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Flying high enjoying their wings, Remembering our precious much loved children...

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CazandBelle · 21/11/2010 20:35

For my beautiful Anabelle Violet. Born an angel.

Mummy and Daddy miss and love you so much. Always. xxx

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travellingwilbury · 21/01/2011 09:14

I think it would take a braver man than him tbh .

It would be nice for once for someone to just be honest and admit they made a fuck up .

Never going to happen but I can dream Grin

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CazandBelle · 21/01/2011 09:58

dee going off guesswork cuz my cycles are still all over the place. but I ov on day 23/24 so I guessing a 37 day cycle this time which takes me to about tues/wed. Don't feel pregnant at all though tbh. although can't remember if I did before I tested with Belle either! ah we'll see. prob test Tuesday morning.

Dr didn't give another course of antibiotics because she thought anymore and I would prob start being sick and feeling worse again, so I'm to persevere until Monday and go back again if I'm feeling no better. I hope I am!

Another sofa day for me I think, laptop, BBC man, a bit of trashy TV.

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deemented · 21/01/2011 12:33

Head. Meet. Wall.

shabbapinkfrog · 21/01/2011 12:49

Just picked up Lew and been discussed by a possy of owd biddies at the back of the bus. Mattys primary school teacher got on the bus and said hello then went to sit with them. The owd bids commented to the teacher and asked who I was. When she explained they all started discussing EE and saying how they wondered if I felt like snatching someone elses baby WTF???? Dont you just love how many Senior Citizens feel they can say whatever the hell they like, as loud as they like - even if you are sat a few feet away from them - dont know if I am Sad of Angry

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CazandBelle · 21/01/2011 12:51

shab hugs for you. It just goes to show how much of an influence EE does and has had.

and dee yes, what a waste of time. back to that head banging stuff.

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travellingwilbury · 21/01/2011 13:21

What a crock !

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CazandBelle · 21/01/2011 13:54

totally tw

Well I've just got off the phone to my bank after my card being declined in Asda last night, and then me noticing to dodgy transactions on my online banking today from yesterday! Turns out my bank had banned my card last night after noticing these dodgy transactions which is why it got declined. I'm so pleased they acted to swiftly, they were really helpful on phone and are going to refund the money thats been stolen by end of today and send out new cards. I'm feeling a little bit shocked tbh.

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shabbapinkfrog · 21/01/2011 15:15

Freaky Caz - sounds like your Bank did a good job...if that was mine I think it might be a whole different story Hmm

ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 21/01/2011 16:19

What a pointless bit of PR that webchat was, and what a waste of time.

I've had that Caz, someone or other fishing (sp?) my bank account for a couple of £1 transactions and the bank called me and alerted me straight away. Which then made me think that it could be some con artist thing on the phone as well. Luckily it wasn't and it was all sorted out without me having to do anything.

I've been sorting out newborn clothes today. It's lovely having all of the memories attached to them and they're so small and gorgeous ................... but I didn't expect to be using them 3 times. It's very bittersweet.

shabbapinkfrog · 22/01/2011 08:38

Morning girls xx

hazygirl · 22/01/2011 16:40

afternoon girlsxx

shabbapinkfrog · 22/01/2011 16:50

Hiya Hazy - how are you doing love? xxx

travellingwilbury · 22/01/2011 17:35

Hello all xx

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CazandBelle · 22/01/2011 18:37

hey everyone.

We ordered Belle's headstone today. Such a massive step. I hope we've got it right for her. We're pleased with what we've chosen but until you see it made I guess you never really know.

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spilttheteaagain · 22/01/2011 20:46

Well done Caz, that must have been really tough. We'll have to think about Bobbie's soon. It seems so horribly final.

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lavandes · 23/01/2011 01:15

lf hi ignore all negative people you are doing great. Don't waste your energy. All will be well, you have made the right decision to stay in hospital. I think you are so brave and I await news of a beautiful, healthy baby xxx

shabbapinkfrog · 23/01/2011 08:22

Morning girls xx

spilttheteaagain · 23/01/2011 14:59

So glad you are still both ok Lunatic. How long now until your section (35 weeks IIRC?)
Looking forward to hearing about your little one soon x

travellingwilbury · 23/01/2011 19:02

LF it's good to hear from you , glad that most are being kind to you . Ignore the PITA one . You know whats best xx

Caz It is such a big step isn't it ? I hope you and your dh are doing ok xx

Ilike I was really odd about all Harrys clothes , I could only pass on the really plain stuff , anything with a pattern or a proper outfit was too much for me to see another baby in . His toys however I loved seeing being used .

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CazandBelle · 23/01/2011 20:44

posted lottie

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kazmus · 23/01/2011 20:52

lottie, bless you, didnt know right way to break in!

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CazandBelle · 23/01/2011 20:54

kaz I'm so sorry you've had to find yourself here with us. xx

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lottiejenkins · 23/01/2011 20:55

You needn't be afraid lovey. We are all ready to try and help. I lost my eldest son Jack when he was born prematurely at 26 weeks and had a brian haemorrage. He died at two hours old........ I have a gorgeous son Wilf who is as mad as a box of frogs. Pics on my profile!!