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To ask why the England team (the men) keep falling at the final hurdle, (well virtually at the final hurdle,) at the football World Cup ... and The Euros too?

609 replies

GorgeousSpringtime · 16/07/2026 08:58

Not an England-team bashing thread, but why, oh WHY do they - the men - keep falling at the final hurdle (well, virtually the final hurdle,) every time at the football (soccer) World Cup - and the Euro Cup too...?

They do so well, and get so far, and then BANG they're out. Nearly always in the top 8, or top 4, (and the top 2, in the World Cup once, and a couple of times in the Euros I think,) but never the winner. (Not since 1966 anyway!)

Is it nerves? Is it that they're so anxious to win that they keep making silly mistakes? Are they just not quite good enough? WHAT IS IT? Why do they keep getting so close, but just never manage to get the win?!

As I said, I am not bashing them, and they did well, and I am proud of them, but I just get so frustrated that they can't quite ever get the win!

!

OP posts:
malificent7 · Yesterday 13:42

Ultimately Argentina were the better side. Hated all the fous though. It was an ugly matvh.
Latin people have the weather, physique and temerament to win.

malificent7 · Yesterday 13:43

Temperament*

Gloriia · Yesterday 13:44

GorgeousSpringtime · Yesterday 13:38

This. ^ It's only when anyone supports the ENGLISH that some people seem to have a problem though, and particularly if it's an ENGLISH person doing it! 😱

Can you imagine if scotland had progressed there is no way English people would have ever have supported Argentina. We have such loyalty for all home nations it is sad to see how full of bile some scots, welsh and irish are. Oh but hang on some of the English did bad things centuries ago, hence the hate. The argies invaded a British country causing the deaths of many service people much more recently but hey, what's wrong with that!

mindymoo11 · Yesterday 14:22

Speakeasier · Yesterday 12:20

Yes but this is an international competition so should be played to global rules. There are cameras everywhere. The ref. could have been informed about the barging off the ball by the fourth official or the VAR team, some of it happened in front of the ref. They should have had a warning and then been booked for the next offence. Guess what team’s player was booked first???

I loathe the dark arts in English football too. Unfortunately they tend to benefit the bigger clubs who tend to get the balance of the decisions so there’s no incentive to crack down on it.

the ref did see it. He was on argentina's side.

I was reading articles about the referee. Apparantly Messi has never lost when this referee has been in a match. He is nicknames as 'Mess's favourite referee'

mindymoo11 · Yesterday 14:23

Gloriia · Yesterday 13:44

Can you imagine if scotland had progressed there is no way English people would have ever have supported Argentina. We have such loyalty for all home nations it is sad to see how full of bile some scots, welsh and irish are. Oh but hang on some of the English did bad things centuries ago, hence the hate. The argies invaded a British country causing the deaths of many service people much more recently but hey, what's wrong with that!

Oh I definitely think many English people would have supported Argentina in that case!

Ireland is not a home nation by the way. Northern Ireland (the bit that the UK took from the rest of Ireland) is listed as a home nation. Best to get that right

QuintadosMalvados · Yesterday 14:26

GorgeousSpringtime · Yesterday 12:39

I do blame Tuchel a bit for the loss too (as many others on here do.)

I do wonder, deep down, if these Non English managers deliberately stop England from winning. Tuchel is bloody German. Why would he have the best interests of the England team at heart?

Sven Goran Erikkson is Swedish.

Fabio Capello is Italian.

Maybe I'm just chatting shit, and spouting wild conspiracy theories.

Maybe not.

I do not want another non English manager for the England team.

We bombed his gran's house in Dresden during WW2. 😁 That's what's behind it all.

(joke. Honest.)

mindymoo11 · Yesterday 14:26

Gloriia · Yesterday 13:44

Can you imagine if scotland had progressed there is no way English people would have ever have supported Argentina. We have such loyalty for all home nations it is sad to see how full of bile some scots, welsh and irish are. Oh but hang on some of the English did bad things centuries ago, hence the hate. The argies invaded a British country causing the deaths of many service people much more recently but hey, what's wrong with that!

'How full of bile some Irish are'

Sigh. I have an Irish father. I lived in Ireland for a while.

The devastation and damage that the U.K caused in Ireland still affects people to this day.

A lot of Irish (Republic) people will not be supporting England in football. That's understandable.

Would you expect the Ukraine to support Russia in sport?

Gloriia · Yesterday 14:27

mindymoo11 · Yesterday 14:23

Oh I definitely think many English people would have supported Argentina in that case!

Ireland is not a home nation by the way. Northern Ireland (the bit that the UK took from the rest of Ireland) is listed as a home nation. Best to get that right

Oh fgs Northern Ireland, you knew what I meant, yes? There are plenty of unionists in Northern Ireland it's not all the Evil Brits to blame.

mindymoo11 · Yesterday 14:29

Gloriia · Yesterday 14:27

Oh fgs Northern Ireland, you knew what I meant, yes? There are plenty of unionists in Northern Ireland it's not all the Evil Brits to blame.

No it's not all evil Brits to blame. It's also not the current English people's fault what happened.

However, a lot of bad things happened and people remember. A lot of them are not going to support England in football. Why would they.

Ans also why do you want them to? Isn't it enough that English people support England?

Gloriia · Yesterday 14:30

'The devastation and damage that the U.K caused in Ireland still affects people to this day'
Ancient history, unlike the Falklands war which was a bit more recent.

JHound · Yesterday 14:30

DuncinToffee · 16/07/2026 15:15

England were holding on to dear life at the end of that match and that was against 10 men and no real star player.

You can't do that against a better side.

I thought it was England who were down to ten men in the match against Mexico?

Gloriia · Yesterday 14:31

mindymoo11 · Yesterday 14:29

No it's not all evil Brits to blame. It's also not the current English people's fault what happened.

However, a lot of bad things happened and people remember. A lot of them are not going to support England in football. Why would they.

Ans also why do you want them to? Isn't it enough that English people support England?

They can support whomever they like. Some scots buying a different shirt for whomever England was playing was a bit pathetic though. They must have quite a collection.

mindymoo11 · Yesterday 14:32

Gloriia · Yesterday 14:30

'The devastation and damage that the U.K caused in Ireland still affects people to this day'
Ancient history, unlike the Falklands war which was a bit more recent.

Ancient? It's very recent. It's actually still ongoing as many people in the island of Ireland believe that the U.K. is occupying Northern Ireland. They want Northern Ireland back. They want a united Ireland

JHound · Yesterday 14:33

mindymoo11 · 16/07/2026 15:24

People don't forget rivalries and grudges though. That's humans!

I mean I can't see Ukraine supporting Russia in sport any time soon

I mean choosing not to support either side playing is also possible

mindymoo11 · Yesterday 14:37

Gloriia · Yesterday 14:30

'The devastation and damage that the U.K caused in Ireland still affects people to this day'
Ancient history, unlike the Falklands war which was a bit more recent.

How is it ancient Gloria when the war in Northern Ireland went on until 1998.

The Falklands war was in the early 1980s

DuncinToffee · Yesterday 14:40

JHound · Yesterday 14:30

I thought it was England who were down to ten men in the match against Mexico?

It was, oops.

England were heroic in their defending that match but a better team would have unlocked that.

But yes, it was a 10 men England standing strong.

mindymoo11 · Yesterday 14:40

Gloriia · Yesterday 14:30

'The devastation and damage that the U.K caused in Ireland still affects people to this day'
Ancient history, unlike the Falklands war which was a bit more recent.

It never fails to surprise me at how little some English people know about the conflict between the U.K and Ireland.

As they say, history is rewritten by the more powerful country.

I know a Russian woman. She says that the Russian Governement are telling them that the war is all Ukraine's fault and they have to protect themselves from the Ukraine etc.

Actual Truth - Russia is the main attacker and aggressor in the war

Piglet89 · Yesterday 15:06

mindymoo11 · Yesterday 14:26

'How full of bile some Irish are'

Sigh. I have an Irish father. I lived in Ireland for a while.

The devastation and damage that the U.K caused in Ireland still affects people to this day.

A lot of Irish (Republic) people will not be supporting England in football. That's understandable.

Would you expect the Ukraine to support Russia in sport?

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“I lived in Ireland for a while”.

Um, OK. I AM ACTUALLY a Northern Irish Catholic. I lived in Northern Ireland from birth until 1999 when I came to study in England. As I say: I have no problem cheering for England if Ireland isn’t playing against them because I’m not a bitter, small-minded person who can’t forgive (if not forget) the wrongs of the past and move on.

England has worked hard (particularly under Southgate) to improve World Cup performance. I see the people, not the nationality.

Piglet89 · Yesterday 15:09

mindymoo11 · Yesterday 14:37

How is it ancient Gloria when the war in Northern Ireland went on until 1998.

The Falklands war was in the early 1980s

@mindymoo11the GF Agreement was signed in 1998 but the Omagh bombing and other atrocities happened after that. It didn’t end in 1998, by any means.

A bit rich to berate other posters about their lack of knowledge of Irish history when you don’t seem to know it in any great depth yourself.

mindymoo11 · Yesterday 15:13

Piglet89 · Yesterday 15:09

@mindymoo11the GF Agreement was signed in 1998 but the Omagh bombing and other atrocities happened after that. It didn’t end in 1998, by any means.

A bit rich to berate other posters about their lack of knowledge of Irish history when you don’t seem to know it in any great depth yourself.

I was talking about the Good Friday agreement.

I certainly know about the Omagh bombing - seeing as I was on holiday in Northern Ireland when it happened. I remember that they brought victims of the bombing to the hospital in the town that I was in.

I definitely know a lot more than Gloriia who decribed the UK/Ireland history as ancient History! Shocking

She described the Falklands war (1980s) as more recent than the UK/Ireland conflict. Totally incorrect.

Piglet89 · Yesterday 15:18

mindymoo11 · Yesterday 15:13

I was talking about the Good Friday agreement.

I certainly know about the Omagh bombing - seeing as I was on holiday in Northern Ireland when it happened. I remember that they brought victims of the bombing to the hospital in the town that I was in.

I definitely know a lot more than Gloriia who decribed the UK/Ireland history as ancient History! Shocking

She described the Falklands war (1980s) as more recent than the UK/Ireland conflict. Totally incorrect.

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You may have thought you meant the GF Agreement - but what you actually SAID was the war went on until 1998. The GF agreement’s signing and violence ending (ie end of the war, as you term it) happened at two different times, as you yourself recognise.

However, there is nothing someone who’s grown up in 80s West Belfast (and actually LIVED that) loves more though than some person with an Irish parent (but who wasn’t actually born there) telling them how it is, though - because they were on holiday in NI when the Omagh bomb happened. 👏 🙄

Not at all patronising.

EasternStandard · Yesterday 15:21

I liked Tuchel up until this point but his DNA comment annoyed me. We could have won without his changes.

mindymoo11 · Yesterday 15:22

Piglet89 · Yesterday 15:18

You may have thought you meant the GF Agreement - but what you actually SAID was the war went on until 1998. The GF agreement’s signing and violence ending (ie end of the war, as you term it) happened at two different times, as you yourself recognise.

However, there is nothing someone who’s grown up in 80s West Belfast (and actually LIVED that) loves more though than some person with an Irish parent (but who wasn’t actually born there) telling them how it is, though - because they were on holiday in NI when the Omagh bomb happened. 👏 🙄

Not at all patronising.

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You dont' know anything about anyone on here. Just because I haven't given you every detail of my life, you think you know everything. You're the patronising one. I lived in the republic of Ireland for 20 years. I lived in Northern Ireland for two years during the height of the troubles.

I moved around like you did. you said that you moved to England.

You wrote 'I've actually lived there'. Like no one else could have lived in Northern Ireland. Lots of people have lived there.

I've lived in Northern Ireland during the troubles too. I remember the bombs and the soldiers on the streets. You are not the only one who knows what it was like.

Grow up

hourglass2 · Yesterday 15:23

EasternStandard · Yesterday 15:21

I liked Tuchel up until this point but his DNA comment annoyed me. We could have won without his changes.

Yeah that pissed me off too

Piglet89 · Yesterday 15:26

mindymoo11 · Yesterday 15:22

You dont' know anything about anyone on here. Just because I haven't given you every detail of my life, you think you know everything. You're the patronising one. I lived in the republic of Ireland for 20 years. I lived in Northern Ireland for two years during the height of the troubles.

I moved around like you did. you said that you moved to England.

You wrote 'I've actually lived there'. Like no one else could have lived in Northern Ireland. Lots of people have lived there.

I've lived in Northern Ireland during the troubles too. I remember the bombs and the soldiers on the streets. You are not the only one who knows what it was like.

Grow up

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”Grow up”.

Brilliant riposte.

The most hilarious thing is you don’t actually realise how offensive you are.

Mind you, what can one really expect from someone who apparently cannot understand the fact footballers’ pay is determined by economics.

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