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OI! Homophobes! Over here!

682 replies

ooojimaflip · 10/12/2009 17:23

I'm genuinly interested in why you object to homosexuality, and everytime I ask on the other thread it gets lost in the general hubbub.

So - name change if you want, but please tell me what your objections are?

If it's because it's not natural or against biology, please expand your answer to include why you care about that.

Show your working for extra credit.

n.b. Don't bother if it's a religous justification, you'll need to find someone who believes in that kind of stuff to debate with as I'll just dismiss that out of hand. If you are a homopohbic religous person with a secular objection then please go ahead.

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ChickensHaveNoTinsel · 11/12/2009 12:50

If you were sacked, daftpunk, you could also claim sexual discrimination, on account of you owning a fanjo. Someone who is sacked unfairly is entitled to argue their case, whether they are gay, straight, have one leg, are deaf etc. etc. You are not allowed to sack someone because 'they ain't natural'.

Gawd, why am I bothering?

daftpunk · 11/12/2009 12:51

no, i wouldn't have as many rights as the lesbian...

because she performs oral sex on another woman once a week, her job is safer than mine....

pooexplosionsonthedustyroad · 11/12/2009 12:52

Do you get all your info from the daily mail or do you come up with this bollocks on your own? Oh wait, you tried to join the bnp, I imagine you've read their leaflets......

Its painful, it really is.

Kaloki · 11/12/2009 12:52

DP > do you ever read what you write??

hollybrainfestivepants · 11/12/2009 12:53

does she have to prove she performs oral sex on a woman once a week to win? if she only does it once a fortnight is she going to lose her case?

you really do come out with some shite dp

LetThereBeRock · 11/12/2009 12:53

That makes absolutely no sense and you know it.
Again if you are discriminated against,for any reason, being a bigot doesn't count, then you may take your employers to court, just as the lesbians may. It's no different.

peacocks · 11/12/2009 12:53

I think this love-in, particularly of male homosexuals, is quite ironic. Look at the way women are presented by many gay men it's not very complimentary. A lot of transvestites are gay and their 'omage to us is pretty depressing. Likewise fashion designers while saying they love women it seems they actually hate them, particularly anyone who eats food and looks real, given the clothes they think we should wear. It really pisses me off.

birdofthenorth · 11/12/2009 12:54

Lesbians have more rights at work?!!! That's genius! Here's some educational reading for you....

www.stonewall.org.uk/documents/doubleglazed_glass_ceiling.pdf

ChickensHaveNoTinsel · 11/12/2009 12:54

DP, you are clearly just trying to get a reaction. Quite pathetic really.

lolianja · 11/12/2009 13:03

As I said earlier, how can homosexuality not be natural when it happens in nature? It's not something we fabricated ourselves like the internet or IVF or nylon! It's a state of being that's existed for as long as we have. Nobody chooses to be gay, they just are. So in what way could that be described as unnatural?

And why is it that those who use the 'unnatural' argument against gayness only seem to have that argument apply to sexual practices? If gayness is wrong because it's unnatural (and let's not forget that it isn't!!) then why the hell are you using the internet? The internet really is unnatural so why is that OK?

ooojimaflip · 11/12/2009 13:20

daftpunk - you and a Lesbian have exactly the same rights. Neither of you can be discriminated against on the grounds of your sexuality. If you feel you are being discrimitated against as a straight woman you can claim constructive dismissal the same as anyone.

It is more often the case that it is gay people taking this action though, as more people gay than straight people are discriminated against on the grounds of suxuality.

But this does not seem to me to be an argument for or against homosexuality - this is an argument about employment rights. And I don't think that from your other posts that you think that homosexuality is a legitimate reason to discrimiate against someone in the workplace anyway.

Did you see my question at 11:37 btw?

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sarah293 · 11/12/2009 13:23

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daftpunk · 11/12/2009 13:25

will just read back oooji...

i don't mind talking to you, i think you are genuinely interested in homophobia...

you don't seem to have an agenda...

give me some time....will think through my reply to you...

i do tend to post very quickly... so apologies if i don't make sense sometimes...

letthereberock.....sorry, didn't mean to sound patronizing...

LetThereBeRock · 11/12/2009 13:30

Yes you did mean to be patronising,but that's the least of my issues with what you,and others, have said.

daftpunk · 11/12/2009 13:31

learn to accept an apologie letthereberock...

it will make a man of you....

LetThereBeRock · 11/12/2009 13:32

Peacock,So we should base our opinion of all gay men on fashion designers, not all of whom are gay even if the majority are, and on a handful of tranvestites?,who I've no problem with,but that's another topic.

ItsIgginningToLookALotLikeXmas · 11/12/2009 13:32

Where's the [howmuchbullshitdoihavetolistentofromoneperson] emoticon when you need it?

LetThereBeRock · 11/12/2009 13:33

I'm quite happy being female thankyou.

And I accept your apology if it's genuine.

sarah293 · 11/12/2009 13:36

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daftpunk · 11/12/2009 13:37

you will never get an apology out of me unless i mean it...

i wouldn't waste my time...

LetThereBeRock · 11/12/2009 13:39

Well then I accept your apology.

mayorquimby · 11/12/2009 13:39

while i'm not homophobic one thing i have noticed about discussions like this is this; while in the past i would have considered myself to be a liberal i don't think i would claim to be one anymore. This is because liberals now seem to be the most right-wing thinking people going because they seem to insist that everyone agrees with them were as in the past i used to understand liberalism as being about everyone being entitled to their own views and beliefs as long as they didn't inflict them on others.
so if someone is racist or homophopbic or sexist they are allowed to hold those views in private as long as they don't try to inflict them on someone else or breaking any laws.We for our part should are then free to criticise these homophobic beliefs etc but it's the apparent insistence that everyone agrees with us that rankles me. So on a topic like this not only do liberals want to put forward their belief in homosexuality being normal or it's moral implications they also seem to insist on everyone else agreeing with them.
sorry it's a bit conviluted i know but it's something i've noticed about "liberal" stand-point in recent times.
for the record i do not think there are any moral implications in homosexuality and agree with with people who condemn homophobic view points,i do however believe that people are entitled to hold homophobic views.

LetThereBeRock · 11/12/2009 13:40

They are and we're equally entitled to challenge them.

daftpunk · 11/12/2009 13:49

you know....not sure there's anything to add..

mayorquimby has said it all perfectly...

liberals are the new facists......

if i can see it why can't everyone else...?

mayorquimby · 11/12/2009 13:50

exactly that was my point about our part being condemning and challenging such views. I've just noticed recently that those who hold liberal views seem to be of the opinion that everyone should agree with them where as recently certain more right wing view points seem to lean towards some people believing something but not forcing it on others but wanting to be left alone with their private views and opinions.

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