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AIBU to move our family from London to my home town?

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CoatsforGoats · Yesterday 14:19

AIBU to move our family out of London to live in the town I grew up in? 3 children under 5 at the moment, so possibly imagining an easier life where getting the buggy around isn't as much of a daily challenge. We have been thinking about it as a family for a couple of years and feel completely stuck.

Points to note

  • DH job is firmly London so he would be away part of the week (thinking Mon - Wed or Thursday as a pattern)
  • We have a lovely little house in London BUT I am aware of the pollution here, and even walking to the park from our house involves a lot of passing traffic. Middle DC coughs at the fumes and it breaks my heart.
  • The town I am from is nice and interesting (altho I haven't lived there in years) plenty going on in terms of culture and sport, good access to mountains and excellent walking/forest nearby.
  • We would be able to buy a bigger house and have a much bigger garden if we left.
  • We don't really have family here or in the town. Some family are overseas and location doesn't make a huge difference either way.

I guess part of it is that neither of us grew up in London, so that feels like an unknown quantity for us, and we are a bit worried about how a London upbringing might be for older primary aged children and into teen years.

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Needmorelego · Today 20:12

Arran2024 · Today 19:42

Tbf you get a very limited type of culture at the Richmond and Wimbledon theatres. My nephew is a drama student and this isn't the sort of thing he is interested in - he is watching more experimental stuff in Shoreditch. And I suspect it would be harder to find that in most towns.

We like musicals (seen Rocky Horror 3 times 🤩)
I have a friend who is involved with a theatre that does interesting alternative type stuff....in his little Midlands town.
My home town has a small community theatre. They do a lot of things like open-mike stand up comedy.
A relative in a different small Midlands town performed in a professional panto (with a semi-celeb as the star).
This is my whole point....you do not have to live in London to access "culture".
It's everywhere.

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