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AIBU to find this name offensive?

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Snowleopardsspots · Today 15:46

Blindness is a serious disability. Not some word to be chucked around for marketing attention. There are a lot of other words that could have been used - mystery box, suprise box.

AIBU to find this name offensive?
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Releasemeplease · Today 16:54

Foolish1984 · Today 16:52

So what do you think about blind dates then?

What do I think about them? I think they are a lottery. Could either be a total disaster or the start of something wonderful.

Backedoffhackedoff · Today 16:54

Foolish1984 · Today 16:52

So what do you think about blind dates then?

Who actually goes on blind dates in 2026?!

Coco852 · Today 16:55

OP if you don’t have children, children’s marketing these days are all about “blind bags”, “blind boxes” etc.

MiggyWoods · Today 16:57

Since when?
I've never heard it used in this way

Only time I've heard this used was way back in the 60s when there was a charity collection box for the blind on the counter in shops - or maybe a deaf box or a pdsa box. It may sound ugly and insensitive today but that's what it brings to my mind. Perhaps it was peculiar to my neck of the woods. I'd be interested to know.

Coffeewinecake · Today 16:58

Anyone mentioned double-blinded studies?

RobinEllacotStrike · Today 16:58

ExistWHY · Today 16:03

How about blind date, blind drunk, blind stupid, blind bastard, in the blind, going in blind, im sure there is more.

How can you get offended over a word.

blind alley

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · Today 16:59

ExistWHY · Today 16:03

How about blind date, blind drunk, blind stupid, blind bastard, in the blind, going in blind, im sure there is more.

How can you get offended over a word.

What’s a blind bastard? As a specific expression, rather than someone not very nice who happens to be blind.

RobinEllacotStrike · Today 16:59

don't we use "visually impaired" for those with eyesight issues now anyway?

Backedoffhackedoff · Today 17:00

RobinEllacotStrike · Today 16:59

don't we use "visually impaired" for those with eyesight issues now anyway?

Well, some of us do 😭

MiggyWoods · Today 17:01

Blind bags is normal language

I've never heard it and I've been around since Dick's days.
My gc have mystery bags or surprise bags. Never heard of a blind bag.
That's not to say I don't believe it's used.
Maybe some people just use more selective language.

RobinEllacotStrike · Today 17:02

do you have blinds in your windows? Are you offended by made to order blinds?

What about blind spots?

SleeplessRoads · Today 17:03

MiggyWoods · Today 17:01

Blind bags is normal language

I've never heard it and I've been around since Dick's days.
My gc have mystery bags or surprise bags. Never heard of a blind bag.
That's not to say I don't believe it's used.
Maybe some people just use more selective language.

I think Blind Box is the more commonly used term than Blind Bag (although obviously it’s the same concept).

I think the phenomenon has taken off in popularity more recently, but it is definitely the established term for a mystery box (which would be the other common thing to call
this).

MiggyWoods · Today 17:04

I've just had some blinds installed

There's a very old joke I fell out of my pram laughing at that you probably all know. Were you in the bath?

NoName47 · Today 17:06

This has to be a piss take?

alcovecupboards · Today 17:09

I rather suspect the blind won't be the least bit offended.

IsadoraQuagmire · Today 17:18

daisyydaisyy · Today 16:28

You sound completely fucking batshit, op.

Or blind as a bat

IsadoraQuagmire · Today 17:18

Go on, give them some blind justice

SquidgyPudge · Today 17:21

Blind boxes are all over the place for things these days, toys, figurines, anything collectible really. I assume it's an Instagram thingummybob. I'm not sure how it can conceivably be construed as offensive. Blind can mean a person who is unable to see but it also means unseen. So when you buy a blind box, it means you are taking pot luck as to which figurine you are going to get. It's also a noun, an adjective, a verb and an adverb... So many uses, it is NOT offensive.

And I say that as someone who has just been diagnosed with an eye problem that means I am very likely to be going blind at some point.

OneFineDay22 · Today 17:23

Blindness is a disability, but the word “blind” does not only refer to the disabled. A blind bend, for example, is a correct use of the word that does not refer to blindness as a disability, but simply a human being’s inability to see around it. The same applies here. No one (blind or otherwise) can see inside the box before purchase.

ItsNotMeEither · Today 17:24

What about double blind medical trials? Are these offensive too? What if they're researching something that could assist people with sight issues? Sort of like the blind (trial) saving the blind,

sunshine314 · Today 17:27

And... no reply from the poster.

hattie43 · Today 17:29

Catapultaway · Today 16:04

Dont worry, doubt they'll see it.

See what you did there 🤣

I think it sounds quite American but I’ve no idea why . I do think it’s odd and I would not automatically think it’s a mystery box .

PinkyFlamingo · Today 17:29

runnerducky · Today 15:52

Just as well Cilla is no longer with us.

😂😂

BugJuice · Today 17:30

MiggyWoods · Today 17:01

Blind bags is normal language

I've never heard it and I've been around since Dick's days.
My gc have mystery bags or surprise bags. Never heard of a blind bag.
That's not to say I don't believe it's used.
Maybe some people just use more selective language.

It’s not necessarily about the language used, it’s about the words used on the packaging itself.

sunshine314 · Today 17:30

What offends me is having to buy loads in order to get the one that I actually want. This is unusual in that they don't usually have the words on them. You just find out when you open one and get only one, then you'll know what it is.

But seriously, why is it so offensive? Is describing stuff offensive? Like "a small bag", well I'm small so should I go off my rocker now? Because you're discriminating between small and big things or whatnot.

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