Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

AIBU to want to express support for women who were assaulted at a political conference?

386 replies

Warmlight1 · 08/09/2026 21:41

To want to send out support to the two women visibly assaulted at a political conference.
I am concerned about the other protesters too and actually anyone who was hurt. But having to listen to jeering from the podium plus the crowd chanting in live TV at the same time must have been so traumatic and the publicity will die down and coverage move on but that can't be easy. Just want to send love and support.

OP posts:
Clavinova · 09/09/2026 21:14

BackToLurk · 09/09/2026 21:01

Remind us what the actions of security guards and the police have to do with party members assaulting a woman.

Are security guards allowed to grab people round the neck, if indeed he is a security guard? Are they allowed to slam people against a wall?

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 21:14

Clavinova · 09/09/2026 21:07

I thought the man very forcefully smashed a hard shelled egg in Prescott's face.

I think the first egg missed and the second egg hit the side of his face and neck.

Just to clarify - if a protester hits Nigel Farage on the side of his face and neck with a hard shelled egg, or similar object, you would be fine if Farage reacted with a punch?

I have just watched the Prescott punch and the guy is 20 years younger and really muscular, an egg with that force behind him no wonder Prescott reacted !

TopPocketFind · 09/09/2026 21:18

A reactive action is not the same as grabbing a woman constrained by security guards by the hair and hitting her with sticks.

Are you willing to condemn the actions of those Reform supporters @Clavinova?

Clavinova · 09/09/2026 21:19

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 21:11

I certainly think it's more of a instinctive reaction to someone smashing something into your face. I'm still not clear how this is comparable to this situation, I'll ask again, what did the woman do? Equally, this was donkeys years ago, I mean it was different era. Would John Prescott hit a woman, no, I definitely don't think so, different values I suppose!

Equally, this was donkeys years ago, I mean it was a different era

We hear that excuse all the time.

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 21:23

Clavinova · 09/09/2026 21:14

Are security guards allowed to grab people round the neck, if indeed he is a security guard? Are they allowed to slam people against a wall?

How are the actions of the security indicative of the party. Equally, I asked you whether Rachel Reeves mocked them and then worse appear in a sky interview belittling the protestor with a "boo hoo" mockery. As I posted this afternoon even The Telegraph is warning us of the Reform party now, with the article headline, "The violence against anti-Reform protesters should worry us all". The article discusses how this is indicative of its decency with members that behave like that. Tbh it's not a good sign when the Torygraph is writing such pieces!

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 21:24

Clavinova · 09/09/2026 21:19

Equally, this was donkeys years ago, I mean it was a different era

We hear that excuse all the time.

It was though, I bet there is a big proportion of Mumsnet posters that don't even know who he is!

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 21:27

Clavinova · 09/09/2026 21:19

Equally, this was donkeys years ago, I mean it was a different era

We hear that excuse all the time.

Men hitting women so blatantly, not even in self defence, just because a level of entitlement- outrageous and not something justified by any of the men I know, I thought Reform stood for 'protecting women and girls'.

Clavinova · 09/09/2026 21:36

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 21:14

I have just watched the Prescott punch and the guy is 20 years younger and really muscular, an egg with that force behind him no wonder Prescott reacted !

John Prescott was a former amateur boxer;

BBC - Ex-boxer Lord Prescott instinctively turned and punched the farming protester, which later earned him the nickname "Two Jabs".

SevenYellowHammers · 09/09/2026 21:38

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 21:14

I have just watched the Prescott punch and the guy is 20 years younger and really muscular, an egg with that force behind him no wonder Prescott reacted !

I seem to remember his/Labour’s popularity rating went up. Maybe because Blair was still sucking up to Murdoch at that point and the press were kind? Imagine it now. We’d be facing another GE for sure.

I’m guilty of hideous double standards because I was pretty impressed with Prezza whilst tweely saying I didn’t condone violence of course. Same with Eric Cantona’s flying kick box.

I don’t know if I feel sorry for those women exactly, probably congratulations in order, mission accomplished, like the Miss World 1970 women.

Reform want to play it mean so I don’t think we should pussy foot round them, they take a misstep every other day. They’ll soon be condemned to the dustbin of history like all FartyFarage’s ventures.

More fool them if they let non members into conference and then show themselves up with reaction. They should employ professional bouncers, especially as Nasty Nige is always whining about being in danger.

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 21:42

Clavinova · 09/09/2026 21:36

John Prescott was a former amateur boxer;

BBC - Ex-boxer Lord Prescott instinctively turned and punched the farming protester, which later earned him the nickname "Two Jabs".

That's interesting but he wasn't as big as the guy who looked about 20 years younger. Besides, smash an egg in someone's face in those days this would definitely happen. The woman at the conference didn't smash an egg in their face and she wasn't muscular like the man who egged Prescott!

Clavinova · 09/09/2026 21:46

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 21:23

How are the actions of the security indicative of the party. Equally, I asked you whether Rachel Reeves mocked them and then worse appear in a sky interview belittling the protestor with a "boo hoo" mockery. As I posted this afternoon even The Telegraph is warning us of the Reform party now, with the article headline, "The violence against anti-Reform protesters should worry us all". The article discusses how this is indicative of its decency with members that behave like that. Tbh it's not a good sign when the Torygraph is writing such pieces!

Tbh it's not a good sign when the Torygraph is writing such pieces!

To be fair, the author is a left-wing feminist at heart.

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 21:47

SevenYellowHammers · 09/09/2026 21:38

I seem to remember his/Labour’s popularity rating went up. Maybe because Blair was still sucking up to Murdoch at that point and the press were kind? Imagine it now. We’d be facing another GE for sure.

I’m guilty of hideous double standards because I was pretty impressed with Prezza whilst tweely saying I didn’t condone violence of course. Same with Eric Cantona’s flying kick box.

I don’t know if I feel sorry for those women exactly, probably congratulations in order, mission accomplished, like the Miss World 1970 women.

Reform want to play it mean so I don’t think we should pussy foot round them, they take a misstep every other day. They’ll soon be condemned to the dustbin of history like all FartyFarage’s ventures.

More fool them if they let non members into conference and then show themselves up with reaction. They should employ professional bouncers, especially as Nasty Nige is always whining about being in danger.

Yes, I mean it was a different time, I think his popularity did go up and he wasn't charged as he claimed self defence. The man who egged him was a Farm worker and 29 at the time!!

In the conference scenario can the person(s) claim self defence? Absolutely not.

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 21:48

Clavinova · 09/09/2026 21:46

Tbh it's not a good sign when the Torygraph is writing such pieces!

To be fair, the author is a left-wing feminist at heart.

Is she, do The Telegraph not know?

TopPocketFind · 09/09/2026 21:49

I find this what about Prescott very strange.

Prescott was wrong to throw a punch.

These Reform supporters were very wrong to assault the women who heckled Farage.

BackToLurk · 09/09/2026 21:51

Clavinova · 09/09/2026 21:14

Are security guards allowed to grab people round the neck, if indeed he is a security guard? Are they allowed to slam people against a wall?

The heckler has said he was removed by security and complained that the police used excessive force. Security guards are employed by the party the police are, well the police. So what does this have to do with reform party members beating a woman?

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 21:51

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 21:47

Yes, I mean it was a different time, I think his popularity did go up and he wasn't charged as he claimed self defence. The man who egged him was a Farm worker and 29 at the time!!

In the conference scenario can the person(s) claim self defence? Absolutely not.

John Prescott was 63 at the time, even if he was a boxer in the past he was more than double the Farm worker's age and an old man (not that 63 is old) in comparison!

TopPocketFind · 09/09/2026 21:53

Clavinova · 09/09/2026 21:46

Tbh it's not a good sign when the Torygraph is writing such pieces!

To be fair, the author is a left-wing feminist at heart.

You mean the author is against violence against women?

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 21:54

TopPocketFind · 09/09/2026 21:53

You mean the author is against violence against women?

Good point!

Raydaye · 09/09/2026 21:55

Error404FucksNotFound · 09/09/2026 06:22

Reform thugs only care about assaults on women if they are carried out by brown men.

Basically this.

YANBU OP, it’s awful . Is this the same event where a woman was assaulted by a man who used his walking stick to hit her?

I can’t believe people are justifying this.

Clavinova · 09/09/2026 21:57

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 21:42

That's interesting but he wasn't as big as the guy who looked about 20 years younger. Besides, smash an egg in someone's face in those days this would definitely happen. The woman at the conference didn't smash an egg in their face and she wasn't muscular like the man who egged Prescott!

That's interesting but he wasn't as big as the guy who looked about 20 years younger

They look fairly matched in size to me;

https://www.dailypost.co.uk/news/north-wales-news/north-wales-man-punched-john-30421343

Man punched by John Prescott speaks for first time after deputy PM's death

Craig Evans from Denbigh has broken his silence on his notorious altercation with Lord Prescott in Rhyl

https://www.dailypost.co.uk/news/north-wales-news/north-wales-man-punched-john-30421343

BackToLurk · 09/09/2026 21:57

Clavinova · 09/09/2026 21:46

Tbh it's not a good sign when the Torygraph is writing such pieces!

To be fair, the author is a left-wing feminist at heart.

Only left wing feminists oppose groups beating up women? Bold take.

Raydaye · 09/09/2026 22:01

Prescott was assaulted by an egg being hurled at him at close range. Might not cause serious injury but still considered assault. Also a middle-aged man punching a strong fit looking younger man in retaliation (albeit a disproportionate retaliation!) isn’t the same as a man hitting a woman. Even if the man in this most recent case was older.

Also this is whataboutery of the highest order. It was ages ago that happened!😂 I was a baby when it did lol well not quite a baby, but in primary school I think.

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 22:01

Clavinova · 09/09/2026 21:57

That's interesting but he wasn't as big as the guy who looked about 20 years younger

They look fairly matched in size to me;

https://www.dailypost.co.uk/news/north-wales-news/north-wales-man-punched-john-30421343

He was a 29 year old Farmworker which you can tell by his forearms. JP was 63 and doesn't look in great shape - it doesn't look an even match at all!

Clavinova · 09/09/2026 22:01

BackToLurk · 09/09/2026 21:51

The heckler has said he was removed by security and complained that the police used excessive force. Security guards are employed by the party the police are, well the police. So what does this have to do with reform party members beating a woman?

The heckler has said he was removed by security

The neck-grabbing man looked more like a steward to me rather than security.

Raydaye · 09/09/2026 22:04

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 21:24

It was though, I bet there is a big proportion of Mumsnet posters that don't even know who he is!

Exactly. I only know because I was the type of kid interested in politics from age 7 so I remember a lot of things my peers don’t.

Swipe left for the next trending thread