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AIBU to ask whether the death penalty should apply for certain crimes in the UK?

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PenelopeJoanSterling · 13/07/2026 23:04

Because the topics got mixed up on my previous thread i thought id ask here, for certain types of crime in the uk, would you be either for or against the death penalty for certain crimes and why ?

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Backedoffhackedoff · 14/07/2026 11:34

Frequency · 14/07/2026 11:22

It seems to work well for Norway and other Scandinavian countries, but yet again, the consensus seems to be that the UK should aim for a race to the bottom instead of spending money to improve things for the majority.

But also what’s being lost in this conversation is that we are not appreciating that the uk is a relatively low crime country

which brings me back to, what’s good enough? I can promise, if we were Norway, we would still be talking about whether we should kill murderers. The conversation isn’t related to levels of crime, just it’s mere existence

ToWhitToWhoo · 14/07/2026 11:39

ThatJadeLion · 14/07/2026 11:25

I don't have much sympathy for the close family of the Southport murderer, no. Generally if people commit the most depraved, sadistic, evil acts you can imagine, they need to be gone for good.

For example, I believe this should extend to paedophiles particularly where the victim is a prepubescent girl or boy. The trauma for the victim can last a lifetime. Absolutely get rid, there is no rehabilitation. Just at least one wrecked life and out on the streets again after a few years.

That would just be an incentive for paedophiles to murder their victims, as it would reduce their risk of being caught and the potential punishment would be no worse.

ThatJadeLion · 14/07/2026 11:39

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Small world we live in. There was more than one victim. I don't want to talk about specific cases, my post was in reply to another poster who DID want to talk specifically about this case. "Violently vengeful" ... no dear.

NarnianQueen · 14/07/2026 11:41

I always used to be against it because of the possibility of error.

Maybe I’ve become more jaded, but now I think, if guilt is absolutely certain for some of the most heinous crimes, then yes.

Some people have done things so evil they have forfeited the right to remain part of society.

The recent case of a baby being abused to death via oral rape springs to mind. I’d find it hard to justify keeping that person alive just to avoid “murdering” them. You’re removing a cancer from humanity.

There’s also a theory (and I’m sure someone here will debunk it) that western civilisation IS as polite and peaceable as it is (relatively speaking) BECAUSE there was a period of time where fairly minor crimes carried death penalties.

NarnianQueen · 14/07/2026 11:42

ToWhitToWhoo · 14/07/2026 11:39

That would just be an incentive for paedophiles to murder their victims, as it would reduce their risk of being caught and the potential punishment would be no worse.

As opposed to the current situation where no paedophiles ever murder their victims?!

OtterlyAstounding · 14/07/2026 11:43

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 14/07/2026 11:32

I don't have much sympathy for the close family of the Southport murderer, no

Well this much was self-evident given that you stated your sympathy for bereaved families then immediately agitated for needlessly creating another bereaved family.

The rest of your post is just typical of the mindless "string them up" vindictive drivel common to these threads.

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I imagine that many criminals' parents are devastated and heartbroken that their children are incarcerated at all, so I'm not sure that the feelings of a criminal's family should really be taken into account.

Personally, however, if my child went on a stabbing spree murdering small girls, I think (devastation and horror aside) I'd feel as though it was my responsibility to remove from the world what I'd brought into it. I'm not sure I'd be comforted by knowing my murderous child would be spending decades locked away in prison, where he could hurt guards, or be hurt by other prisoners. That would just be awful in a multitude of ways.

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/07/2026 11:43

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ThatJadeLion · 14/07/2026 11:45

NarnianQueen · 14/07/2026 11:41

I always used to be against it because of the possibility of error.

Maybe I’ve become more jaded, but now I think, if guilt is absolutely certain for some of the most heinous crimes, then yes.

Some people have done things so evil they have forfeited the right to remain part of society.

The recent case of a baby being abused to death via oral rape springs to mind. I’d find it hard to justify keeping that person alive just to avoid “murdering” them. You’re removing a cancer from humanity.

There’s also a theory (and I’m sure someone here will debunk it) that western civilisation IS as polite and peaceable as it is (relatively speaking) BECAUSE there was a period of time where fairly minor crimes carried death penalties.

Absolutely all of this.

OtterlyAstounding · 14/07/2026 11:45

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One could argue it's violent, but it's not necessarily vengeful. It could simply be utilitarian.

ToWhitToWhoo · 14/07/2026 11:46

NarnianQueen · 14/07/2026 11:42

As opposed to the current situation where no paedophiles ever murder their victims?!

No reason to increase the number.

BillieWiper · 14/07/2026 11:46

No. There's too many cases of innocent people being killed on death row.

Living in prison for the rest of your life in solitary confinement is worse punishment than death anyway. Look at people like Huntley. Constantly trying to commit suicide so he got what he wanted? That's not really justice either is it?

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/07/2026 11:47

OtterlyAstounding · 14/07/2026 11:43

I imagine that many criminals' parents are devastated and heartbroken that their children are incarcerated at all, so I'm not sure that the feelings of a criminal's family should really be taken into account.

Personally, however, if my child went on a stabbing spree murdering small girls, I think (devastation and horror aside) I'd feel as though it was my responsibility to remove from the world what I'd brought into it. I'm not sure I'd be comforted by knowing my murderous child would be spending decades locked away in prison, where he could hurt guards, or be hurt by other prisoners. That would just be awful in a multitude of ways.

“I'd feel as though it was my responsibility to remove from the world what I'd brought into it. I'm not sure I'd be comforted by knowing my murderous child would be spending decades locked away in prison, where he could hurt guards, or be hurt by other prisoners.”

I find this utterly bizarrre. I don’t actually think it’s true (although I can imagine you firmly think it is) what kind of parent wants to kill their child because they’ve killed?

this never happens in real life so it’s not something people in this situation seem to think

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/07/2026 11:48

OtterlyAstounding · 14/07/2026 11:45

One could argue it's violent, but it's not necessarily vengeful. It could simply be utilitarian.

If it’s not vengeful why are you doing it for the victims families?

AlwaysExtraHot · 14/07/2026 11:51

PenelopeJoanSterling · 13/07/2026 23:22

they were designed for secret weapons development projects so yes they did do well

But you're talking about adapting the principle for penal purposes.

OtterlyAstounding · 14/07/2026 11:52

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/07/2026 11:48

If it’s not vengeful why are you doing it for the victims families?

Did that poster say it should be done for the families? Or just add that their thoughts were with the families?

OtterlyAstounding · 14/07/2026 12:00

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/07/2026 11:47

“I'd feel as though it was my responsibility to remove from the world what I'd brought into it. I'm not sure I'd be comforted by knowing my murderous child would be spending decades locked away in prison, where he could hurt guards, or be hurt by other prisoners.”

I find this utterly bizarrre. I don’t actually think it’s true (although I can imagine you firmly think it is) what kind of parent wants to kill their child because they’ve killed?

this never happens in real life so it’s not something people in this situation seem to think

Why is it bizarre? As a parent, would you not feel responsible in a way, for the deaths your child caused? That you brought that harm into the world? That potentially, it was your failure in parenting somewhere that made them turn out that way? If they were a serial rapist, or a serial killer, or a mass murderer, would you not rather blot them out, than have them live some twisted, embittered life in prison, believing that they were justified in their actions?

Personally, I would still love my child, but I would prefer that they died than that they continued to exist as some hate-filled rapist/murderer, locked away for decades and decades. Either way, it would be devastating, though, and difficult to live with.

But then I'm autistic, and I'm often told my takes on things are 'strange'.

Minasama · 14/07/2026 12:00

Personally I would favour it for murderers and paedophimes but it is not the mark of a civilised society and the risk is you get the wrong person. Although that is less likely given the strength and accuracy of forensic evidence these days.

I feel that the Pakistani rape gang participants, the killers of baby Preston, the Nottinghamshire killer, the father of Sara Sharif really don’t deserve anything but to die and I would happily be the executioner as it would make our society so much better. Until there was a case where the wrong person was killed.

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/07/2026 12:05

OtterlyAstounding · 14/07/2026 12:00

Why is it bizarre? As a parent, would you not feel responsible in a way, for the deaths your child caused? That you brought that harm into the world? That potentially, it was your failure in parenting somewhere that made them turn out that way? If they were a serial rapist, or a serial killer, or a mass murderer, would you not rather blot them out, than have them live some twisted, embittered life in prison, believing that they were justified in their actions?

Personally, I would still love my child, but I would prefer that they died than that they continued to exist as some hate-filled rapist/murderer, locked away for decades and decades. Either way, it would be devastating, though, and difficult to live with.

But then I'm autistic, and I'm often told my takes on things are 'strange'.

Yes saying you’d want to kill your son for being a murderer or rapist is really strange (and if you actually did this, everyone would be saying “well that’s why her son is a murderer then”)

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/07/2026 12:06

Minasama · 14/07/2026 12:00

Personally I would favour it for murderers and paedophimes but it is not the mark of a civilised society and the risk is you get the wrong person. Although that is less likely given the strength and accuracy of forensic evidence these days.

I feel that the Pakistani rape gang participants, the killers of baby Preston, the Nottinghamshire killer, the father of Sara Sharif really don’t deserve anything but to die and I would happily be the executioner as it would make our society so much better. Until there was a case where the wrong person was killed.

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“Pakistani rape gang participants”

even though they are also grooming victims?

OtterlyAstounding · 14/07/2026 12:06

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/07/2026 12:05

Yes saying you’d want to kill your son for being a murderer or rapist is really strange (and if you actually did this, everyone would be saying “well that’s why her son is a murderer then”)

I didn't say I'd want to. Or that I would do it.

I said I'd feel it was my responsibility, as I'd brought them into the world.

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/07/2026 12:08

OtterlyAstounding · 14/07/2026 12:06

I didn't say I'd want to. Or that I would do it.

I said I'd feel it was my responsibility, as I'd brought them into the world.

If it’s your responsibility you’d have to, wouldn’t you?

OtterlyAstounding · 14/07/2026 12:08

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/07/2026 12:06

“Pakistani rape gang participants”

even though they are also grooming victims?

Do you feel sympathy for boys and men who choose to gang rape girls?

OtterlyAstounding · 14/07/2026 12:10

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/07/2026 12:08

If it’s your responsibility you’d have to, wouldn’t you?

No, not necessarily. People shirk their responsibilities all the time. And feeling responsible isn't the same thing as being responsible. Additionally, regardless of responsibility, breaking the law is best not done.

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/07/2026 12:10

OtterlyAstounding · 14/07/2026 12:08

Do you feel sympathy for boys and men who choose to gang rape girls?

Gangs are formed by grooming.

i can’t say I feel sympathy particularly, but this is a fact and our justice system should work on facts not our sympathies

your question isn’t the gotcha you think

OtterlyAstounding · 14/07/2026 12:15

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/07/2026 12:10

Gangs are formed by grooming.

i can’t say I feel sympathy particularly, but this is a fact and our justice system should work on facts not our sympathies

your question isn’t the gotcha you think

It wasn't a gotcha. It was a question.

I'm not sure why you brought up the fact that these gang rapists and abusers were groomed into gangs, unless you were trying to elicit some degree of sympathy, though? Because otherwise, how is it relevant that they were 'groomed' into committing violent acts of sadism against others?