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I just used the word 'hence' in an email

428 replies

GoodGirlFaith · 10/09/2026 15:21

AIBU to want to punch the air?

Pray tell me your favourite olden day words.

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ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 10/09/2026 17:04

Ooh another one, my husband is always saying he's just doing his ablutions! I love that phrase!

CaptainMyCaptain · 10/09/2026 17:05

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 10/09/2026 17:03

I'm not sure whether the word faff is old fashioned enough, but I love that one too!

'Faff' is very common usage where I live. As in 'stop faffing about' or 'I'm not doing that it's too much faff'.

nocoolnamesleft · 10/09/2026 17:06

I used aforementioned yesterday.

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 10/09/2026 17:06

Oh yes... I occasionally use the word "hogwash" although I'm not sure whether it's suitable in the context of old fashioned ways of speaking 🤔

Beautifulbutterfly · 10/09/2026 17:11

He was a ‘ne’er-do-well’ - translation - an irresponsible or idle person.
Rogue
Forsooth
Fain-means gladly, as in ‘i would fain go with thee’
Eviscerate
I will be with you anon.

EmailsaysOOO · 10/09/2026 17:12

Nonetheless is a nice one

EmailsaysOOO · 10/09/2026 17:12

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 10/09/2026 17:04

Ooh another one, my husband is always saying he's just doing his ablutions! I love that phrase!

Mine says that as well 🤣

Imdunfer · 10/09/2026 17:13

To be minded to do something.

Curmudgeon.

Tramp, in both senses.

DierdreDaphne · 10/09/2026 17:13

Oh there's some lovely ones here. My contribution is my regular use of 'disobliging remarks' to describe a slagging off.

mixedpeel · 10/09/2026 17:14

louthemumster · 10/09/2026 16:59

Ha. Good to know. There I was thinking we were clever!

Well, you could claim you are as creative with language as one of the most entertaining authors in the English language, which sounds pretty impressive to me!

OpenScroller · 10/09/2026 17:17

Have we had 'notwithstanding'. Use that a fair bit, along with hence, alas, therefore, forthwith, whereas, wherein.

FieldofMusic · 10/09/2026 17:18

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 10/09/2026 17:04

Ooh another one, my husband is always saying he's just doing his ablutions! I love that phrase!

My partner says that, or "I'm going to ablute now".

Keswick1967 · 10/09/2026 17:18

I quite like the saying the word purports, sycophant is good too.

Cuppachuchu · 10/09/2026 17:19

Undoubtedly is a definite favourite 😍
Hereto, henceforth and herewith lovely also.

BrandiedAromatics · 10/09/2026 17:23

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 10/09/2026 17:02

Oh yes, my dad is always using the word queer to mean peculiar! Actually, come to think of it, peculiar is a fabulous word too.

We always used to say: do you mean funny - ha,ha, or funny - peculiar.

PlotTwistPending · 10/09/2026 17:23

GoodGirlFaith · 10/09/2026 15:52

I used to use the word 'perused' a lot but colleagues told me they didn't know what it meant and that is sounded old fashioned.

I think I'll start using it again now that I have changed jobs.

I use perusal a lot in emails. I have attached a document for your perusal.

214 · 10/09/2026 17:24

I favour ennui and sesquipedalian, true there is little enough chance to use them, but seldom is preferable to never!

Mookie81 · 10/09/2026 17:25

GoodGirlFaith · 10/09/2026 15:21

AIBU to want to punch the air?

Pray tell me your favourite olden day words.

I got my year 3 class to use flabbergasted in their writing today. 😊

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 10/09/2026 17:25

FieldofMusic · 10/09/2026 17:18

My partner says that, or "I'm going to ablute now".

Ha ha, I do love learning these phrases! When my husband used it and I'd never heard of the word before, I had to ask him what on earth ablute meant! 😳😂

Oh yes, I've thought of a few more now...

Quasi
Quintessential
Per se
By the by

Although I'm sure half of these are just used normally these days, but the people I know just never say them! 🤔😂

ChihuahuaChica · 10/09/2026 17:26

I love betwixt and agin.

DramaAlpaca · 10/09/2026 17:27

Firefly100 · 10/09/2026 16:12

I love exercising ‘the former’ and ‘the latter’. I also give myself a mental pat for a semicolon.

Oh yes, I do love a semicolon; I use them at every opportunity.

I'm also partial to an Oxford comma, even though it can be misunderstood. I used it once at work (in a university, of all places!) but the recipient got the wrong end of the stick and I had to email again to explain <sigh>

GoodGirlFaith · 10/09/2026 17:29

Firefly100 · 10/09/2026 16:12

I love exercising ‘the former’ and ‘the latter’. I also give myself a mental pat for a semicolon.

I love semicolons and use them often.
;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;

I have just written a little poem for them.

I love you, little semi
And I wish you would tell me
Why I don't see you so often now
Is it because you don't get the same 'wow'
As perhaps, multiple exclamation marks?!!!
Used to highlight dramatic remarks.

Come back to us, semicolon
Just get your little groove on
We miss you
But will renaissance you
So get ready world...
Prepare for the semi to be unfurled. ;

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MachineBee · 10/09/2026 17:29

I’m a big user and fan of ‘posit’.

Love an albeit, a notwithstanding and discombobulated.

Also on the misused/misspelt words my pet peeve is mute being used when moot is meant.

IthinkIsawahairbrushbackthere · 10/09/2026 17:30

Notwithstanding the undeniable splendour of “hence”, I cannot but applaud its deployment. I, too, derive an inordinate degree of pleasure from resurrecting words that have long since fallen from common usage. “Wherewithal”, “ameliorate”, “hitherto” and “erstwhile” are among my particular favourites, and I shall employ them at every opportunity, whether or not the circumstances warrant such grandiloquence. Indeed, I possess neither the restraint nor the wherewithal to do otherwise. Henceforth, I shall consider it my solemn duty to keep these magnificent relics of our language in circulation.

Goodmorningeveryone26 · 10/09/2026 17:32

HoppityBun · 10/09/2026 15:33

No, because the corner doesn’t belong to the Pedants. It’s where the pedants are. Genitive vs possessive.

I do genuinely want to applaud a bit right now 🙌