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AIBU to want to express support for women who were assaulted at a political conference?

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Warmlight1 · 08/09/2026 21:41

To want to send out support to the two women visibly assaulted at a political conference.
I am concerned about the other protesters too and actually anyone who was hurt. But having to listen to jeering from the podium plus the crowd chanting in live TV at the same time must have been so traumatic and the publicity will die down and coverage move on but that can't be easy. Just want to send love and support.

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LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:54

soddingspiderseason · 09/09/2026 12:52

She was there to exercise her right to free speech. Doesn’t justify the mob attacking her.

This has already been covered.

BackToLurk · 09/09/2026 12:54

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:51

So she was there for that reason then - to provoke? Bravo. We got there.

You’re provoked to violence by people to Reform’s rhetoric?

TopPocketFind · 09/09/2026 12:54

Everanewbie · 09/09/2026 12:49

I have two thoughts at the same time.

This woman pretended to be a Reform member to disrupt their conference and she should not have been there in the first place, and could expect to be physically ejected. No one there wanted to listen to her, she was being self-righteous and self-indulgent.

This woman should not have been struck and received forceful blows, and the way the that she was assaulted was disproportionate. These men and Reform should hold themselves to a higher standard than this, and those who landed blows should face criminal action.

She didn't pretend to be a Reform member, she paid for the membership and had been a member for a few years.

She was at the previous conference to protest and her membership was not taken away. She was also invited by her local Reform leader to discuss getting involved more.

Protesters at party conferences is nothing new.

Being assaulted like that is.

West Midlands Police is now investigating 5 cases of assualt at the Reform conference.

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:55

BackToLurk · 09/09/2026 12:54

You’re provoked to violence by people to Reform’s rhetoric?

What?

napody · 09/09/2026 12:56

TopPocketFind · 09/09/2026 12:54

She didn't pretend to be a Reform member, she paid for the membership and had been a member for a few years.

She was at the previous conference to protest and her membership was not taken away. She was also invited by her local Reform leader to discuss getting involved more.

Protesters at party conferences is nothing new.

Being assaulted like that is.

West Midlands Police is now investigating 5 cases of assualt at the Reform conference.

Fantastic news that they're investigating. So they should.

CreativeGreen · 09/09/2026 12:56

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:54

Well you had to get racist in somehow. Did you forget that? Is that the point she was trying to prove. I thought it was about a certain sum of money that Farage had accepted?

Yes, that's right, they were asking about the £5m. And yes, to be fair, I would be surprised if they didn't also feel, as so many of us do, that Reform are a racist and objectionable party.

But how do you get from that to the idea that I said that it was provocation? We do seem consistently to have a bit of trouble with words and definitions here.

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:57

CreativeGreen · 09/09/2026 12:56

Yes, that's right, they were asking about the £5m. And yes, to be fair, I would be surprised if they didn't also feel, as so many of us do, that Reform are a racist and objectionable party.

But how do you get from that to the idea that I said that it was provocation? We do seem consistently to have a bit of trouble with words and definitions here.

Try being more clear. If you're going to try a gotcha moment, I need to be able to understand your posts.

OneLilacHedgehog · 09/09/2026 12:57

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:54

This has already been covered.

You don't get to silence women in this way.

BackToLurk · 09/09/2026 12:58

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:55

What?

You read “[she was there] to make a very clear objection to the racist and violent rhetoric that Reform are putting out” as “[she was there] to provoke”. That suggests you see clearly objecting to Reform’s rhetoric as a provocation to violence. Maybe you didn’t mean ‘to provoke’.

CreativeGreen · 09/09/2026 12:58

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:57

Try being more clear. If you're going to try a gotcha moment, I need to be able to understand your posts.

I know, but the problem is you don't seem to be able to. I'm not sure that's a me problem.

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:58

OneLilacHedgehog · 09/09/2026 12:57

You don't get to silence women in this way.

Haha do you mean to be so ironic!! 😅

beeble347 · 09/09/2026 12:58

Isn't it funny how the same people (rightly) complaining about Zach Polanski reposting that slideshow with a t-shirt of Nigel Farage and a guillotine (if I remember the exact detail correctly) think it's fine to beat a woman?

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:59

CreativeGreen · 09/09/2026 12:58

I know, but the problem is you don't seem to be able to. I'm not sure that's a me problem.

Well there you go.

Everanewbie · 09/09/2026 12:59

TopPocketFind · 09/09/2026 12:54

She didn't pretend to be a Reform member, she paid for the membership and had been a member for a few years.

She was at the previous conference to protest and her membership was not taken away. She was also invited by her local Reform leader to discuss getting involved more.

Protesters at party conferences is nothing new.

Being assaulted like that is.

West Midlands Police is now investigating 5 cases of assualt at the Reform conference.

Ah that is news to me. So she is actually a disgruntled but genuine reform supporter? Or do you mean that she is a repeat protester that the Reform admin forgot to expel?

BackToLurk · 09/09/2026 12:59

beeble347 · 09/09/2026 12:58

Isn't it funny how the same people (rightly) complaining about Zach Polanski reposting that slideshow with a t-shirt of Nigel Farage and a guillotine (if I remember the exact detail correctly) think it's fine to beat a woman?

T-shirts, bad. Beating women, good.

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 13:00

Everanewbie · 09/09/2026 12:59

Ah that is news to me. So she is actually a disgruntled but genuine reform supporter? Or do you mean that she is a repeat protester that the Reform admin forgot to expel?

If you watch her bragging about her tactics, you will see what she actually says.

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 13:01

Not one person has said beating women is good.

BendoftheBeginning · 09/09/2026 13:02

BackToLurk · 09/09/2026 12:53

And Reform supporters could also have made that argument. However, they’ve opted for variations of “what did she expect/she was asking for it”.

Ironically, the grooming gang men would also say that they care deeply for the wellbeing of the “right type of woman.” But for women they don’t approve of, they believe that righteous people like themselves can do whatever they want to them.

The parallels with what happened at the Refrom conference are pretty clear. Reform has no issue with beating up the “wrong type of woman.” And that was in public! Imagine what happens in private.

BIossomtoes · 09/09/2026 13:02

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Boppydoodah · 09/09/2026 13:02

hattie43 · 09/09/2026 06:06

Well here’s the thing . Don’t disrupt and enrage people and the chances are you won’t get your hair pulled .

Yikes 😬 I work in the DV sphere, do you know how many violent men use exactly these words to excuse themselves for beating the shit out of their partners and kids?

"You just make me so crazy, why'd you have to do that, you just pushed me too far, I wouldn't hurt you if you didn't make me, it's your fault" ... you sound just like them.

shhhh2025 · 09/09/2026 13:04

hattie43 · 09/09/2026 06:06

Well here’s the thing . Don’t disrupt and enrage people and the chances are you won’t get your hair pulled .

It’s not “the thing” though is it ? Are you a bit of a thicko?

Everanewbie · 09/09/2026 13:04

BackToLurk · 09/09/2026 12:59

T-shirts, bad. Beating women, good.

Both awful. From a voter perspective though, it supports my personal conclusions. Zach Polanski is a juvenile graduate of sixth form politics. I agree with most of what Farage and Tice say, but their wider movement just seems to whiff of thuggery that they can't shake.

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 13:05

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:21

Where have I said men should hit women?

This is just a response that deflects from the very serious matter that is being discussed, how that relates to Reform principles and as a party as the Telegraph has pointed out that this party is "not a decent party for decent people". No ifs not buts, this violence against a woman from a man and then Jenerick belittling her with his "Boo Hoo" comment in his Sky News interview, clearly indicates a terrible set of values, a worrying set of values!

TopPocketFind · 09/09/2026 13:06

Everanewbie · 09/09/2026 12:59

Ah that is news to me. So she is actually a disgruntled but genuine reform supporter? Or do you mean that she is a repeat protester that the Reform admin forgot to expel?

Not a Reform supporter but a paid up Reform member.

And yes she has done this before, Reform had her badge and membership number but didn't expel her.

She gave a interview with LBC, it's on youtube.

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 13:07

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Why should I stop posting, because you say so. Sorry, it doesn't work like that. Thanks for showing me who you are though.

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