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To ask why the England team (the men) keep falling at the final hurdle, (well virtually at the final hurdle,) at the football World Cup ... and The Euros too?

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GorgeousSpringtime · 16/07/2026 08:58

Not an England-team bashing thread, but why, oh WHY do they - the men - keep falling at the final hurdle (well, virtually the final hurdle,) every time at the football (soccer) World Cup - and the Euro Cup too...?

They do so well, and get so far, and then BANG they're out. Nearly always in the top 8, or top 4, (and the top 2, in the World Cup once, and a couple of times in the Euros I think,) but never the winner. (Not since 1966 anyway!)

Is it nerves? Is it that they're so anxious to win that they keep making silly mistakes? Are they just not quite good enough? WHAT IS IT? Why do they keep getting so close, but just never manage to get the win?!

As I said, I am not bashing them, and they did well, and I am proud of them, but I just get so frustrated that they can't quite ever get the win!

!

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EasternStandard · Yesterday 11:39

Speakeasier · Yesterday 10:53

Yes I agree. There’s a good chance we could have won. His tactics after the goal didn’t just neutralise our threat they actively played into the Argentinian team’s hands giving them a huge amount of space that Messi was able to exploit.

Yes just so disappointing for him to do that. The players must be feeling it badly.

Gloriia · Yesterday 11:59

Velumental · Yesterday 10:27

Yeah. But not good enough to win the tournament. It's not rocket science

If you're in the semis you're enough to win. I'm no footie expert but even I can see a lot of it comes down to luck as well as technique. It's not rocket science. France didn't get through, they were good enough to win too.

Did you support England out of interest? Grin

GasPanic · Yesterday 12:09

Speakeasier · Yesterday 10:39

Have you not learnt that two things can be true at once. It’s an important skill in critical thinking.

I think the Argies have systematically cheated in this tournament. I haven’t seen all of their matches but the off the ball stuff like just barging into our players like Bellingham and Kane with no ball near them in order to rile them up and lose their concentration is absolutely calculated. Also the rolling around is an unfortunate part of football but they do it on an industrial scale, which I find really obnoxious and isn’t what you’d hope to see with great champions. Their game against Egypt was another case in point where they were extremely lucky to go through and the officiating was a big part of enabling this.

Messi is not some hero he is a tax dodger who only went to the US from Spain because he was sulking that the case went against him. When you are a multi, multi millionaire there’s no excuse for tax dodging.

Having said all that from a playing perspective they completely deserved to beat England. We weren’t outfought but we were outthought and ultimately outplayed. Largely because the manager’s tactics completely played into the Argentine hands. But fair enough from a footballing point of view they deserved that place in the final. But class? Do me a favour.

Oh and the football is coming home song for the ultimate time is not about thinking you’re the best it’s the total opposite.

I think in a lot of South American countries, the so called "Dark Arts"/ gamesmanship and pushing the rules to the limits are viewed in a different way than they are in Europe - as part of the game and a legitimate strategy to win rather than something to be abhorred.

Funnily enough I think the European game is increasingly becoming about gamesmanship - probably largely due to the financial stakes involved.

Speakeasier · Yesterday 12:20

GasPanic · Yesterday 12:09

I think in a lot of South American countries, the so called "Dark Arts"/ gamesmanship and pushing the rules to the limits are viewed in a different way than they are in Europe - as part of the game and a legitimate strategy to win rather than something to be abhorred.

Funnily enough I think the European game is increasingly becoming about gamesmanship - probably largely due to the financial stakes involved.

Yes but this is an international competition so should be played to global rules. There are cameras everywhere. The ref. could have been informed about the barging off the ball by the fourth official or the VAR team, some of it happened in front of the ref. They should have had a warning and then been booked for the next offence. Guess what team’s player was booked first???

I loathe the dark arts in English football too. Unfortunately they tend to benefit the bigger clubs who tend to get the balance of the decisions so there’s no incentive to crack down on it.

GorgeousSpringtime · Yesterday 12:30

Gloriia · Yesterday 11:59

If you're in the semis you're enough to win. I'm no footie expert but even I can see a lot of it comes down to luck as well as technique. It's not rocket science. France didn't get through, they were good enough to win too.

Did you support England out of interest? Grin

Agree @Gloriia

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ComeOnEngland12 · Yesterday 12:34

EasternStandard · 16/07/2026 10:19

Horrible isn’t it. To be that talented, young and carrying the team and you still get posts like that one from the pp.

In addition to the clip posted re Jude being the only one to stop and talk to the disabled journalist I've since seen endless clips of him offering/ giving his blankets and jackets up to the children he's been assigned and constant interaction with them. .he is extremely engaged and sees them.

Piglet89 · Yesterday 12:34

GasPanic · Yesterday 12:09

I think in a lot of South American countries, the so called "Dark Arts"/ gamesmanship and pushing the rules to the limits are viewed in a different way than they are in Europe - as part of the game and a legitimate strategy to win rather than something to be abhorred.

Funnily enough I think the European game is increasingly becoming about gamesmanship - probably largely due to the financial stakes involved.

@GasPanicmy husband was saying almost exactly the same about SA countries this morning.

ComeOnEngland12 · Yesterday 12:36

Yes how other cultures do things is interesting and what accepted and what isnt

GorgeousSpringtime · Yesterday 12:39

I do blame Tuchel a bit for the loss too (as many others on here do.)

I do wonder, deep down, if these Non English managers deliberately stop England from winning. Tuchel is bloody German. Why would he have the best interests of the England team at heart?

Sven Goran Erikkson is Swedish.

Fabio Capello is Italian.

Maybe I'm just chatting shit, and spouting wild conspiracy theories.

Maybe not.

I do not want another non English manager for the England team.

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Velumental · Yesterday 12:41

GorgeousSpringtime · Yesterday 12:39

I do blame Tuchel a bit for the loss too (as many others on here do.)

I do wonder, deep down, if these Non English managers deliberately stop England from winning. Tuchel is bloody German. Why would he have the best interests of the England team at heart?

Sven Goran Erikkson is Swedish.

Fabio Capello is Italian.

Maybe I'm just chatting shit, and spouting wild conspiracy theories.

Maybe not.

I do not want another non English manager for the England team.

That's hilariously english

Cherrytree86 · Yesterday 12:42

Gloriia · Yesterday 11:59

If you're in the semis you're enough to win. I'm no footie expert but even I can see a lot of it comes down to luck as well as technique. It's not rocket science. France didn't get through, they were good enough to win too.

Did you support England out of interest? Grin

@Gloriia

i can support England and could see they are not good enough to win. It’s just reality 🤷‍♀️
they could do with some lessons from the women’s team I think…now they are winners

Gloriia · Yesterday 12:47

Velumental · Yesterday 12:41

That's hilariously english

You don't seem keen on anything English. Did you support the England team? I'm thinking not.

ComeOnEngland12 · Yesterday 12:50

Cobrakainerd · Yesterday 11:03

Now there is extensive video, VAR, all angles of the pitch covered there could be a retrospective appraisal by VAR panels and a either rematch ordered or awarded to opposition in the light of cheating, nasty, unsportsmanlike behaviour. Retrospective cards or bans as well. If they knew that barging players off the ball was going to cost them the match they'd be less inclined to do it.

Agree.
I've now seen the two videos of Messi stamping on spences foot and then Anderson's head punch.
Decisons have to be consistent. Can one referee really see all the fouls and make honest desicons with so many hits and kicks coming thick and fast?

Gloriia · Yesterday 12:50

GorgeousSpringtime · Yesterday 12:39

I do blame Tuchel a bit for the loss too (as many others on here do.)

I do wonder, deep down, if these Non English managers deliberately stop England from winning. Tuchel is bloody German. Why would he have the best interests of the England team at heart?

Sven Goran Erikkson is Swedish.

Fabio Capello is Italian.

Maybe I'm just chatting shit, and spouting wild conspiracy theories.

Maybe not.

I do not want another non English manager for the England team.

Surely it's all about the money and the potential success. If there was any loyalty involved there wouldn't be any argies playing in English premier teams.

GorgeousSpringtime · Yesterday 13:13

Gloriia · Yesterday 12:50

Surely it's all about the money and the potential success. If there was any loyalty involved there wouldn't be any argies playing in English premier teams.

Hmmmm, maybe.

Or maybe the Argentinians play for the England teams to make sure they don't win!

I am defo down a conspiracy theory hole now. 😆

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Velumental · Yesterday 13:15

Gloriia · Yesterday 12:47

You don't seem keen on anything English. Did you support the England team? I'm thinking not.

Edited

Oh England didn't win the football tournament... Which non English person can we blame 😂 while lamenting 'why didn't they won't when it's quite clear they didn't win because the other team beat them. So bizarre.

Gloriia · Yesterday 13:19

Velumental · Yesterday 13:15

Oh England didn't win the football tournament... Which non English person can we blame 😂 while lamenting 'why didn't they won't when it's quite clear they didn't win because the other team beat them. So bizarre.

One person said one thing yet you said 'how typically English'? Isn't making negative sweeping statements based on nationality xenophobia?

Who did you want to win on Wed night? I bet I know the answer.

Velumental · Yesterday 13:23

Gloriia · Yesterday 13:19

One person said one thing yet you said 'how typically English'? Isn't making negative sweeping statements based on nationality xenophobia?

Who did you want to win on Wed night? I bet I know the answer.

I couldn't give 2 boots who wins to be honest 😂 I actually really dislike football. I find the level of buying into the hysteria quite mad. I wouldn't even have known who was playing if it wasn't for posts online.

What has been interesting is some of the lovely stuff I've seen like Norway's rowing and Scotland putting cones on statues, noone else who has lost seems to be such sore losers as the England team. As I say I'm just going by online coverage but it has been amusing.

I love how you're accusing me of xenophobia for responding to a post listing every non English person I volved in the England team to blame them in some way while deciding it's all a big co spiracy theory. Wild.

Gloriia · Yesterday 13:25

Velumental · Yesterday 13:23

I couldn't give 2 boots who wins to be honest 😂 I actually really dislike football. I find the level of buying into the hysteria quite mad. I wouldn't even have known who was playing if it wasn't for posts online.

What has been interesting is some of the lovely stuff I've seen like Norway's rowing and Scotland putting cones on statues, noone else who has lost seems to be such sore losers as the England team. As I say I'm just going by online coverage but it has been amusing.

I love how you're accusing me of xenophobia for responding to a post listing every non English person I volved in the England team to blame them in some way while deciding it's all a big co spiracy theory. Wild.

Yeah right.

Gloriia · Yesterday 13:27

'What has been interesting is some of the lovely stuff I've seen like Norway's rowing'

Norway and England supporters definitely showed class and dignity in defeat though I agree.

Velumental · Yesterday 13:27

Gloriia · Yesterday 13:25

Yeah right.

Meaning?

I find the way men react to 'their team's winning or losing absolutely nuts, most women I actually thought were too sensible to enter into this nonsense.

Velumental · Yesterday 13:27

Gloriia · Yesterday 13:27

'What has been interesting is some of the lovely stuff I've seen like Norway's rowing'

Norway and England supporters definitely showed class and dignity in defeat though I agree.

In what way did England? I've not seen footage

Gloriia · Yesterday 13:34

Velumental · Yesterday 13:27

Meaning?

I find the way men react to 'their team's winning or losing absolutely nuts, most women I actually thought were too sensible to enter into this nonsense.

I find the way some people react to other team's progress nuts too when their own team couldnt get out of the group stages. Did you see many scots supporting the argies for example? Nothing 'lovely' about that.

Doubtanny · Yesterday 13:34

mindymoo11 · Yesterday 00:50

Haaland is a Nepo baby. His dad played for Man City.

The same as Wayne rooney's son has just been signed to play professional football

😂😂😂😂

GorgeousSpringtime · Yesterday 13:38

Gloriia · Yesterday 13:34

I find the way some people react to other team's progress nuts too when their own team couldnt get out of the group stages. Did you see many scots supporting the argies for example? Nothing 'lovely' about that.

This. ^ It's only when anyone supports the ENGLISH that some people seem to have a problem though, and particularly if it's an ENGLISH person doing it! 😱

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