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I just used the word 'hence' in an email

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GoodGirlFaith · 10/09/2026 15:21

AIBU to want to punch the air?

Pray tell me your favourite olden day words.

OP posts:
Sunloungerhogger · 11/09/2026 18:47

LilacBalloons · 10/09/2026 15:33

Outwith. A lovely word. Not unusual in Scotland but rarely used in England, sadly.

Came on to say this. DH uses it a lot but he is Scottish. I do find it a very useful word though.

Bailiwick (maybe also still more common in Scotland).

PyongyangKipperbang · 11/09/2026 19:01

I have just used the phrase "in high dudgeon" on the thread about silliest arguments and realised that it would probably fit in here!

AlwaysExtraHot · 11/09/2026 19:02

Sunloungerhogger · 11/09/2026 18:47

Came on to say this. DH uses it a lot but he is Scottish. I do find it a very useful word though.

Bailiwick (maybe also still more common in Scotland).

I use outwith and had no idea it was Scottish. I am English but did live in Scotland for a while, but can’t remember if I picked it up there or not.
i love bailiwick. Actually had cause to use it in conversation recently, which I was thrilled about.

AlwaysExtraHot · 11/09/2026 19:03

ChuisEpuisee · 11/09/2026 17:54

This is a great thread, thanks OP!

@DramaAlpaca I am also WEDDED to an Oxford comma and get very annoyed when people take them out of stuff I've drafted.

Someone mentioned "whilst" - I use this loads and have a colleague who objects to it, and I can't remember why.

I use "former" and "latter" all the time, also "grateful for", as in "Dear X, grateful for your thoughts on the below".

Someone above mentioned that people had been confused by "counterintuitive", which is surely crazy! That's just a normal word!

I’m not keen on whilst; I think it’s fussy.
EDITED too many s’s in fussy

sweatervest · 11/09/2026 19:06

i say irksome and irked and "i am full of irk" which probably doesnt make any sense but lots of people have never heard the word /irk/

i also use "receptacle" i am busy patting myself on the back tbh

BrandiedAromatics · 11/09/2026 19:41

How about: to whit - as in then going on to specify whatever
Or: to whet - as in the appetite
Then: want - as in lack rather than desire. As in a signpost to Hungerford/Wantage

mummaofthreeboys · 11/09/2026 19:50

Wherewithal

maudelovesharold · 11/09/2026 22:21

SevenYellowHammers · 11/09/2026 17:35

Yes! I also look for opportunities to say
“very well”

😊 yes, also “delightful!”

AquamarinePearlGold · 11/09/2026 23:15

AlwaysExtraHot · 11/09/2026 19:03

I’m not keen on whilst; I think it’s fussy.
EDITED too many s’s in fussy

Edited

Good lord NO to the Oxford comma people - they are utterly irksome and entirely superfluous!

Littledidsheknow · 11/09/2026 23:27

Love this thread!

And I can’t help think that it’s been a long time since anyone had a yobbo “cock a snook” at them!

heymammy · 11/09/2026 23:29

seahorsessky · 10/09/2026 15:25

"Joey said hence" is the first thing that comes to mind with that word.
Newsagent.
Off licence.
Whelm (not over or under).

I see your newsagent and raise you with paper shop Grin

PyongyangKipperbang · 11/09/2026 23:31

AquamarinePearlGold · 11/09/2026 23:15

Good lord NO to the Oxford comma people - they are utterly irksome and entirely superfluous!

The Oxford comma is Marmite!

Warmlight1 · 11/09/2026 23:37

Littledidsheknow · 11/09/2026 23:27

Love this thread!

And I can’t help think that it’s been a long time since anyone had a yobbo “cock a snook” at them!

I haven't heard the phrase ' turn your nose up' for quite a while.

DooDallyHallie · 11/09/2026 23:41

WingnutSOS · 10/09/2026 15:41

@DearlyDiego I love an outwith, had no idea till I worked in England that it was peculiarly Scottish 😂

I haved lived all my life in (admittedly north of) England and 'outwith' is a perfectly normal word.

Floatlikeafeather2 · 11/09/2026 23:44

Whosthetabbynow · 10/09/2026 16:14

Telex
Teletext
Forsooth
Perpendicular
Cassette tape
’Pictures’ for cinema
Hogwash
Piffle
Tripe
Peasouper

What's "olden day" about perpendicular?

heymammy · 11/09/2026 23:48

I also like to use poly-bag wherever possible but it's getting harder with all the reusable bags cutting about now

Gentlework · 11/09/2026 23:55

Choleric
Obsequious
Priapic

aniloD · 12/09/2026 00:05

GoodGirlFaith · 10/09/2026 15:21

AIBU to want to punch the air?

Pray tell me your favourite olden day words.

Hence is fine (if used correctly) 'Hence why' is never fine

ChuisEpuisee · 12/09/2026 08:06

aniloD · 12/09/2026 00:05

Hence is fine (if used correctly) 'Hence why' is never fine

Technically "the reason why" is also never fine but people use it all the time, I try to maintain my cool about it 😁

eggandonion · 12/09/2026 08:16

My boss likes to ring main suppliers and ask the operator to patch him through to the it department. (Who sensibly don't have direct lines to avoid people like my boss calling).
I assume the operator is a receptionist nowadays.

Littledidsheknow · 12/09/2026 08:47

My granny used to describe her neighbour who communicated only in moans and complaints as “lugubrious”

Busydoinnuthin · 12/09/2026 08:51

Notwithstanding, absolutely love it!

PennyShine · 12/09/2026 09:06

'Tomfoolery' is my favourite!

Whosthetabbynow · 12/09/2026 09:44

Floatlikeafeather2 · 11/09/2026 23:44

What's "olden day" about perpendicular?

How many people do you hear saying it? I’m assuming you’ll reply “loads”

Toomanyskittles · 12/09/2026 09:54

Whosthetabbynow · 12/09/2026 09:44

How many people do you hear saying it? I’m assuming you’ll reply “loads”

I agree with pp. It's used in primary school maths, for a start.
I can’t think of a word that you can use instead 🤔

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