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I just used the word 'hence' in an email

428 replies

GoodGirlFaith · 10/09/2026 15:21

AIBU to want to punch the air?

Pray tell me your favourite olden day words.

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FadedRed · 10/09/2026 15:42

Aver - I used it first in a University assignment paper and was unreasonably annoyed (though I kept my emotion to myself) when a fellow student said “Oohh I’m pinching that!”

limetrees32 · 10/09/2026 15:43

I'm fond of the word 'marvellous' when spoken.
Heavy emphasis on. first syllable.

Isittimeformynapyet · 10/09/2026 15:44

I like using the word queer to mean peculiar.

Used correctly, hence is relatively rare these days, but using it WONGLY followed by "why" is an abomination extremely popular among those who think they have a better grasp of English than they actually do.

I have no problem with people using the word "so" instead of attempting to sound clever and spaffing up "hence".

Widgets · 10/09/2026 15:47

Come hither….
my nan used to say it, I now said it to my dog when I’m getting her collar and lead on for a walk. . It’s an old phrase that just kind of stuck in our house.

CustardySergeant · 10/09/2026 15:48

Isittimeformynapyet · 10/09/2026 15:44

I like using the word queer to mean peculiar.

Used correctly, hence is relatively rare these days, but using it WONGLY followed by "why" is an abomination extremely popular among those who think they have a better grasp of English than they actually do.

I have no problem with people using the word "so" instead of attempting to sound clever and spaffing up "hence".

You should never use the word "WONGLY" on a day with a 'y' in it. 😉

SerendipityCat · 10/09/2026 15:50

I'm not sure I've ever used it, but I'm quite fond of "ergo". Also, "hither and yon" is quite pleasing, as is "inasmuch as".
I once read that the Duke of Wellington was fond of using "I must advert you to the fact that..." in his communications with his subordinates, but I doubt I'm brave enough to use it.

cloudbabies · 10/09/2026 15:52

I say hence all the time 🤣

GoodGirlFaith · 10/09/2026 15:52

I used to use the word 'perused' a lot but colleagues told me they didn't know what it meant and that is sounded old fashioned.

I think I'll start using it again now that I have changed jobs.

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DoneAndNotDusted · 10/09/2026 15:52

I like "outwith" too; also "dreich" - a lovely word describing typical grey, dismal weather (although that wasn't the case during the last few months!). I only know them because I have a Scottish friend; I live in England and most people here wouldn't know what they mean, so I don''t really use them. (I have seen them used online many times).

I also use the word "hence"!

Isittimeformynapyet · 10/09/2026 15:53

CustardySergeant · 10/09/2026 15:48

You should never use the word "WONGLY" on a day with a 'y' in it. 😉

😂😂. I'm such a doofus sometimes! 😣😫😫😫

GoodGirlFaith · 10/09/2026 15:54

I love all of these very much!

I also heard someone say 'unquestionably' on the radio earlier this week and I think I will start using that, too, in place of 'absolutely.'

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Timespentwithcatsisneverwasted · 10/09/2026 15:54

If I really want to overdo it, I try to cram these in somewhere 😂
Hitherto hereforesaid
Notwithstanding
Therein

hotmumshit · 10/09/2026 15:55

Satnav!

MissIonX · 10/09/2026 15:55

DearlyDiego · 10/09/2026 15:32

I use hence quite often, it's a good word.

Words I quite commonly use in emails are

  • henceforth
  • forthwith
  • outwith (I've heard this is mainly a Scottish word, so perhaps my English colleagues are confused by it)
  • thereafter

I just asked Co-pilot if I use old fashioned words in my emails and it's told me
Based on a sample of your recent sent emails, I would say your style is professional, courteous, and slightly more formal than average modern business email writing, but not excessively old-fashioned.

Yes I use outwith; it's a commonly used in Scots law.

Itiswhysofew · 10/09/2026 15:55

I love whilst, and use it as much as humanly possible.

GoodGirlFaith · 10/09/2026 15:56

Itsthewoluff · 10/09/2026 15:38

I don’t know but today I saw a new one on mumsnet
“as a pose to” 😂

😂

strike a pose madonna GIF
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5foot5 · 10/09/2026 15:58

Notwithstanding
Wireless ( as in the thing you listen on which you to Radio 4)

RoyalNight · 10/09/2026 15:58

I adore the phrases “on the ‘morrow”, “ anecdotal evidence” and “nay, nay, and thrice nay”
I also get a buzz out of “albeit”.

Yewlez · 10/09/2026 15:58

I'm a big fan of ergo.

TheEyesOfLucyJordon · 10/09/2026 15:58

My favourite word is "Shitshow". My boss prefers: "We have several challenges" 😘

Thistooshallpsss · 10/09/2026 15:59

Seen on road signs : Beware raised ironmongery in the carriageway
just love it! Difficult to use in conversation though.

GoodGirlFaith · 10/09/2026 16:01

RoyalNight · 10/09/2026 15:58

I adore the phrases “on the ‘morrow”, “ anecdotal evidence” and “nay, nay, and thrice nay”
I also get a buzz out of “albeit”.

“nay, nay, and thrice nay”

Oh, I am using this today if I can shoehorn it in anywhere.

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DramaAlpaca · 10/09/2026 16:04

Widgets · 10/09/2026 15:47

Come hither….
my nan used to say it, I now said it to my dog when I’m getting her collar and lead on for a walk. . It’s an old phrase that just kind of stuck in our house.

Oh I love 'come hither'. I sometimes use it at work, which is fun.

I like squeezing the odd 'hence' or an 'albeit' into an email occasionally too. I think I get away with it because I'm older than most of the people I work with and they don't seem to think it's weird.

A colleague came into my office this morning and used the word 'kerfuffle'. Not particularly old fashioned, but a lovely word.

HoppityBun · 10/09/2026 16:06

Some of these words aren’t just old fashioned, but are of the sort of managing clerk speak that was used in the mid 20th century by people who were not particularly well educated but who ran offices and thought that letters had to be written in a sort of contorted formal and archaic style to make them seem official and decisive.

They would write in the third person and would never use a short word if they could think of a longer one. Direct language seemed almost rude.

“We write in response to your letter of the 3rd ult and refer you to ours of the 18th inst, to which we do not appear to have received a reply. We look forward to hearing from you by return.”

If anyone remembers ult. inst. and prox. then they are pretty old.

I am always bemused to get an email asking me to respond “by return“. “By return“ of what? By return meant by return of post. What conceivable relevance can that have to emails?

SevenYellowHammers · 10/09/2026 16:07

Thus, hitherto, aforementioned, therein