god, i'm so stressed!
we need to sort out a new mortgage deal, no-one will deal with me, they all want to speak to dh despite the fact that i do all our family finances
ironic, isn't it that sheila's wheels insurance was actually more expensive done in my name as a 'sahm', so i had to do the policy in dh's name! they just don't get that a scary, hormonal woman at home all day with a screaming toddler is actually quite a deterrent against burglers!
and if you try and put 'self employed designer' in the system, alarms go off and the whole thing goes into shut down saying 'does not compute, does not compute'
rant over
there are men, and scaffolding outside ripping down rotten wood, yay!, and VV, the book arrived, the richard scarry make it book, it's fab!!!, so glad you pointed me in that direction!