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Joe/Spike - your votes are needed please!

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luth · 29/03/2012 20:43

20 months ago I called on the good people of mumsnet to choose my dd's name. www.mumsnet.com/Talk/baby_names/1005168-Primrose-Rosie-your-votes-are-needed/AllOnOnePage

We were having a dilemma between the popular Rosie and the more unusual Primrose and asked you to cast your votes. Although reaction was mixed, Primrose won and we couldn't be more delighted with it now - people who don't like it are mercifully silent and those who do gush with excitement when they hear it. I'm rather addicted to the "oh what a beautiful name" comments I still get regularly and my daughter is well known around our small town ie "oh that's Primrose" because it stands out and she is therefore easily remembered.

So I'm now due in 3 weeks with no 2 - this time with a boy! My partner and I find choosing names a nightmare (but don't want to discuss names with our friends or family as we're keeping the sex secret from everyone). We're down to 2 names: Joe (not Joseph) and Spike and it's kind of the same dilemma as before. Do we stick to the safe Joe and have Spike as a middle name or go for the more 'out there' Spike for a first name given that we have had such a positive reaction to our unusual girls name.

DH thinks that boys can't carry off unusual names like girls and that he'll get bullied and pre-judged if he's called Spike. However I've just read another thread which says that Joe is really popular and although this shouldn't bother me, I would mind if he was say one of three Joe's in his class.

So we've decided to go with you lot again! Please cast your vote for either:
Option 1 - Joe Spike Palmer
Option 2 - Spike Joe Palmer

Thank you in advance for helping us out and taking the time to respond!!!

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Badgerina · 21/05/2012 23:54

Brilliant! So glad you're happy with your choice! Massive congrats! Grin Grin Grin

We're very likely having a Spike in September/October. Spike or Felix. So far, when discussing names, I've had EXACTLY the same reactions from the same groups of people you mention. Only difference being my DH's colleagues are teachers, not in advertising!

BustersOfDoom · 22/05/2012 00:20

Congratulations! And it really isn't just 40+ advertising blokes in London who think it's a cool name. We're in Yorkshire, public sector peeps and still think Spike is a pretty fab name for my colleague's now 7 year old boy! We did from day 1 by the way. I love it!

DesperatelySeekingSedatives · 22/05/2012 08:38

Spike sounds more of a nn imo.

I love Joe but then I am biased Wink

DesperatelySeekingSedatives · 22/05/2012 08:40

Sorry didnt read the whole thread. Congratulations on baby Spike! Smile

evamummy · 22/05/2012 15:00

Congratulations! I think Spike is a very cool name and much more interesting and memorable than Joe (which I find dull). John is a lovely, underused middle name. Great choice!!

JenaiMarrHePlaysGuitar · 22/05/2012 17:43

Ah, congratulations :)

fwiw I know a Spike and as far as I'm aware he's had no issues with it at all. I was a bit Hmm on first hearing it (years ago) but so what.

I'm glad you went with it.

JenaiMarrHePlaysGuitar · 22/05/2012 18:39

I ought to have added that the Hmm was very short-lived!

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