I am a special child and I am needed up above.
I'm the special gift you gave Him, the product of your love.
I'll always be there with you. Watch the sky at night...
find the brightest star that is gleaming, that is my halo's brillant light.
You'll see me in the morning frost that mists your window pane.
That's me in the summer showers. I'll be dancing in the rain.
When you feel a little breeze, from the gentle wind that blows, that's me
planting a kiss on your nose.
When you see a child playing and your heart feels a little tug, that's me,
I'll be there, giving your heart a hug.
So Daddy, please don't look so sad, Mama don't you cry.
I am in the arms of Jesus and He sings me lullabies.

mrssmooth · 08/07/2012 17:17

Sad oh Expat. This i so unfair. I am sure Aillidh will do all she can to let you know she is fine. She will always be with you - but that doesn't help when you just want to gather her in your arms. Take care of yourself my lovely x

BigBoobiedBertha · 08/07/2012 17:18

So sorry expat. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers and I wish you all the strength you need for the coming weeks and months.

Rest in peace Aillidh. xx

NunTheWiser · 08/07/2012 17:22

Expat, I'm so sorry.

Dahlen · 08/07/2012 17:23

Nothing compares to the loss of a child. I am so, so sorry. Sad My thoughts are with you. x

Madsometimes · 08/07/2012 17:30

So sorry that your beautiful daughter was taken from you so soon. I cannot imagine your hurting. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

RachelHRD · 08/07/2012 17:40

Have been thinking of you all day, there are no words. You must be the proudest Mum in the world - she was so brave and strong, rest in peace sweet Aillidh.

Wishing you much strength and sending much love xxxx

lemonpuff · 08/07/2012 17:40

Gone too soon. Rest now, little one. So sorry expat, for you and your family. God Bless.

kohl · 08/07/2012 17:41

Oh Expat, you and Aillidh have been unfailingly in my thoughts and prayers for the last few weeks, and will continue to be. I can't imagine how you are feeling, and I don't imagine it will help at all now, but maybe later to know that you were not and are not alone, and your little girl was so brave, she inspired me and so so many on here and beyond. All the love to you.

crazynanna · 08/07/2012 17:43

I cannot imagine what you are going through expat....I am sending you love and strength my love xxxx

foofooyeah · 08/07/2012 17:46

I am just so sorry, what an amazing girl she was to have touched so many people.

So heartwrenchingly and devastatingly sad.

Take care of yourself expat. Thoughts are with you and your family and friends.

belgo · 08/07/2012 17:46

So sorry and sad expat for you and your family. Hold you dd2 and ds tight Sad

festiemum · 08/07/2012 17:47

You have been in my thoughts recently. So sorry to hear she has gone. Much love to you and your family. xxx

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