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I just used the word 'hence' in an email

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GoodGirlFaith · 10/09/2026 15:21

AIBU to want to punch the air?

Pray tell me your favourite olden day words.

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Floatlikeafeather2 · 12/09/2026 10:03

Whosthetabbynow · 12/09/2026 09:44

How many people do you hear saying it? I’m assuming you’ll reply “loads”

Well I don't talk to "loads" of people so I can't in all honesty say that, but it's a term used in geometry so never really fitted into day to day conversation anyway. And because it's a geometrical term, and still used in that context, it doesn't fit into the OP's question about "favourite olden day terms". Unless you don't know what perpendicular means?

Warmlight1 · 12/09/2026 10:28

Floatlikeafeather2 · 12/09/2026 10:03

Well I don't talk to "loads" of people so I can't in all honesty say that, but it's a term used in geometry so never really fitted into day to day conversation anyway. And because it's a geometrical term, and still used in that context, it doesn't fit into the OP's question about "favourite olden day terms". Unless you don't know what perpendicular means?

But it is such a lovely precise word. Nothing else really expresses that. I don't know why we don't use it. People say 'parallel' a lot.

Floatlikeafeather2 · 12/09/2026 11:40

Floatlikeafeather2 · 12/09/2026 10:03

Well I don't talk to "loads" of people so I can't in all honesty say that, but it's a term used in geometry so never really fitted into day to day conversation anyway. And because it's a geometrical term, and still used in that context, it doesn't fit into the OP's question about "favourite olden day terms". Unless you don't know what perpendicular means?

This message was in reply to @Whosthetabbynow's rather snotty reply to my comment. The quote didn't attach for some reason.

eggandonion · 12/09/2026 11:54

At right angles to?
I left school several decades ago so many maths terms are olden days to me.

Warmlight1 · 12/09/2026 12:13

eggandonion · 12/09/2026 11:54

At right angles to?
I left school several decades ago so many maths terms are olden days to me.

:) it's just not the same though is it - we use 5 words when we could use one

eggandonion · 12/09/2026 12:49

I had a slide rule. It was amazing. We had to write SR at the end of a calculation when we used it.
That's definitely olden days maths.

moderate · 12/09/2026 13:27

Warmlight1 · 12/09/2026 10:28

But it is such a lovely precise word. Nothing else really expresses that. I don't know why we don't use it. People say 'parallel' a lot.

I don’t say “perpendicular” much outside of giving road directions , but I use “orthogonal” quite a lot metaphorically, as in “These issues are orthogonal”.

Also “On a complete tangent…”!

moderate · 12/09/2026 13:28

One of my very favourites is “Do I gather…?”

Warmlight1 · 12/09/2026 13:48

moderate · 12/09/2026 13:27

I don’t say “perpendicular” much outside of giving road directions , but I use “orthogonal” quite a lot metaphorically, as in “These issues are orthogonal”.

Also “On a complete tangent…”!

Never heard orthogonal! I've looked it up and will try to use it this week!

CaptainMyCaptain · 12/09/2026 13:55

Whosthetabbynow · 12/09/2026 09:44

How many people do you hear saying it? I’m assuming you’ll reply “loads”

It's a mathematical term. What would you say instead?

QuietlyWonderful · 12/09/2026 16:41

MissFancyDay · 11/09/2026 14:05

I didn't know fortnight was becoming outdated. I've always wanted to use sennight (seven nights) for a week but I've always been too embarrassed.

My favorite old time thing to say is to declare myself " knocked up" when I'm tired while out walking, as used in Jane Austen.

"Knocked up" must be used with care. Round my way, it means pregnant - or should that be 'got with child'?

BrandiedAromatics · 12/09/2026 17:04

QuietlyWonderful · 12/09/2026 16:41

"Knocked up" must be used with care. Round my way, it means pregnant - or should that be 'got with child'?

In the family way

moderate · 12/09/2026 17:30

BrandiedAromatics · 12/09/2026 17:04

In the family way

In an interesting condition

MyThreeWords · 12/09/2026 17:41

You don't hear "Has a bun in the oven" as often as you used to.

MissFancyDay · 12/09/2026 17:55

QuietlyWonderful · 12/09/2026 16:41

"Knocked up" must be used with care. Round my way, it means pregnant - or should that be 'got with child'?

Well quite, which is why it amuses me to say it. I'm very childish and too old to be actually knocked up.

BrandiedAromatics · 12/09/2026 17:57

MissFancyDay · 12/09/2026 17:55

Well quite, which is why it amuses me to say it. I'm very childish and too old to be actually knocked up.

Was it a polite way of saying knackered?

PrincessofEuphrania · 12/09/2026 18:45

Lampzade · 10/09/2026 16:16

My mother refuses to use the word toilet and instead used the word ‘latrine’ because this is the word her father used

I always say I’m going to the lavatorium when I’m at home as it sounds much nicer than toilet. Not quite brave enough to use it whilst at work!

Warmlight1 · 12/09/2026 18:48

moderate · 12/09/2026 17:30

In an interesting condition

'Confinement'- not a word I want back particularly!

CaptainMyCaptain · 12/09/2026 20:06

BrandiedAromatics · 12/09/2026 17:57

Was it a polite way of saying knackered?

No.
There used to be a man called a Knocker Up who tapped on people's windows to wake them up in the days when a lot of people didn't have alarm clocks. He 'knocked them up'. When i was young it meant knocking on your door to see if you were coming out.

The current usage means getting someone pregnant which, I think, comes from America.

CaptainMyCaptain · 12/09/2026 20:07

PrincessofEuphrania · 12/09/2026 18:45

I always say I’m going to the lavatorium when I’m at home as it sounds much nicer than toilet. Not quite brave enough to use it whilst at work!

My Dad called it the lavatory or just the lav.

eggandonion · 12/09/2026 20:24

My cousin had a rather twee visitor who said she was just popping to the powder room. My cousin's small son was very excited that there was a room in the house he had never heard of.
Im going to powder my nose is posher than going to spend a penny.

Toomanyskittles · 13/09/2026 00:12

My mother used to use the term blackguard (pronounced blaggard) quite a bit, but I haven’t heard it for ages now.

MissFancyDay · 13/09/2026 01:07

BrandiedAromatics · 12/09/2026 17:57

Was it a polite way of saying knackered?

Yes, Jane Austen used it to mean really tired.

BrandiedAromatics · 13/09/2026 07:56

CaptainMyCaptain · 12/09/2026 20:07

My Dad called it the lavatory or just the lav.

Further back it was the privy

Thinking about it, you don't hear being privy to someone's thought. And then, there is: Prithee

MyThreeWords · 13/09/2026 08:36

Ooh, yes, prithee. That would be an EXCELLENT word to put in a work email. So many work messages are requests to do this or that, it could really take off.

Prithee action point 2 of the meeting minutes.

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